I met this girl over the Kik equivalent of Tinder (Match & Chat.) The app is defunct now and I used it not seriously looking for a relationship; it was more out of boredom and curiosity. However, one day last month I matched with literally the hottest girl that's ever taken an interest in me (solid 10/10 QT). We started talking and we instantly loved talking to each other. Its been 1 month now and we Skype pretty much every day. Except there's one problem... I feel that I have almost no chemistry with her.
It aches me so much that I feel almost nothing for the most perfect and attractive girl I've ever known. I've only been in 2 relationships in the past so I know how love feels, and I have yet to feel the rush of chemicals in my brain for her.
You're probably already thinking that I should just dump her by now. There's a problem with that though... she has severe depression and a history of ending up in the hospital due to attempted suicides. She has already told me that if we breakup she'll try to kill herself.
The only solutions I see is that maybe if I stay in the relationship I'll eventually develop feelings for her, or perhaps once we meet irl (she lives in Canada, I live in Southern U.S.) I'll instantly fall in love her. I'm just a 6 to a light 7 guy who just wants a 10/10 qt as much as she wants me, please help.
>>17656694
>the most perfect and attractive girl
>she has severe depression and a history of ending up in the hospital due to attempted suicides
I would really slap you all.
Let her return to the void
>>17656699
please slap me anyway, having known this in the very beginning I would have said no to a relationship a long time ago
>>17656703
That seems like the most viable option at the moment unfortunately
Is her name Leah?
>>17656694
Kik is not tinder dumbass
>>17656853
nah that's not her name, but this literally isn't the first suicidal girl I've found on kik
>>17657315
Its not. Kik has several apps within it and Match & Chat was one of them
I'm more interested in making me fall in love with her than I am breaking up though. I've already looked up that its possible to find the perfect mate but develop little to no feelings for the person due to a lack of chemistry. And all of these dating websites recommended to break up with them if this happens. I don't want to do this but its looking like this the only way.
>>17656694
You should try fucking men, homo