I am friendzoned, I doubt my feelings will ever go away, but I need to move on. Many of my friends tell me I am obsessed.
I NEED to move on, I accept this.
Don't say "realize it's not going anywhere"
I need some solid methods, not ideologies
>>17689392
Stuff the pain down and accept that you two will never be. Either you can control yourself such that you're willing to continue to be friends with her or you need to stop seeing her. The choice is yours.
>>17689402
I think I need to stop the friendship, thanks anon.
Damn this is depressing
Ask her to help set you up with someone.
Tell her how you feel, if she doesnt share same feeling distance youself. Trust me i have been friend zoned for 4 years and she knew what i felt about her but saw me as a friend and i was there orbiting in false hope it will change. After i distanced from her ive eventualy hooked up wih one of the hottest girls on college and had pretty good relationship.
>>17689392
Try and grasp that the Friendzone isn't a punishment.
I'ma walk you through two rejections I've had. Number one said "No thanks, I'm busy". She had no interest in me in any way.
Number two said "Really sorry Anon, I just like you as a friend"
This is good; it means I have another friend.
>>17689478
>>17689475
you two helped me a lot, but I have another question
What words do I use to tell someone how I feel?
I have never done this before, I am an extreme extrovert but this isn't something I do often.