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I'm too good in bed... ?

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I rarely frequent this board, but I have a bit of a puzzling situation.
>recently married
>we were both virgins
>wife is 25; i'm 26
>both fit, fulltime jobs, 8/10's, religious

We've been married for three months now, and we're getting into the swing of sex. The first few weeks was painful for her, but now she enjoys me. I'm 6" girth 7" long and last a long time... which is the problem. She gets off after ~10 minutes, but it'll take me a solid hour sometimes. She's screaming and moaning, but she's burnt out after ~30 minutes and can't go anymore.
Tonight ended in her crying because she thinks she's not good enough to get me off and runs out of stamina. She told me she'd rather me orgasm than herself, because she likes to see how happy I am throughout the day afterward. I've tried time and time to cum within a few minutes, but I can't. It takes me a long time, even though I'm rock solid. Have any of you been in this situation before? What do I do?

>tl;dr I last too long in bed and wife runs out of energy
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>>17689889
Why not jerk off to the point of cumming before sex? Or jerk off during sex or something?
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>>17689889
head.
/thread
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>>17689889
Circumcised?
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Foreplay is the great equalizer. Usually it's used to give the woman the extra time she needs, but there's no reason that can't be reversed if that's what the partners need, as you two apparently do.
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> Says: I'm too good in bed
> describes how he sucks in bed

the girls needing to get used to your penis size is normal with any non-slut

that you cant cum, is your problem? are you cut? did you wank very often?

best fix for the moment: wank during sex then cum in or on her and make her happy, she can help you with it.
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Lasting forever doesn't mean you're good in bed. Being good in bed means you can give your partner what they want & when they want it. How often do you masturbate or look at porn? That can severely affect your ability to orgasm during intercourse.
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Stop jerking off. You've desensitized your dick most likely. It'll take time to get it back to not needing a death grip. Make no mistake, this is your fault, not hers. Fortunately, you can fix it.

In the meantime, blowjobs are amazing and she'd probably be down for it to get you off. Couple tips for her from a guy who's had good head and terrible head. Femanons, feel free to take notes:
1. No teeth. At no point should teeth touch anything.
2. You don't just put your mouth on it, you suck the damn thing like a popsicle. It doesn't suck itself. Head motions, up and down on the shaft, rotate a bit, it all feels wonderful.
3. Swallow, don't spit. Keep going as he's coming in your mouth, that's literally the best part when the dick is at its most sensative.
4. Don't kiss immediately after. It's weird. I know it's a double standard, I know it doesn't make sense. Still, just don't do it.
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>>17689889
you're probably gay
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I had this problem then I got a hot ass girlfriend and ended it
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>>17690494
This. I always blow it after 5 minutes but I know the good positions that make my partner react and it's guaranteed she'll cum once. Twice or even three times when I'm rocking the 10 minutes limit.
Sex better, not harder. 30 minutes is ridiculous.
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>both fit, fulltime jobs, 8/10's, religious
You sound full of yourself.
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I had the same issue for years and my partner felt the dame as yours). I know how you're feeling.

I think a large part of what helped me get past the issue was stopping using condoms, and just being more relaxed about having kids one day. I don't know how much that helps you OP but I just wanted to share my experience.

It's nobodies fault, it's just how it is.
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After she is "burnt out" from sex, ask her to jerk you off or give you head. You guys should also consider anal sex. You might try dirty talk, that can turn you both on and lead to coming more quickly.

I suggest you don't touch your dick in a sexual way, only your wife should, this may help you to be more horny and ready to come.

Also remember that sex gets better as time goes on, most people who get married have been having sex prior for a long time and so they learn what their partner likes. It's just gonna take time.

Also miring that 7x6 dig
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>>17690541
Also,

>virgin until marriage

Total fucktards.
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>>17690482
>the girls needing to get used to your penis size is normal with any non-slut

>thinks sex makes vaginas loose
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>>17689889
Have her blow you dude
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>>17690989
What he said is actually kinda true u monkey. First time i had sex with my gf it was hurting her a lot and she was soaking wet.
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>>17689889
the delusion of 4chan ppl kek
Same old story.
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My gf wants to fuck more when she cums
you should trade up for a model with better performance
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you could always just kill yourself
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>>17690475
>>17690494
>>17690506
>>17690951
All sound advice.
I will also add that if you're both each other's firsts and are religious, that you should consider exploring kinks with each other. Chances are she has no idea what really gets you off and vice versa. There's so much more fun to be had than standard foreplay and PIV.
And for god's sake - get some lube. It makes things more fun, and you don't want her to be raw for days on end. Even the horniest of women need some help if you're going for hours.
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