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There's an old photo from 3 years ago on a former friend (more like frienemy) posted on another former friends fb wall. It was 'banter' and didn't offend me at the time but now would like it gone. Especially with the 'on this day' feature facebook has now I'm paranoid it will be shared again (one of the former friends constantly 're-shares' the on this day stuff).
Would it be petty to ask for it to be removed all these years later? I feel weird asking especially considering I don't talk to either of them anymore. Should I report the photo to be taken down? Does it notify them that it was reported and does fb generally take down things you report?
I'm not sure how to go about it but would really like the photo removed but I'd almost feel embarrassed asking people I don't speak to anymore to take it down. What would be my best option?
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This is the downside of photos on the internet; not sure how to help but here's a bump
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>>17667531
contact facebook customer support
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>>17667647
thankyou for the bump
>>17667648
do they reply?
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Bumping, would really appreciate some advice
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>>17667994
sorry man, we're not facebook so we don't really know their policy. Contact them about this. otherwise my only advice is to contact whoever's wall it's on and ask them to delete it, since that's pretty much your only recourse if you aren't willing to contact facebook
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>>17668021
I was thinking about doing that but would it be weird/petty to ask him? We kind of had a falling out so I'm reluctant to start discourse but I really want this photo removed.
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>>17667531
Delete your entire facebook account.
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Don't draw attention to it and just pretend it doesn't exist. If they know it's a sore spot they could use it against you and taunt you with it. Imo it's easier to move on with your life and if you see it again ignore it or even laugh. No one can force you to reply to that shit, unless you're running for president lol.
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>>17667531
You can't delete it, but you can make it so that it will never go on your timeline. Maybe a friend of a friend might see it, but who cares? Those people already know of you, but you can minimize the risk of new friends seeing it.
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>>17668095
thats true. I was never really bullied but I copped a lot of the lad 'banter' and I decided I'd never put up with it ever again. the photo in question was basically an unflattering photo captioned making fun of me for not having a GF at the time being a reason why I work out a lot (I do have a GF now)
>>17668108
I did untag myself from it. I could probably even deactivate my fb for the day to avoid it if it gets re-shared, however I don't want it to be re-shared
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Tough situation OP, best of luck
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Pretty sure facebook notifies if the post is removed when you report.
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>>17668738
Interesting
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