i hate myself and i want to die. what do /adv/
theres no silver bullet solution to your problems when youre gonna be this fucking vague
"hating yourself" and "wanting to die" arent issues. Start by identifying a problem first.
>>17673313
i have no friends and i trust way too easily so when i do make a friend i get super depressed when they dont want to be my friend anymore
>>17673327
don't be so clingy. When you get new friends and when you leave their company stop thinking about them. Just focus on something else. Then in couple of days or in a week meet them. Don't text them 24/7 and get upset when they don't reply
>>17673327
the only people i've ever considered friends weren't people who i tried to be friends with, they were people i was comfortable with. i didn't have to force anything, i didn't have to find something we had in common, we just did right away.
friendships (like relationships) have more to do with the other person, and not on the relationship itself. i didn't "make" friends, we were just friends right away, so my advice would be to not look for friends. friendships occur naturally, you can't "make" friends.
instead, you should focus on your other problem. Why do you want to die, OP?
>>17673362
i just feel like i belong in the dumpster. seeing so many people content and im worrying over so many things. makes me feel like trash. or sitting around and tryinf to do various tasks and just in the back of my mind is that i have no friends and nobody likes me. i dont even care for myself that much
suicide seems like an easy out i guess
May I ask who's the semen demon?
>>17673392
sorry i dont know found the pic in twitter so maybe you can reverse google search
>>17673299
There is so goddamn much to do out there.
I mean, I also hate myself and want to die but for sins committed, not because of depression or anything.
If you don't have a guilty conscious holding you back what the hell is?
Shit, Tinder and Bumble are a thing. Go workout for like a month or two, take some good photos and start banging qt3.14s
>>17673593
that's a good idea actually I will try that
i do kind of feel responsible for a friend's suicide but the people who also knew that person told me it wasnt my fault at the time. i was at their house asleep on their couch when they did it, it really fucked me up
>>17673609
Oh fuck man that's not your fault at all.
He made his choice. You were sleeping. You had nothing to do with it.
There's a whole world out there waiting for you. Go take it. Its yours.
>>17673370
If it makes you feel any better, op, I'm going through the same thing now. It's actually really holding me back in life, like every time I think about doing something to change my situation or better myself a lot of the time I'll just think something along the lines of "I'm just going to be alone anyway, it doesn't even matter." Do you at least have family? My mom is pretty much the only one that cares or tries to keep in touch with me anymore. I basically have no friends and every time in the past few years I've tried to talk to a girl (there hasn't been many) they've lost interest basically as soon as I've spoken to them. I live with that seasonal depression thing, too so I'm not totally sure I'm going to make it out of this winter alive.
>>17673744
most of my family is complete trash, my dad is the only good one. it feels really depressing to think that i'm going to be forever alone
>>17673794
I'm sorry to hear that, anon. Wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
The best I can hope for is to build my own family but even then I have the nagging thought that I'll be a shitty dad/husband. I never had a positive father figure and was neglected after my parents separated when I was 8. Both my parents have been divorced twice now, too so clearly I have no positive role models and unhealthy romantic relationships seem to run in my family.
>>17673299
join the club
>>17673744
>>17673299
I'm in that same boat. No friends, family doesnt understand, job is shit, gave up everything for a long distance boyfriend but its not even working out that well so I've ended up with nothing that makes me happy. I just want someone to talk to.