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Awkward person blues 2016-10-21 11:32:22 Post No. 17690455
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Hey /adv/
I'm graduating soon from a very preppy university. I'm not preppy-- I tried so hard to fit in and make friends, but I never could really form close friendships or relationships with anyone I met.
I feel insecure just about myself as a person. I'm trying. I take care of my appearance and work to figure out what I like and pursue it, but I just don't know anyone else like me, in a very bad way. I'm worried I won't be able to find close friendship or love after I graduate and move away. Any advice at all would be much appreciated. I'll list some stuff that both makes me happy, but I'm also often insecure about.
>21y. o. virgin girl; not Christian, just shy.
>bi
>multiple tattoos
>very big loner, I do all my hobbies alone (hike, and write bad poems)
>don't really drink much because all the times I drink, I don't say no to guys who touch me and then feel skeevy for very long time.
Just, it would be nice to hear from someone who could give me an outside perspective. Does it get better? How do I make it better? I'm painfully insecure and awkward and feel like a charity case to even talk to. It's not really a nice feeling.
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I know what you're going through, at least to an extent, difference being I went the extra mile of fuck-up and dropped out.
If you want a totally honest thought? Yeah. It does get better. I mean you can come to that conclusion yourself, just think about it: You're in a place you don't like and the day you get to bounce is coming quick.
Man, you're twenty-fuckin'-one. I'm not old enough to wave a cane at you but even I know that gives you a shitton of time to get the engine started. If you keep yourself healthy and dont waltz in front of cars, youll have at least another fifty on your timer. You cant honestly believe you wont make something work until then, right?
Really, the big offender I find is just that you dont enjoy the community your college harbors, that presumably being the thing that eats up most your day its not exactly out of left field to think thats all there is.
First thing I did when I jumped ship from my school is crash at some card shop. I didnt talk to anyone for nearly a week just because I was mostly described as abrasive in class. Hardly a trait you wanna advertise.
After that, I just really wanted to know how shit worked and asked questions. /That's/ where the ball starts rolling. If you can't do it now, do it when you graduate, but go to a gathering ground where people share your interests. Its just not possible you wont find a kindred spirit, at least one, that you can forge a friendship with.
This is discounting the possibility of you being a psycho killer. In which case all your possible friends are in prison or Mexico.
Pic unrelated. Have a laugh, those also help. Only way to go now is up.
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>>17690593
Hey anon, thank you so much! That makes me really happy to read. And it's smart-- I hadn't thought of finding a place like that here, but surely it must exist. And I'll make sure to get that Bachelor's degree at the end of this year. Hugs!
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>>17690455
Are you fat?
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>>17691189
Godspeed, anon. Glad my glorified rant helped
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>>17690455
>insecure about being a virgin
>female
does not compute
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Aww OP there should be more girls like you out there.
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