Hey /adv/ I need help. Decided to finally do something about being a KV. My friend invited me over to his campus for a club night. I couldn't pull a single girl while they were constantly approaching and making out with him. Hes my best friend but I felt such jealousy towards him. I couldn't imagine this to be possible. Im feel so undesirable and down right now. How can I get over this? Why am I so undesirable?
Pic kinda related
>Why am I so undesirable?
Short
Ugly
Weird
Boring
Creepy
Pick your poison.
>>17670496
There's a spectrum , right now you're on side anon , and you want to be in the middle .
Something happened to you as a kid that caused you to have intimacy issues . This made you a very needy (read: beta) man. Women hate needy men. We get it , you want sex , but you have nothing to show for it . The other side is naracisstic men . They're just like you think . They get sex but don't get much past shallow relationship and only shitty girls because a "good" girl won't stoop so low to be disrespected that often .
You want to be not be needy. Believe it or not , not demanding attraction actually makes you magnetic .
So tonight begins the night where you start to put some self value into yourself and become confident that is in no one derived what women think or how much pussy you get . Good luck , Anon.
>>17670562
But how do I get confidence? I need to succeed at least once somehow to feel confident...
>>17670620
so go and succeed at least once and get some confidence.
I was KV once.... actually we all were come to think of it. But I was a beta with no confidence. I sorta had to just stumble into my first few sexual experiences. Now that I have a fair bit of experience under my belt, its a lot easier to create more opportunities for sex and romance. Not that im some kind of pussy pulling PUA Chad. We arent all meant to be and I dont feel like you are either OP. But thats okay because its not as fulfilling as you might think.... i assume.
Dont know where im going with this... I guess my advice for you is to look for love in places other than clubs or parties. im sure you encounter plenty of women in your daily life. talk to enough of them and sooner or later one will take a shine to you. dont be picky. once you get laid the first time, youll have a much better idea of how to go about it the second time and so forth. Hope this helps.
Dunno what a KV is.Work out, get jacked. It will boost your confidence and game with girls.
Money and personality matter way more to women than to men. A good body helps.
>>17670510
Jokes on you, I'm all 5.
I did manage to snag a tall ugly weird boring creepy bf for a while though.
Women aren't worth your time; spend all the time you would spend attempting (and failing) to woo a female into becoming a powerful wizard.
Or take up another hobby, I hear drawing porn is fun.