Relationship worth it?

>>17677761
No, its not. It sounds like you want to make a fucking spreadsheet to weigh the pros and cons of being with people. Next youll be labeling your underwear and sorting your loose change by taste.

No one gets along completely with another for the simple fact they are another entity. What you have to realise is if what bothers you about them is in of itself stupid i.e. you dont like the way they say aluminum, v.s. a significant fucking problem i.e. this person treats waiters/ hired help like dog shit.

>>17677779
I don't expect us to completely get along, it would be ideal but probably not realistic. I don't see whats wrong with approaching it the spreadsheet way if it'll help make my decision more precise and clear. The person has her flaws, but so do I we both have growing and work to do and I'm fine with that. The issue is that I don't want to spend more time in negative spaces like arguments or anxieties caused by being in a relationship if the time spent enjoying the good parts is out weighed by the bad.

>>17677798
>I don't see whats wrong with approaching it the spreadsheet way if it'll help make my decision more precise and clear

You do realise people are not investments right? Even more so when its someone youre fuckin. The decision is pretty easy to make without making a damn piechart. You either want to be with them, or not.

>>17677806
Its not that black and white for me mate

>>17678015
Then you havent been in enough relationships yet. I dont see how you cant gauge your level of "fuck this noise" in a relationship. It takes a minute to get to know someone yes, but eventually you find that repeat offending trait that makes you wanna kick rocks.

Or maybe you dont and you have some form of low grade functioning autism, i cant be for sure.

>>17677761
As someone who sees relationships pretty logically: stay in a relationship only if the good moments are, by far, more than the bad moments.
If the relationship causes you more stress than it eases, yeah, leave.
Arguments should be sparse, brief and meaningful, and both partners should be willing to communicate and improve.

For example, yes, I feel bad when I argue with my boyfriend but we clear it after a few minutes so the distress goes away quickly. On the other hand he is my biggest supporter and the reason why I do good in life.

>>17678029
As of last night its been 30 minutes negative, 2 hours + of positive I'm gonna gage it for 2 or 3 months