So I had a short, fast relationship a while back. Things were just gorgeous and I really saw myself spending a long time with her. We broke up after our first fight when she handled the aftermath in a really immature way. I was so stressed out by that and a lot of other things I told her off and ended up breaking up with her.
I'm talking to a friend of mine and she asked me about her. I told her the story of our breakup and came to realize I still don't really get why it all happened. That same night she was gushing about how sweet I was for bringing homemade cookies to her and her family. She and I were head over heels for each other.
It was all so silly and sometimes I think about it and get frustrated because I don't know why we broke down like that. It was like a light switch. I don't ever want to date her again. It left a bad, bad taste in my mouth and actually turned me off to dating for months.
But if there's anything that kills me it's not knowing about something. Should I text her and ask for some closure?
>>17677411
You could. Contacting an ex for closure doesn't have to be a bad thing. Maybe they have some shit they wanna clear up with you as well?
>>17677411
Sounds like me and my ex - except i didn't dump her after the first one of these spats.
It took 3 years for me to finally dump her.
Honestly girls like this are just literal light-switches, all happy and then boom do one thing wrong and its cold and icy.
>>17677411
Text her if you want but i'd advise against it
>>17677560
Why's that?
>>17677494
The prospect actually intimidates me. It wouldn't be the first time I've talked to her since though
>>17677574
Girls like this man, emotions like a lightswitch and the communication skills of a brick.
Girls like this trample over guys because we don't want to make them upset, fuck that, you have a spine OP and you stood up and dumped her.
I'm not saying don't text her, but I could almost bet you'll get some snarky response that doesn't actually answer your questions.