I'm a 18 yo guy and recently got my "first" gf. We really like each other but still i am insecure because I cum quite fast. It takes me like 7 to 10 Mins to ejaculate - definetly not enaugh. I assume I trained myself to cuming fast in the past because I faped quite often and only with the goal of finally cuming. Did anyone of you have the same experience? If yes I'd be glad to get some advice..
>>17662781
The average length of sex is 2-3 minutes. Relax.
Don't over hype sex, anon. It's really not that great. And you'r first time having sex you'll last forever because your so nervous. Atleast that's how it was for me.
Stop getting your information from porn. 7-10 min is plenty. And stop worrying about how long you last and the like and enjoy it. That's why you're having sex, not to prove something.
>>17662781
Why don't you focus on pleasing her instead of getting pleasure yourself?
>>17662833
Usually when I am about to cum (7-10mins) I make her stop for a while and do so. But when she comes back so me is only takes me like 20secs
Thats longer than the average. Go down on her and eat her ass if youre concerned about pleasuring her.
>>17662833
Because what would be the point of sex?
>>17662866
Impregnation?
Man sometimes I would pay to last more than 10 minutes. If you know that you will fuck her after a date, Jerk off before you go pick her up. Then afterwards when you fuck, the first nut will be out of the way and you'll last longer
OP here. So you know no way to last longer? Sth I can practice? Thanks for the awnsers so far.
>>17662929
First, it's REALLY normal to last that long.
Second, please her before even going in - give her good oral sex, finger her, pleasure her. After she comes, go for sex.
There are ways to last longer, yes.
I'm not exactly an expert on dicks since I don't even have one, but two things helped my boyfriend: edging while masturbating, having sex more often, and Kegel exercises.
dude, you don't cum fast. 7-10 minutes is completely fine.
>>17662781
7-10 mins is plenty enough time. If you want to extend the experience do things like oral/fingering etc too. If your gf doesn't come from penetration in 7-10 mins there hasn't been enough foreplay or she probably can't at all. And if she does come, she'll probably just grow bored if it takes longer than that. Trust me 10 mins is golden. I had an ex who could take like 20-40 mins to get there and once I was done it was just incredibly dull to wait it out.
People are actually helpful and normal outside of /b/, Y'all the best thanks a LOT! :)
>>17662929
kegels and edging. Basically you get familiar with the sex feeling and you'll learn what pace you can go indefinitely. Once you learn that you can choose when you come. I'll edge for an hour and then once I'm ready I'll just speed up a bit and let go, then like a machine gun, i shoot out the big cums. If I could get hard infront of strangers I could be a pornstar