Pregnant with first child, im hoping it is a boy. How best to

>>17687841

Does he have a father?

>>17687846
Yeah my husband.

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>>17687841
Don't give him mommy issues. Don't constantly tear down men/him when you're around him. Don't destroy your husband/his father how it's extremely easy for women to do in this society.

>>17687848
Does he have a mother?

>all of those except a gamer
Thanks for reminding me how shitty my existence is. I wish you would add tranny so I could have two things that aren't making me awful

>>17687841
Force him to do activities with other people or outside.

>>17687849
#4 on that is bullshit. I was disciplined in public/in front of family and have never backed down/felt weak in regards to others.

>>17687841
Get him to socialise with people his age. Get him to exercise and feed him well.

Encourage him. Don't humiliate him. Love him and spend time with him. Give him rules, explain why those rules exist, get him to follow them.
Treat his dad well and be a good example.

>>17687851
Why do you think you turned out so shitty?

>>17687863
Being born with something out of my control. I was raised perfectly, none of that freudian bullshit applies to me. if could change any of this I would. I wouldn't wish this shitty disease on anyone. I suggest you look up how to not have your son get autism at birth.

>Beat him if he does dumb shit.
>Make him do chores, helping with yard work.
Require him to be outside at least 1 hour on school days, and 3 on weekends.
>Make him play sports, but don't force him to play a sport he doesn't show interest for, just move him onto something else.
>Don't feed him microwave food, and don't own a microwave, have him figure out how to cook.
>Don't send him in his room to be "grounded," make him do work.
>Don't give him a PC, or tablet to freely use at a young age. (Diablo 2 on the PC sucked away my soul, and gave me the downs.)
>Make sure the dad takes him out to games, shooting, running, hiking and shit.
>Teach him how to cook, and do laundry and shit.
>Hide a porn magazine where you know he'll eventually find it, don't let him have easy access to porn on the computer, let him sniff out for the magazine.

That's all I got.

>>17687869
Well I am taking prenatal vitamins and eating well. Husband has been cooking salmon for me every night since the pee stick said preggo.

Dont smoke or drink.

So can only hope the genetic mix is advantageous.

>>17687841

Put him in sports.

Show him a healthy relationship, never henpeck your husband.

Have your husband teach him manly things.

>>17687871
Is this what your parents did or what you wished they did?

The cart is way ahead of the horse here.

The kid isn't even born yet, or known to be male.

>>17687841
>I feel like being born a white male at this time in history is predispositioning him to be a cuck beta malcontent.

Please, please get off 4chan and use common sense.

>>17687876
Yeah. The genetics is the biggest role and the other things that play a factor aren't as noteworthy. A google search would keep you on the safe side and you seem well disciplined. I wouldn't consider myself a 'sperglord' but I do know people that got to that level and I think that's where the whole upbringing piece takes a role. I'm on the right track, but it is harder for people like me. It's not impossible to get things in life done with this disease, but yeah if you are suspicious your child has this get a diagnosis right away

>>17687882
I did the whole tracking ovulation thing (they have sticks to pee on to tell you) and had sex right at ovulation. The Y sperm are lighter and swim fast but dont last as long as X, so if you want a boy you should have sex right at ovularion so they get to the egg first.

But your partly right, theres still a chance its a girl.

>>17687841
how old are you? Is his dad gonna be around?

>>17687884
Maybe 4chan has warped my perception since I have read volumes of that shit here and fear the trend is not localized to 4chan.

>>17687900
Im 30, he is 29. Together 8 years married 1.

>>17687841
not getting him circumcised AT ALL would be a good start.
no, not even when he's 10, 12, or 18.
NEVER.

>>17687925
This is interesting. Why not, his father is?

Reminds me just recently watched 'bad moms' (shitty comedy, laughed once) and they made fun of uncut penis. Cut is social norm anon.

>>17687925
Ya let's all just ruin our children's future and hygiene.

>>17687841
Invest for him make him a trust fund baby, but more importantly make sure he understands that education is a business.

Otherwise he'll get caught up in the Bachelor's rat race which usually gives nothing but unhappiness and depression.

Also, and this may seem counter-intuitive, make sure he enjoys life. Stress the importance of happiness and personal growth. When people go autismo neet mode it's usually because they got burnt out on life.

Basically, just make sure he's always moving forward. It may not be in a direction you approve, but as long as he keeps going he'll be well off.

I can't believe a retarded intactivist tried to turn this into a circ debate. Quit obsessing over baby dick.

Instead of listening to a retard anon about your child's health, discuss circumcision with your physician or future pediatrician (whom you should go ahead and start looking for).

>>17687925
this

>>17687841
You sound like you will make a terrible mother, he will likely end up in prison

>>17688069
If it's for white collar crime, I'd be proud.

>>17688083
lol are you living in the ghetto or something

>>17687841
Introduce him to girls early on, dont be cutesy or tease him about liking girls or he'll get embarrassed and might literally tell you to fuck off(or use whatever the worst word hes learned thus far) congratulate him maybe, comment on how hes good with girls perhaps if you feel it warranted, but dont put too much attention on it, this is if you want to add some "manly" ingedients to his growing up, if anything will remove a man from his house, it's the promise of spending time with a pretty girl

>>17688087
No, just implies he had a head for business but got too greedy/flew to close to the sun ala Wolf of Wall St.

>>17688026
Yes, removing half of the rolling skin system on a man's penis would achieve this

>>17688096
Hahahahaha

>>17688026
Alternatively you could teach him to clean his dick properly every time he is in the shower, which he should be doing daily, like the rest of us.

>>17688104
Do you feel strongly about it because you have penis problems due to circumcision?

>>17688106
Do you think i feel strongly about it? I couldn't give a shit about other mens dicks but I love the opportunity to call out fuckwits on their high horses, which I do feel strongly about to a degree I guess.

1. don't get him circumcised, it's fucked up, has no benefit and makes the tip of his dick scarred and numb
2. get off 4chan for some perspective, the world isn't out for men's blood
3. however, realize that undermining your husband is bad....I don't mean disagreeing with him....but humiliating him over petty shit will fuck up your kid

also don't name him Caeleonnn or some gay shit

- a woman

>>17688120
Elliot is a good name right?

also - over half of new babies in the US aren't circumcised. he'll fit in just fine. my boyfriend isn't cut, and at age 25 he's never had a problem with women because of it. all he needs to do to clean it is pull back his foreskin in the shower and use water. when you're cut, you lose a huge amount of nerves...less sexual pleasure, and for no real reason. the "1% less chance ' of STDs thing is not well founded....and condoms prevent 99% of stds anyways

please research it - it isnt right to mutilate your son, just like you wouldn't cut up your daughter's genitals

>>17688125
yeah :)
are y'all giving him a middle name?

>tfw got generic Catholic girl middle name and not a cool great-aunts name or anything

>>17688135
Lol that was not me, OP is naming him alexander.

I assume inlaws will pick middle name.

My own russian name has 4 parts to it. Makes me feel hispanic.

>>17687841
red pill him on girls right away and let him know women hate nice guys. this will improve his chances of getting laid and becoming a normie.

>>17687841
Well, on the other hand, being born a white female at this time would be predispositioning her to be a slave slut to cock.

At least white guys have a good chance of popping off a Holocaust or Genocide like they're so good at and swing right back up on the throne.

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>>17688469
>Holocaust or Genocide

>>17687876
>salmon for me every night
Enjoy your mercury poisoned retarded baby

As a 20 something white male, can confirm not good to be this in society right now. I actually look at my skin in utter disgust, Im German and Italian mix with pale skin and brown hair. The color of my skin disgusts me, Im fit and eat very well so its healthy and clear.

You can't really raise him not to be that. I saw some kids parents who were like jock and cheerleader the fucking son did larping and was a social outcast.

My dad is out spoken, outgoing guy. Im a fucking CS nerd who is introverted, shy, and quite. Obviously women don't speak to me.

My uncle is a VP of an engineering company and isn't really outspoken, nor too outgoing. His son is outspoken, out-going, not very bright and fucked close to 100 girls.

>>17688476
Yep. Regular ol', gather em by a mass grave and mow them down, or Holocaust 2.0, get dressed up in Jackboots and march them into the oven.

Raise him to stand up for himself, push him to succeed. Do the same thing even if it's a girl

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>>17688469
>Be Jew in 3rd Reich
>Hiding from the SS in my attic
>They find me
>Get gassed 6 million times
>Write a book based on this true story

Tfw

>>17687841
Don't circumcised your son. Take the time to wash his foreskin like a decent parent until he can do it himself instead of just cutting off his foreskin to remove the .04% extra chance he'll have a UTI.
and no beta gags, circumcision only "prevents AIDs" because in shuttle countries where showering daily isn't common like Uganda where this test was done, bacteria is harvest in foreskin. Just like the smegma between the labia minora and majora and even your fucking toes. You'll be more likely to get sick if you don't wash yourself.

Don't coddle him like modren men are. Make him do an activity, doesn't have to be sports but something social. Make him do housework, every kind, and make him do his share, but don't go full controlling bitch and hover him, teach him until he learns and then trust him to do it right. Keep on top of his homework and make him do it, unless it's a ridiculous amount like sometimes teachers do nowadays. If he has trouble in school and they say he had ADHD or ADD it's bullshit unless you see he can't sit through an episode of tv or can only play video games for a short while, do not medicate. If he shows signs of having troubles socially or emotionally, get him to therapy.

Mostly just don't let him sit around on his ass while you catter to him. That's 99% of mens problems.

>>17687933
>Cut is social norm anon.
I hope Child Protection Services learns about you and throws your stupid ass in jail.
What sorry excuse of a mother are you?
Do you hate your child so much already that you want to gamble with its health for no reason and without necessity?

What is wrong with you?

>>17688106
There was a guy posting yesterday about he literally can't feel his dick because they damaged it during the circumcision. The fact that women even post about how they think it's acceptable to mutilate their male children is unbelievable. Can you even imagine trying to say the same about female circumcision? We evolved to have a foreskin, the vast majority of men in the world live with a foreskin, it's perfectly fine and I honestly shouldn't even have to say this.

>>17687876
salmon has one of the lowest levels of mercury out of any fish but I'd still be mindful of that if you're eating it *every* night

also, this is dark, but don't make the mistake of telling people outside your immediate family until you hit the 2nd trimester. Miscarriage is more common than you think and the more people knew you were pregnant, the more you have to announce that to if it happens (my mom learned this the hard way)

>>17687841
>predispositioning him to be a cuck beta malcontent.
It totally is.
But having a great mother and father helps this greatly.
My parents had us work very young. Having skills really helped my confidence.

>>17687933
>Why not, his father is?
Different anon here. I am circumcised because my father is, my sons are because their mother wanted them to.
I wish I wasn't. I have a really hard time coming because my glans just isn't very sensitive. My (adult) son recently mentioned he had the same issue. I now regret having him circumcised.

>>17688956
>my sons are because their mother wanted them to.
Disgusting.