What is creepy?

There's a reason she is on okcupid and there is a reason you are on okcupid.

If you think you are in her league just pop in with a "hey, remember me?" or something like that. BUT make sure that it isn't against your work's regulations to do such a thing or have a relationship with a student.

>>17673531

fuck.. I am almost positive it is. Which is fucked because its not like I am some greasy professor demanding "favors" for grades. I am just a fucking baker.

>>17673515
Make a fake okcupid account for a hot girl. Take note of all the weird old guys and pajeets who will flood you with weird messages and won't take no for an answer, threaten to kill you when you reject them or don't respond right away, etc. That's your baseline for creepy. As long as you're not like them, you're probably ok.

I don't think it's unethical for you to talk to her at all. It might not be a good idea job-wise for you to get involved with students, but you guys are both consenting adults. Just put yourself in her shoes and remember that she doesn't know you well enough to know if you're secretly dangerous or not yet. Sending a message like "ay bb lets fuk," for instance, is a bad call. But I'm guessing that's probably already obvious to you.

>>17673560

correct, I may even feign like I have never met her before. I feel like shit now for some reason. Even just visiting her profile seems anathema to me.

Girls seem really shy abotu okcupid. Like if someone in their real life realizes they use it.

>>17673570
It's not a big deal dude. She's probably on that site for the same reason as you.

>>17673570
>I may even feign like I have never met her before

Unless you are a pretty good liar, that can blow in your face if you two ever meet at the uni.