I need help
I have a friend who I'm very attracted to.
The thing is, I don't know if he's straight or not. And I don't want him to be mad at me or lose his friendship.
Little bit of background: We stayed in a friend's house on a weekend. I got to sleep close to him. I don't know how but I managed to mess with his hair until he fell asleep.
On the other day, I got to sleep close to him again. This time I massaged him all night (he was awake). He seemed to be enjoying and took deep breathes when I reached his neck.
Let's cut to now
>I'm in his house
>Came over to finish a university assignment
>Alone at night with him
>He chooses to let me sleep in his bed and goes to the couch in the living room
>No signs of affection
>I'm too scared to do something without a least a little hint that he might be wanting something more
>It's my last day here and I'm really sad about leaving his house
>I want to cuddle him
Help me /adv/
What should I do?
How do I know if he is into boys?
If the massage thing didn't happen, I wouldn't even consider going further. But that did happen and I really liked.
(Sorry about my english. It's not my mother tongue)
>>17677966
Fuck thats rough. I can see your problem cause a lot of dudes would be worried if they found out a close gay friend wanted to fuckem. But then again if he knows youre gay and he lets you touch him then you must be close.
Hell if i had my gay friend closer to where i live id let him rub my shoulders to but weve already had that "aint fuckin happenin" talk. But im 30 and i dont give a fuck what it appears to be to others. I just see it as having a half manly chick friend.
>>17677974
Sorry, I forgot. I closeted.
Nobody knows I'm bisexual.
Should I come out to him?
>>17677998
>I closeted
I'm
>>17677998
...you uhh. So he let you massage him and play with his hair.
And he dosent know you are gay.
Sorry brother but your culture is far removed from mine i fear i cant be of help man. Sorry.
>>17677966
>>17677966
I dunno what to suggest besides just having a conversation like an adult, but I wish you the best man. This sounds adorable and I want you to have some mad cuddles.
>>17678067
Brazillians are very touchy
>>17678169
I think that's the best thing to do
I'll hug him goodbye a little longer and attempt telling him.
Oh boy