Boyfriend's porn addiction

>>17683612
Also wanted to add:
he tells me that he doesn't masturbate to porn when he watches it but i find that very hard to believe.

find another bf

>>17683612

Have you actually tried telling him what you just wrote here in this post?

Take everything you just wrote here in your post and then actually say it to him. Right now if possible.

If you aren't satisfied with the results come back and make a new thread. Else wise enjoy your relationship.

There is no advice anyone here is going to be able to give you that will actually solve the issue without starting by talking to him, or leaving him on the spot.

>>17683623
i'm starting to feel like a lot of men are in this position with our generation because porn is so easy to access, I don't want to leave someone im in love with and live with just to end up in this position again.. so I want to find a solution.

>>17683628
I think he is in denial because when i brought this up he said that porn isnt the problem because it helps him with his sex drive. he said he would look at porn behind my back to get aroused so that we could have sex later in the day. We have been having more sex since he stopped hiding it but still not as often as I would like and the little sex we do have is so extreme like an exaggerated porn.

>>17683630
if he isn't willing to find a solution too, it's not going to work. you can't force him to change. this is a problem with him (and many men).

>>17683653
How can I tell if a man has this problem? I want to avoid this because It's happened in one other relationship I had in the past

>>17683645

Yeah okay.

If this is gonna work long term there needs to be a compromise made on both sides.

A) you need to be okay with doing some kinky and extreme things for him (like actually okay, not, "i'll suffer through this and complain about it later on the internet").

B) he needs to understand that you need attention for you and yourself, for who you are Femanon.

You need to tell him that you need more sex, that he's hurting you with his current approach to sex. You should be okay with him watching whatever fucked up insane futa-monster-rape-loli-anime-harem shit he wants as long as your actual sexual relationship is give and take, not just exclusively for him.

Sounds like you're both probably in your first relationships. Time to get used to having awkward conversations and pressing each other, otherwise you are never going to be happy in any relationship.

>>17683671

A) I actually used to loooove kinky stuff and I was excited he was into the same things as I was.. but now it feels forced because I feel like he isn't actually into me, we have no vanilla sex at all

B) im ok with him looking at nasty stuff as long as he gives me attention too and still calls me sexy and beautiful but that has come to a screeching halt

also this is his third relationship and this is my eighth so it is difficult to talk to him about these things without him really 'getting' it. Maybe he just doesn't care though and I'm not seeing it.