girls, need an opinion on this strategically-geopolitical issue:
average looking guy, excellent shape, mostly outdoor hobbies, been in long term relationships before,
but... absolutely no real close friends. How much is it suspicious/a deal breaker?
Now I don't mean some forest hermit, there is daily interaction with pals/coworkers/whatever, from time to time public events, but never the center of the party, prefers being alone and used to doing things solo/with gf only. Is it automatically a red alert?
>>17681969
Sounds like me. Never been a problem. I just claim to have friends which I do but I never hang out with them.
They seem happy enough with that. As long as they enjoy hanging out with you and you aren't clinging to them like they are your only reason for living, you should be fine you unclever pussy.
>>17682024
the problem is oh wise one that you can't really fake it for long, it becomes obvious on social media and stuff and the truth will come out soon enough
>>17682282
Still being an unclever pussy I see. I straight up tell each and every one of them that I have 0 social media and I want it that way so I'm not bothered 24/7, feel the need to keep up with every person's fucking posts, or have 24/7 distraction.
Girls always find it slightly odd since that's pretty much all they do but it's never an issue since I'm not a sperg and I know how to socialize just fine.
>>17681969
girls dont care. girls dont notice. when you start dating a girl she becomes the center of your life. the sooner that happens, the better.
i miss you kam.
>>17682337
Don't listen to this Anon. Letting someone monopolize too much of your life is awful. You have to have things outside of the relationship (friends, hobbies, etc.)