>Date a woman for 4 years
>buy a ring and plan on proposing
>she breaks up with me a week later
>gives a lot of irrational reasons for breaking up which I don’t believe
>cut off all contact
>call friend of a friend who confirmed that she was cheating on me with her coworker
>6 months later
>out with friends drinking at a bar near sidewalk window
>see her walk by with another guy and she’s giving me a death stare
>no idea why she looks so angry at me
>today
>preparing to take my engineering licensing test
>think if there is anyone else I know who will be taking it
>realize my ex will be in there, too
How do I handle this situation? I’m pretty sure she hates me and I have no idea why. I don’t know what happened with her and her coworker or why she chose to cheat on me. Since I cut off all contact, there really was no discussion or closure to large part of my past life.
I’m worried about staying focused during an 8-hour test stuck in a room with her. Do I talk to her? Ignore her? I feel like my options are to deal with incredible awkwardness or look like a petty bitch holding a grudge.
Ignore her completely. Don't look at her, don't talk about her, just pretend she isn't there.
If she tries to engage you, walk away or ignore her
If you engage her in any way you're a fucking idiot
>>17670082
you should be focused on taking that test and so should she. Don't look at her and one of you will finish first and leave.
Anyway in answer to your other questions. She expected you to do some begging instead you did the right thing and cut all contact. And you know everything you need to know about the end of the relationship. She got a crush on a new guy and acted on it and felt strongly enough about him to ditch you and any future plans you guys had. The End
>>17670101
>If you engage her in any way you're a fucking idiot
Including proposing to her.
Hey-o.
Sick burn.
Okay bye.
>>17670082
Ignore her. Don't even look at her.
>>17670082
Dude, the whole point is to be cool as ice, like you know her and who she is, but everything in the past doesn't matter. You walked away, and didn't give a shit. At least, that's the image you're shooting for here. You don't have to be an autistic sperglord - if she talks to you, you don't have to ignore her - but just act like your relationship never happened. In the timeless words of gotye, she's just someone you used to know
She's beneath you, act upon that.