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gf is a prude

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I love my girlfriend, I really do, but we have some differences that I try to deal with but ultimately it bothers me intensely.

I'm a very sexual person, never had a relationship without some freaky shit going on. Except for this relationship, where my gf refuses to even consider sex until marriage, and even then there's a likelihood that it wont happen.

I'm an atheist and my gf is hardcore christian, we're fine with eachother's religious differences except she refuses to have sex like, ever, and although I love her I cant figure out if it's even worth it.

What do?

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Other than leaving her all you can really do is try to figure out exactly what drivers her decision not to have sex.

Most of the time it's years of sexual repression and shame, which means she really can be quite freaky if you get past this barrier

As to the concept of waiting till marriage itself you could argue it as ultimately demeaning to women rather than respectful.
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You either deal with it or break up. There's no getting around this
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Listen to something like the "My Dad Wrote a Porno" podcast together and make sex not seem so serious.
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OP, you don't love her. You don't love her because you don't respect her. A big part of respecting someone is respecting their beliefs, and as you yourself describe, an important part of her identity is her faith. All of the advice in this thread is coming from the assumption that something is wrong with her in order for her to be this way. That does not sound like the case to me.

If you actually care for this girl you will respect her heartfelt wishes.
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>>17665097
No, I wrote it from the assumption that there's probably no changing her but if there was that's all you can do.

You can respect her wishes and she can respect that her wishes doesn't suit or accomodate you, so you can go your separate ways.
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>>17665097
Given all the stories out there of people who are miserable after they get married and realize they aren't sexually compatible, it's worth it to try to know before hand.

You aren't obligated to date someone who doesn't make you happy. Sorry you're a prude, but intimacy matters. You don't have to put out, but he doesn't have to date you.
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>>17664799
There are two options.

>Be okay with not fucking
>Leave her

Doing otherwise is probably going to leave you very frustrated. Option 1 probably will too. Find someone else who wants you.
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>>17665097
>If you actually care for this girl you will respect her heartfelt wishes.
Or you can date someone else who has values closer to your own, which also frees her up to date someone who has values similar to hers. Wanting to fuck doesn't make you a heartless animal.
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