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How to take a Compliment 2016-10-21 02:28:21 Post No. 17689643
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I'm trying really hard not to sound full of myself
I've always been an attractive guy, but ever since I grew my hair out from a buzz cut, the response has been overwhelming. I am terribly antisocial so I have no idea what to do when people (especially guys) flirt with me. How can I stop being so damn awkward all the time?
In a span of 10 minutes:
1-
>Hey Anon, do you remember my name?
>Can I play with your hair?
>*Plays with my hair while two others talk to me*
2-
>Hey, what's your name?
>You're hot as fuck
>Just joking, I-I mean not joking but-
3-
>I love your eyelashes
>What's your ethnicity?
What am I supposed to do here? I've drafted this several times in fear of coming off as conceited, but this happens everyday. I don't want it to stop, of course, but I would like to know how to not just sit there blushing and spurting out multiple thank-you's.
Not posting self, but I'm basically Missandei
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make a stock list of 20 pre-prepared responses that are dismissive but clever. Cycle through them.
Start with:
"hey, I love your hair"
"thanks, I made it myself"
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>>17689665
That's really useful, thanks. Though I guarantee a good bit will be extremely cringy.
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>>17689692
If making a list is too hard you could always just give a compliment back. See how people respond to it. Steal behaviors and responses that you like or found charming.
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>>17689708
I thought about that, but when I'm surrounded by four girls and a guy I'm 75% sure is attracted to me, giving out return complements can be pretty tedious and weightless.
This occurs at lunch, when the entire table does a reverse roast on me daily:
>"Anon's the type of guy to make a girl stop him from pulling out just by looking in her eyes"
Feels good man, tbqh
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>>17689643
just say thank you man there's nothing wrong with that response. If I get complimented on my appearance be it face, clothing, smell etc I usually say "thank you I try really hard" with a smile
my mom always told me not to downplay a compliment. they said that for a reason
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>>17689723
Yeah I had the same thing before I stopped caring about life and grew a beard. I just developed this ironic narcissistic persona that would agree with compliments and swoon over my own appearance as a coping mechanism for the awkward. Kinda cringe if you're not funny/can't get the timing right, but it'll stop the reverse roasts dead in their tracks.
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>>17689643
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You're a lucky cunt, that's what you are. Don't complain about something that a billion people on the planet don't have but you do. Shut the fuck up and go enjoy the world.
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>>17690153
My dude, I'm not complaining about it, just asking how to not be an autist when it comes to these situations.
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>>17689643
>I am terribly antisocial
You mean asocial. Anti-social implies psycopathy.
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>>17689723
>>"Anon's the type of guy to make a girl stop him from pulling out just by looking in her eyes"
That's some fucked up shit. Does she have stds or have she had any abortions?
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