Impotence

>>17680838
Viagra

Check a doctor for blood flow issues.
Or the girl you could be with could be boring.
Or you aren't cardiovascularly fit.

>>17680850
OP here. I don't think blood flow issues are the problem, and we've been dating for almost a year, so that's not it either. I think the last one is the most probable

You are just nervous. Just tell her that and laugh it off, use your hand on her instead. I promise you, just communicate with her and it will eventually improve brah.

>>17680865
She's been really understanding about it, but I'm still nervous anyway. That's what bothers me the most; it shouldn't happen, but it still does.

>>17680862
I am the last one, some times when I go too fast I get tired and as a result soft.

Kegels and gym and running helped alot, also breathing slowly while you stroke.

If you get soft mid stroke, pull out and eat her out and try to play it off, use this as a time to take a breather and re energize your self.

>>17680838
Do you watch porn and jerk it a lot? If so, ease up on that.

>>17680883
Yeah, I've been doing that more than usual lately; I'll try to cut down on that.

>>17680881
Thanks, I'll make sure to go running tomorrow.

>>17680838
I've dealt with ED. I'm also 20 years old.

Turns out, I have mild Peyrione's from a wrestling injury. I don't see any bends but a urologist ultrasound proved I had it.

I SERIOUSLY doubt that this is true for your case. I'm like a fucking medical miracle apparently.

Take my advice: take a break from sex for about 4-5 weeks, don't incite any erections or anything. Actively avoid porn and masturbating entirely. Keep up with daily cardio during this break, maybe 30 mins a day. That should cover your physical bases.

Next, after you've done the above, are mental bases. This can be a lot harder to overcome. It's okay not to pop a boner during sex, don't fret. It's likely performance anxiety. Spend more time on foreplay. You're not there to impress her, you both are enjoying intimacy. Ease up on your concerns, and you will be absolutely fine.

OP here. I'm going to go to sleep now, but thanks for all your advice!

>>17680889
Really though, I recommend that you cut back not just on the frequency but also the intensity of what you watch. If you can get aroused by pretty soft core stuff then I think you'll have a much easier time getting in the mood with a real woman in the bedroom.