Why do girls make me feel so beta? I lived a full life for my

>>17663494
Girls don't make you feel beta. You are a beta and when you try to interact, you are forced to face it.

Most guys, especially introverts, have trouble talking with women at first. Betas stay that way forever but alphas never take it sitting down.

I can't tell you how many times I failed or made embarassing dumb mistakes. None of it ever stopped me because I knew it was all inconsequential bullshit that was just standing in my way.

You either have the drive to improve and accept nothing less or you don't. No one can make you beta or alpha. It's all up to you.

Ragged Dick?

>>17663534
not that guy, but what would be some ways to improve?

>>17663634
Well one of the things I did was get it into my mind that it was my birth right to get laid and that there was no reason I shouldn't be able to.

I'm not advocating being a dick or rape or anything. For me, it was motivation that made me improve myself to take what was mine. It's important you understand the difference between persistence and aggresiveness in improving yourself versus doing the same thing with women. Doing the former should make the latter much easier and thus not require much or any aggresiveness or persistence.

I also had constant positive thinking. I always thought to myself that I could do it. No matter how hard it was or how much I sucked at it, I knew I could do it. It was in my blood. My birthright.

Obviously I'm fairly intense internally but that's what worked for me.

Also, random tip. Don't pursue women. Be a gentleman and don't be afraid to make the first move and initiate contact or start conversations but if she's interested in you, you won't have to work for it. She won't flake. Trying to chase someone that makes you work for it or flakes often will just lead to disappointment.

>>17663534
This whole Alpha Beta thing is an immature meme that isn't true

There is no such thing as an alpha and a beta

>>17664076
>said the beta

Just practice talking to girls, when you feel nervous or lacking confidence just remember something you're proud of. I remember my large penis, how loose my hips are, my booty and that i can do a split. Instant confidence. I also just remember how good looking I am.