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GF wants to join group BDSM group 2016-10-13 23:52:39 Post No. 17667299
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We've both been in a relationship/living together for several months.
I fuck her brains out whenever I get the chance, but she generally does nothing exciting in bed.
Despite this, she has some weird friends who have convinced her to go to this BDSM group. The group is public with lots of weird and gross people in it, that I wouldn't even want to see half naked.
GF is bi (apparently) and I said only if it's with girls and I'm there. She is saying she wants to go to these group things and do shit like being tied up etc, maybe bring a girl home.
I really don't want groups of strangers seeing or doing anything to her. I feel like things could quickly escalate into something I'm not comfortable with and would end up destroying my relationship with her.
It also makes me feel awful like she needs more to satisfy her. And that she might just end up dumping me if she finds some girl she actually likes. I just don't know what to do.
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You talk to her and be fully honest. Ask her if you are satisfying her in bed and ask what she likes to get her going. Be brutally honest with her as well and tell her she isn't doing that much in bed.
Then after the discussion, tell her that you will be willing to do BDSM because you love her but only you. Be upfront and bold dude, don't be unsure of yourself.
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>>17667316
if op's gf were a normal female that'd be a great idea
but she's a sub
tie her up one day without asking and fuck her like youre trying to hurt her. then as shes getting close, grab her face and say 'look bitch, youre not fucking anyone but me' or something like that. assert your dominance.
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>>17667322
>>17667316
We had a talk. I do satisfy her and I'm sure because she cums like mad and then nearly passes out when she does.
I made it really clear I didn't want to do anything with this group and she got really upset and said she didn't want to choose between me or going to it. Which I couldn't really believe
She's never actually done bondage which is why it's so fucking confusing because she doesn't even know if she likes it. It seems like she's more interested in meeting and doing things with a girl.
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>>17667362
She is bisexual and so she might try getting a girl involved in this. You might get a threesome and so be open.
Swallow your pride and join her for one meet up dude.
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>>17667362
>she didn't want to choose between me or going to it
that sucks OP. she obviously doesn't respect your boundaries. i can't really see the relationship working
this is why i'm glad that i have a gf who is okay with monogamy. so many people (not just girls) want to have their cake and eat it too
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