I need a perspective on my situation guys
>got together with girl
>didn't felt like I loved her, she had a crush on me
>everything was awesome
>about one year later I felt like she was in my way of doing things I wanted to do, like partying and traveling with friends
>time pass and I start loving her more and more
>and now (two years together) I really love her but she broke up with me a couple of weeks ago but said that she still loves me and want to keep contact
>broke up because "we have different ideas about the future"?
>thought it was a bad idea and I would only get hurt if we kept contact
>agree on keeping contact
>she says that she wants us to start over by meeting like once a week like we're dating?
>I want things to be like they were but not sure if she's using me as comfort or really means what she said about staring over
>I'm 19, never felt this emotional
>can't fucking green text
>wtf is going on? Help lol
Anyone else been in a situation like this?
>>17657682
Been in your shoes, only I decided to cut contact. I'm still recovering but I think it was worth it. Stop talking to her, its for the best. Good luck op!
You are both young.
Young people grow up (most of the time).
Feelings/perspectives change.
You are a victim of her changing her views about the relationship.
My advice:
Give it a try. Keep your options open. Look for another girlfriend until this one commits or officially leaves.
Do not assume you will get back together.
Keep a positive attitude. Approach with caution. Don't let yourself get caught up in the moment. One step at a time.
You're both 19, you don't have any fucking concrete ideas for the future.
Haha she's playing you like a fiddle.