ED

>>17687918
Masturbation does not cause ED, and if you've been to doctors there is evidently no physiological cause.

That pretty much leaves psychological issues. As weird as it sounds, something in your psyche is resisting sex. It might be half-forgotten childhood morality lessons or warnings of it being "dirty", or something else.

Whatever the originating cause is, it is certainly multiplied by performance anxiety - that is, afraid of failure, your mind gives up in advance, and on level you can't control, doesn't even try.

Some counseling on this specific problem - not years of deep analysis - might get you through whatever the block is.

In the meantime, take some of the pressure off your penis by making sure to satisfy her first. Give her an orgasm or two by hand or mouth before you even begin to think about climbing aboard. That will reduce the fear of failure and might be enough to get it up.

Alcohol probably isn't helping you very much. Other than that, I agree with the first post that it's in your head.

>>17687956
>Whatever the originating cause is, it is certainly multiplied by performance anxiety - that is, afraid of failure, your mind gives up in advance, and on level you can't control, doesn't even try.

Might be true. But as far as i remember, years ago when i started having sex i had no problems with erection. Now im sacred of every single sexy time with my girl. I have no idea how can i deal with psychological issues. Im afraid ill never get back to normal.

Thanks for answer

>>17687956
Ah and one more important thing.
No morning woods and also i cant get hard with masturbation

while it is probably mostly psychological, alcohol inhibits erections

Biggest issue is likely psychological. These things also keep themselves in motion so to say - for example, you can't get it up a couple of times for a physical reason, then psychological insecurity starts to kick in.

Masturbation can be harmful but only for doing it too roughly (deathgrip). Masturbating itself does not harm your dick.
Alcohol does.

>>17688020
If i stop drinking or at least reduce it, will i get back to normal? Or it is permament damage? Im not drinking every day, but when i do i always get wasted and this goes for 4 years already. Is it enough to damage my potency?

>>17687918
You diet and general lifestyle is just shit dude that's probably all it is. Fapping a ton will never give you ED, if anything it will help you get over it. Honestly that's the dumbest shit I've ever heard. Fapping more, figure out where your going wrong with your diet and the ways you stress yourself out.
Oh wait finally read that last bit... ya I'm sure it has mostly to do with drinking guy. Excess drinking makes you fucking inept.
Really like how you go from 'maybe I fapping too much... is it fapping too much... gosh it must be...' to stating what your issue really is. Drink less, drink WATER cuz that's what fills your meat stick, and eat organic shit. More fruits and veges boi.

>>17688032
It's hard to say with accuracy. Many young men drink a lot and most of them do not wind up with ED, especially some time after quitting. But there's no way around alcohol negatively impacting ability to get hard. Most full on alcoholics (think middle aged men who have been drinking their whole life and going overboard with it for years) do struggle to get hard.
It's always a good idea to take it easier. Don't forget that alcohol is a damaging substance not just to your body but your brain. Most everyone has bad habits at some point, the important thing is to curb them before they start starring in your life. But as I mentioned already I think by this point psychological reasons play at least as big a part. It is humiliating to not be able to perform during sex and that can make it really difficult to stay relaxed and at ease in the future.

>>17688032
Uuuuuuuuh. Uuuuuuuuh Uuuuuuuuh
Ya it is. More than enough.

Thanks for all your help. I apreciate it.
It will be hard to stop drinking, because i like it and it helps me to socialize. But seems like i need to stop and i will. Im desperated . Also no more porn, just in case. You guys never disapointed me, thanks

>>17688032
Alcohol is one of the causes of erectile dysfunction due to motor functioning