How did you meet your current significant other?

>>17667910
Blind date.

I'm one of the most cringe worthy persons and I have no clue why she stuck with me.

>>17667910
>implying that anyone that uses /adv/ is in a relationship
Anon, the only reason most Anons use /adv/ is because they are trying to hook up with a girl.

>>17667910
started kiking her because i was making fun of her in a group chat she was added to with her ex in it, she had blue hair and was a legit emo but eventually we started dating and i had a reason to get my drivers license, since i hadnt cared about getting on before. Went to prom together junior year, and i got her to dye her hair a natural color which was hard to do. And unfortunately shes a hardcore liberal and im far right. Anyway if you can text a girl whos single and hold a conversation with her for a few days you basically have got yourself a girlfriend

>>17667916
im here to ask for EU IV advice lol

>>17667910
i met her many years before we dated. when i was a fat little shit teenager. we didn't really talk. she was kinda cute but very, very quiet, so i didn't think much of her. she was a friend's sister as well, so i didn't want to be weird.

i only ever really saw her once or twice for the next few years, just at the same event. didn't talk.

like 4 or 5 years after having "met" she started talking to me on facebook.

turns out, we had a lot in common. we talked the entire night. i was lying next to my GF at the time, while she was asleep. i was so conflicted. partially because i was basically "cheating", but also my gf was massively abusive and made me feel like shit. this was the first time anyone ever REALLY gave a shit about me, and not out of obligation.

we would talk every single day for the next 6 - 12 months (we were in different countries). somewhere down that line i had to break it off with my gf, because this amazing woman was feeling like shit because i was still with somebody.

before i officially broke up with her, me and this woman had a.. fling. but it was while me and my gf were on a ""break"" (she slept with somebody else during a different break, so whatever.). she gave me a bj when i went over to her house to hang out while i was on holiday in that country. and let me tell u, she is still the single best bj i've ever had.

it was a fucking mess though. eventually we got together in the same country, and it was pretty great. we were officially together for 3 years.

last year, in october, she broke up with me. sorry, not a current gf, just wanted to put another entry into my personal blog. i would still, in a heartbeat, get back with her if she ever wanted to be with me again. but she won't. i fucked up.

>>17667937
what did you do, anon

>>17667946
i don't like talking about it. i'm still pretty ashamed honestly. but basically i broke a promise. and i've spoken to a couple of other people about it, and they don't think it's big enough of a deal for a breakup. but that doesn't matter, it hurt her enough to kill any love she had for me.

>>17667910

We were both on the rebound and prowling on CL.

Lasted 5 years, should have known it wasn't going to last since it was a rebound for the both of us.

>>17667976
What made it end?

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>>17667910
I messaged her on fb, only wanted to play around, because two or three other girls I was fooling around with were busy and well, tbqh she had the most beautiful tits and THICC ass in the school. We went out for a year or so and I fell around with her, even though I kinda knew she was into me since the beggining I didnt want to rush it. Going strong for 5 years now, she is cute af but I find myself attracted to somehow wild slutty girls with sense of humour, she is neither. Love her anyway tho

I saw her big tiddies then asked her out for coffee
She suggested alcohol instead
Now I get to play with her big tiddies :3

>>17667979

I got myself a decade younger, skinnier, prettier girlfriend on the side; that lasted 18 months.

All while I was with the the original girlfriend.

I can find em, no problem but keeping them is where the trouble is for me; I blame the ADD.

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>>17667910
im 18 and she is 17

was staying at a friends house with a few of my mates for about a week just chilling, her and a few of her friends started to come over and i knew she was the one even before we spoke to each other.

i started to notice her trying to get my attention and we started making cups of tea for everyone in the house and then in the nights we would stay up and watch films

after that week we spoke very little online and then i went on holiday, after i came back we went out a few times and then started going out late at night. i would pick her up about 11pm (she would sneek out of her house as her parents are quite strict) and then we'd go down to the beach and stay out talking and just laying with eachother in my car until around 5/6am, i would drop her back to hers before her dad woke up for work and then we'd do it all over again the next day.

that went on for about 2weeks and then she got caught and was grounded for 2weeks so after that we started going out in the days.

one night my friends were out and i brought her and her friend out to meet my mates but i said a few things jokingly to my friends which she didnt take well and wanted to be taken home. she got really upset and annoyed with me so we left it that night.

in the day i went to her house and said sorry for last night and told her i wanted her to be my gf, she said yes

been really fun and hard work since, alot more interesting and challenging than my past relationships (which is a good thing)

just hope she knows how much i love her

Met my boyfriend in 2012 when I was looking for a shared flat when I was a freshman.
Moved in with them. We were 2 girls and 2 boys.
After a few months we got close buddies: Cooking together, riding bikes together, swimming, partying, watchching movies...
One day after we got drunk together he went totally crazy. In the midddle of the night he started making out. I didn't like it, it felt wrong. Just hours before he said that he didn't want to get physical with his room mate. It ended with both of us falling asleep on his bed after he hab touched my pussy for a while. The day after and months after I kinda was ashamed of what has happend, couldn't look him in the eye. But after two months had passed I realised that I stared thinking about him almost all the time.
10 months after I met him the first time (July) I said to him that I like him a lot, he said that he liked me too but also said that he didn't want to be in a relationship with his room mate. So I sat upon his lap hugged him. He starts touching me and ends up saying yes.
This was 4 years ago and we are still together ( but dont live in a shared flat anymore). I'm from germany btw.

>>17668358
so do you live with just him now?

>>17668367
Yes, since April 2013.

>>17668368
good for you, how old are you and is it easy living with him?

i am thinking about moving out within the next 2years with my gf and could do with any pro's/cons and tips on living with a partner

We met online in 2008. I was 15, he was 17..
We chatted for a few months, then decided to meet. He travelled for 7 hours by train to be here. We spent a week together. I was fucking crazy about him.
After that week we spent together every moment we could - 2 months every summer, all through winter and spring holidays, and some weekends if we managed.
We moved in together in 2011. Still together, still pretty happy.

I'm an English teacher in Europe and my girlfriend was one of my students. We're the same age and both university students so it's not as creepy as it sounds. After a couple months of seeing her maybe once every two weeks, I decided to ask her out via e-mail since I could never see her outside of working hours. She initially rejected me saying she just wanted to be friends, but I called her on that and said I have enough friends and want something more. We went out and had great chemistry. Turns out she was just nervous and expected me to act like a guy from her country and keep insisting. We've been together for 2 years now.

I was 21, she was 17. She was a schoolmate of my younger brother, she started coming to our parent's house to play D&D along with other friends. At some point I started playing with them too and eventually we started dating. We were both somewhat cringeworthy but we grew out of it together.

This was back in 2005, I'm now 33 and we're married.

Killing and beating the shit out of some ugly gook stain bitch

>>17667967
I'm sorry to hear that man.

You have to trust the people you asked about it if they say it's not a big deal. Shit like this can eat away at your soul Anon. Try not to beat yourself up.

We met in high school, senior year. We were both really smart, though on different ends of it. She was Ms. Hyper popular, was even a homecoming queen candidate. I was a nerdy quiet kid. We had a dual enrollment college English class together and sat near each other by coincidence.
We bonded because she liked Neutral Milk Hotel and I thought that was super cool for such a popular chick ( this was mid 00s in rural Appalachia, so nmh hadn't really caught on).

We became buds but didn't hang out all that often because our friend circles were very different, and because she had a long time bf, I had this honor code of not wanting to hang 1on1 with her.
Eventually we started hanging out around each other, getting acclimated to the different friend groups. Mutual interest began budding and her relationship collapsed right around Midway through the school year.
Wanting to give her space to recover from a 2 year relationship, I continued as we were, thinking I'd make a move in a month or so

She interpreted that as a lack of romantic interest and began seeing another guy after a couple weeks.

I kind of spiraled for a couple months after that, feeling spurned, and began casually talking to other girls. Had an incredibly fierce relationship with an emo chick during this time who was literally band aid : the person for me. I wasn't interested in her all that much but she was fun and very attractive and she pulled me into her world of sex and alcohol for a solid couple of months.
Then dream girl started texting me again, confessed she was always more interested in me but was hurt that I didn't act on it. Her current bf was abusive and she jumped ship. My current relationship was pointless so I jumped ship.

Me and dream girl got married 3 years ago.

Feels good man

>>17667910
Old man (40s) here.

Every romantic relationship I've had, including my marriage, began as a friendship - with a fellow student, co-worker or just member of the gang. Over time - faster or slower - we gravitated toward each other and shifted gears into romance. So I've never "met a gf" - I've met women who became friends who begame gfs.

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>>17667910
had to substitute for my friend when he was away for conference and teach this really tedious calculus class for non-math majors, I've always hated teaching and especially this type of subject so I just sorted of breezed through everything, sighed a lot and stared at the clock, the students seemed impressed for some reason, probably because I showed them some standard analysis tricks like the epsilon/2^n trick that they had never seen before, I finished the lecture and still had like 10 minutes left, I talked to some guy about video games, finally the class was over, I jokingly announced that it was my only class and I don't teach and they probably won't see me again unless they are very lost. Afterwards, this girl came to me asked for my phone number. At that time I had a long distance relationship with another girl at the other side of the country, things looked bad, so I broke up with my then gf and started hanging out with this attractive chick five years younger than me, seemed like an obvious choice to fill my void. Then I dated her for two months and met my current gf at a party we went to. They were close friends.
>how did it progress into a relationship
My friends gave us two months, I thought we could do better. I've been extra nice, extra patient. Perhaps the progress has to do with me wanting to prove my friends wrong, you could say I played a gambit against them.

She's a friend's younger sister. She's still in college but she's always had a thing for me. She got drunk one night and asked me out. I played along but she turned out to be pretty cool.

>>17667910
We met on 4chan.

Talked endlessly about literature, philosophy, martial arts, art, lots of stuff. She really inspires me and makes me challenge myself in a way no one else has. I'm going to marry her.

>>17668910

Unfortunately I don't think this happens anymore today,or it's not as common

>>17667910
I saw her in a parking lot masturbating to a playgirl magazine. I didn't realize that PlayGirl even existed, but I felt great that both sides of the gender spectrum were adequetly represented. I decided to join her, since the gay pornography was actually quite enticing, especially with the large number of girly men in those magazines, it felt like a normal masturbation session. Please don't judge me too harshly.

>>17667937
How did you fuck it up?

>>17667937
So.... you cheated on a e-relationship with a girl who actually lives near you?

>>17667910

I met my current SO through an MMO almost a year ago.

We were in a guild together, and I was one of the leaders of said guild. I liked to make sure everyone felt welcome and did my best to chat with everyone, and she was a really shy girl who I guess appreciated that I always made an effort to talk to her. After some drama with the guild that involved me leaving, we spent a majority of the time in game alone together, just sitting, talking, getting achievements, etc. Over time we grew closer and have been together ever since.

>>17669047
omg so cringe haha

>>17667967
I'm curious...

i met him on the no pants train ride.

he was a total dork, he had business formal button up shirt with a tie, tucked into some outrageous boxer briefs, and glasses and oneof those backpacks that buckle in the front. he walks around tugging on the tightening strands of the back pack just having a great time on his own in his underwear.

we kept making eye contact, ended up at the same bar afterward, came right up to em and asked me to dance, thirty seconds later started kissing me (brazilians be passionate).

dated for a few months until i got brain damage and then i broke up with him cuz i didnt want him spending his last summer in america by my bed.

>>17669047
so cute !

>>17667910
Well one day I happened to be sitting next to her. I don't know why but we usually ended up sitting next to each other.

I looked at her that day and smiled and I could tell she liked me from that instant.

I took her out to dinner and we took a walk around town. We talked about a lot of things and we had so much in common. I don't normally do this but I asked her if she'd like to come to my room on the first date. It just felt right.

To my surprise, she said yes. I put on some Marvin Gaye and dimmed the lights as I made sweet love to her. Me and my hand have been happy ever since.

>>17669375
kek

Same school since 3rd grade but actuslly became friends and stsrted dating freshmen year of high school.

That was 8 years ago.

>>17669375
Actually is it weird that I often look at my hand and smile ?

We "met" junior year at a football game. I joined the school band to have something to do since I just moved after two years at a different school. She asked if I was gay for her guy friend and I didn't talk to her for a few months after that, but she always caught my eye in band class. Then one of my drummer friends introduced us since she had a car and we all went out a lot and the three of us became best friends. We went to the park and taco Bell most of the time, but some autumn evenings we went up to the fancy, expensive houses up in the hills. From up there you could see the lights of the whole town. Some nights it was just she and I, and we would talk for hours. One night I just told her my feelings and she hugged me. The next night we kissed. I got my first girlfriend, my first kiss, and lost my virginity in that car all in a span of three months. It's been three years, we're living together and going to the same college. I love her so much.

I met my current bf in High School. I was a new kid and I wasnt used to being around so many conservative people. There was a particular group of boys I had taken an interest to, because they all seemed to be wrapped up in their own sub culture and didnt socialize outside of their group. Turns out they all smoked pot and played video games and Magik together. I thought they were so cool and edgy. I ended up befriending their sexy ring leader, we'll call him Bo. I was so attracted to him, but he would never bite at my flirtations. The fact that he never expressed interest in me ignited an intense desire for him within me. I was used to getting my way with men. I settled for a friendship with him, and attempting to quell my yearning for him with other relationships. I became quite serious with an older guy, even lived with him. All the while, my friendship with Bo became the most solid and fullfilling relationship I had ever had. We hung out alone often and shared many intimate conversations and heated gazes. He became my closest companion that I could always call on. There was immense sexual tension between us, and over time he started to subtley imply romantic feelings for me. Our encounters became very playfully flirtatious, in a cat and mouse sort of way. I respected the sanctity of my current relationship, so even though I still had immense desire for Bo I tried my best to keep it platonic. Ill admit that our conversations would sometimes veer into dangerous territory, and we would often massage each other. I could always feel his sexual intent with his firm grasp and the way his hands would linger on my waist and neck. My bf at the time was never affectionate and never touched me so I couldnt help but indulge in Bos touch, even if it was a little inappropriate. We had also both expressed deep fondness and concern for each other. We both knew that we were thinking and wanting similar forbidden things... ah this has become too long! Shall I continue?

>>17669047
I wish my love would play WoW with me.

>>17669476
don't fucking ask just continue

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>>17667910
A blind date set up by mutual friends
First was a double date to a place none of had ever been - the food was terrible!
The next night we watch Star Wars a New Hope
I had to go on a business trip; we wrote each other the entire time. She met me at the airport with the couple than introduced us so we have a picture of our first kiss (from the airport).
After dating 6 months I proposed - a year after that we married

>>17669428

I do the same!

But then I shoot over 90% from the free throw line and I'm over 50% from behind the arc, so my hand deserves it.

>>17667910
Wow
OK, long story
>My dad was a doctor in Amish country, so we lived in the middle of effing nowhere
>The closest farm to out place was 3 miles and there was a boy my age there - we became good friends. When we were 15 his 12 year old niece (yes) came to stay with them for the summer. She was pudgy, had thick glasses, frizzy hair. She was shy, quiet, and depressed. But she was smart as fuck and I knew she was teased a lot so I was nice to her. And she really opened up. She learned how to swim and ride a horse. She was a different, happier, confident kid when she left (and 13, after a birthday)
>Next Summer she came again. She was heavier, and really depressed again
>Eventually found out she was teased all the fucking time about her weight and it made her sad, so she ate. She opened up again and had another great summer with her uncle, me, and my sisters and before she left I told her, basically, 'success is the best revenge. Just be better than them and ignore the fuck out of them'
>Turns out her family went to England, of all fucking places, for her dad's work. We got post cards from some boarding school she went to in the UK
I told you it was long
more

>>17669607
>I go off to college and am having a great time, although I can't get a 'real' relationship
>Get the occasional email or letter from [shit - let's call her Ellie] from the UK. She loves it there, has made friends, all sorts of fun it seems.
>Summer before my Junior year she sends me a cryptic note that she will be visiting me. Cool
>Summer ends, she didn't come by. Kinda' sad. Go back to school
>Third day back this girl is at the door to my apartment.
>Long, black hair. Big blue eyes. Stunning, lingerie-model figure
>I say 'can I help you?'
>She says [with a vague accent] 'don't you recognize me?'
>Because of the thread, it is obvious - she was an incoming freshman.
>She picked that college because I went there. She had decided I was right and, as she put it, 'spent the ages of 14 and 15 just swimming and eating salad with tuna'
She had been a competitive swimmer in school and was on the college swim team, although she laughed her boobs were too big to let her hit real speed.
>We've been dating for a while and plan to marry after she graduates in the Spring

>>17669628
moving story, congrats

>>17667910

Attended a housewarming party with my "friend". Got smashed, smoked a joint, was properly fucked up, and at that point my "friend" decided to spike my drink with whatever he had on him. I spotted a cute girl, I went up to her, she couldn't stop laughing at how fucked up I looked. I collapsed and woke up in her flat.

Woke up. I'm in a strangers' bed. I'm in my briefs, she's fully clothed. I check my dick. Ain't wet. She wakes up after what seemed like an hour at least, gets up, opens a beer, takes a shower. I wake up, get dressed and sit down on the couch. I look around, searching for an escape route. Books everywhere. Camus, Freud, shitloads of Dostoyevsky and motherucking Sartre and Kant.
You have to know; I'm a lit nerd and I was surrounded by IT and engineering dorks most of the time because of my studies. I've rarely met any other person whose literary interests went further than Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter. I was praying to Allah to give me a well-read, pretty, de-facto alcoholic girl. I had no idea what happened the night before so I thought I was still good. Didn't shit or piss myself, no drool on my pillow, can't smell fart, couldn't embarass myself too much.

She comes back with wine, spills me a glass, sits down in front of me, giggling like she's retarded. I drink and ask if she wants to grab some food. She said yes. We get some pastries and coffee. I mentioned the books I saw in her flat. We set up a date for the next day. It was good.

I was 19 back then. It's been 6 years. We both stopped doing drugs and drinking that much, we "matured" together.

Side-story: There was a hired camera-guy at the party. There's footage of me "dancing" with her. I'm sloppily side-stepping while she's awkwardly supporting my weight. I'm seen in the background, mumbling and laughing with her next to me. I walked out with her, apparently. I just can't remember that part.
For those wondering, my friend bailed because he thought I'd need an ambulance.

>>17669476
Even though our friendship was becoming semi intimate, my current bf didnt care. He had told me in the past that if I wanted affection that I should go out and date others as long as I came home to him. Im not into that sort of thing so the fact that he was so flippant about it just hurt me. Then Bo confessed to me. He told me he had loved me for years and that he wanted to give me the love and affection that I craved. He said that our friendship was becoming painful for him and he couldnt hold in his feelings any longer. I wanted so badly to accept his feelings and express the love I felt for him too but I stupidly held on to my dead relationship. I began fantasizing about Bo all the time and resenting my current bf and his lack of passion. The relationship became too empty for me and even though I was afraid hed do something terrible to me or himself I had to end it. Bo helped me move into a room I found on craigslist. I felt like I was a kid running away from a bad home and Bo was saving me. After I was moved into my room we sat on my mattress on the floor and talked like usual. He started timidly rubbing me and I spread out on the bed and told him to touch me however hed like to. His touch was so tender and sweet. He began visiting me almost every day and we slowly started amping up the intimacy with each visit. We are now together officially, and hes still my best friend. Ive never had a deeper love for anyone, and we both eagerly meet each others needs and desires. We are so compatible and similar that we sometimes worry that we are related. We will occasionally role play that Im still with my ex and were just friends.. We both remember how we acted as friends so vividly that we can recreate the intense tension we felt perfectly and we really get off on that hehe! So, I got what I wanted. It just took 5 years

>>17669669

I've never mentioned the videos to her. Don't know why. When I'm feeling down or we have relationship issues, I watch them and feel better afterwards. It's somehow endearing. The pure joy on my face from being fucked up. Her smile as she's trying not to fall under my weight. My stupid face as I talk unintelligibly. Her worried expression when I almost fall from my chair. My fucked up hair, my torn shirt, her eyes she can barely keep open, her intact make up not matching her ruined, wine-stained clothes. We looked like we were born to be together even though at that point, I was conscious for what seemed like 10 minutes after meeting her.

>>17669593
my hand occasionally helps me write down thoughts, constructing proofs, proving theorems, writing codes but honestly it's too slow at this point. So the only time it shines is during sex when I put my finger into my gf's mouth.

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Thread is sweet as hell but reminds me I'm going to be alone forever, I'll get used to it someday

>>17669762
did you seriously read other people's wall of text instead of writing your own lmao, that's like volunteering to be the last in line to use a public toilet.

>>17669762
Grill. 21. Never had a kiss.
We just have to better ourselves.
I hope.

>>17669785
>21. Never had a kiss
Do you live in the Middle East or Asia?

On here. First we were friends for a year then things went further. We have been in a ldr for a few months now but it seems it's coming to an end due to her being very depressed and messed up by her childhood. I just wish I could be there with her right now.

>>17669587
>6 months

Why so soon? I mean its your call but I just never understood why anyone would get married so quickly. There are still a lot of things to learn about a person even a year in.

>>17669797
Nope

>>17669818
Africa?
otherwise you'd have to be a unicorn if you are a white girl.

>>17669797
Not him (almost 28 kissless virgin), but close. Midwest rural north america

>>17669811
Talking with some of my happily married friends, the general consensus is "sometimes you just know she's the one."

Of course when you're in your late 20s and have been playing the dating game since the beginning of high school, you generally know what you want so that helps

We went to some child care facility together when we were kids, my school held one on the school holidays that was open to other schools. We were really close but as it was the 90s as our parents never met to exchange numbers and arrange playdates outside of child care we lost contact as we had no other way of exchanging contact details without parents.

Years later we then met at university without realising. We started going out and a week or two later the topic of where we went to school was bought up. He mentioned he went to the child care thing at my school and after swapping stories we realised we were childhood friends.

>>17669785
Hope you get yours one day, learn to love yourself first, I'm trying to do that

>>17669837
It's really funny, because location doesn't matter if you're an aspie. I live in Miami and I'm 26 but I've never had a gf or been kissed much less have sex. It's not that I don't get out either. I'm semi active: I go to cons, have a fulltime salaried job, go to south beach, go to bars with friends etc.

It's just that I can't talk to girls.