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Girl bullshit 2016-10-20 06:49:13 Post No. 17687349
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Girl bullshit Anonymous 2016-10-20 06:49:13 Post No. 17687349 [Report]

>at work
>break
>text gf about how I calculated a reasonable budget so we can start saving towards a house or car
>seems to be negative and tries to correct every calculation
>I just get the vibe she's not interested
>tell her how I feel
>she thinks I cracked it
>now she's mad
>cmonson.gif
>tells me how can she come off as uninterested when she is and how tf she'll be able to seem interested if being interested isn't enough (bit confusing that one)
>we literally had an argument about this except it was me in her shoes
>let her know this is de ja vu
>says wow trust u to bring up something from 2 years ago (was actually last month)
>I reply "u were with your ex 2 years ago lol"
>"line crossed"
>dudewtf.png
>she has a knack of bringing up my past with her best friend when she's mad
>shake my head
>she says don't talk to me
>stopped talking cause this is bullshit

What now? If I text her she won't reply, but if I don't she'll think that means I don't give a shit. I do care about her a lot, but I feel like she always gets away with things cause I don't let it get to me but then if she's on the receiving end it's reeeealllly bad. Any help /adv/?

Wayne Lambright 2016-10-20 07:05:21 Post No.17687382
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Wayne Lambright 2016-10-20 07:05:21 Post No.17687382 [Report]

>>17687349
man, if you put up with bad behavior all you're gonna get is more bad behavior

Anonymous 2016-10-20 07:11:35 Post No.17687394
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 07:11:35 Post No.17687394 [Report]

>>17687349
>Make moves to stabilize long term future
>Bitch, start fight, escalate like crazy
She may not even really know what she is doing, but you do, don't you?

Anonymous 2016-10-20 09:15:02 Post No.17687557
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 09:15:02 Post No.17687557 [Report]

>>17687349
Did you ever ask her if that's what SHE wanted?
What gives you the right to change the way she lives without asking first?

Anonymous 2016-10-20 09:19:12 Post No.17687564
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 09:19:12 Post No.17687564 [Report]

>>17687557
We have discussed this many times before, she's the one saying "I hope I'm not wasting my time and you actually want this" which I do

Anonymous 2016-10-20 09:22:14 Post No.17687567
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 09:22:14 Post No.17687567 [Report]

>>17687394
She knows that if she fucks up she can piss me off until I say something she can get upset over, I know she does this

Anonymous 2016-10-20 09:36:56 Post No.17687586
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 09:36:56 Post No.17687586 [Report]

guilty of doing this shitty behavior. just be honest and say that every time she does this you feel like your opinions/thoughts/feelings on things don't matter and it feels like you're being stepped on. if you wanna try and make her listen try the sad approach instead of the mad approach.

Anonymous 2016-10-20 09:39:58 Post No.17687588
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 09:39:58 Post No.17687588 [Report]

>>17687586
Sad not mad, got it