I can't cum when I have sex. I've had sex with 6 women and have only been able to cum with one of them. Recently I started dating a girl and wasn't able to finish the first time we had sex. I refrained from jacking off for a week thinking I couldn't cum because I masturbate every day. We had sex again and I still wasn't able to cum. I use condoms, but my current girlfriend is on the pill so I didn't use protection and I still couldn't cum.
I have a fear of getting someone pregnant, so I think that might have something to do with it, but what can I do to fix this? When I use condoms I can't feel anything, and when I don't use one I psych myself out because I think I'll get her pregnant. Two of the girls I've previously had sex with have told me they felt self conscious about themselves because I couldn't finish when I was with them.
Suggestions?
I usually don't bust the first couple of times I'm with a girl. Just can't relax or it might be because I don't have any muh feels with them yet. Pretty normal. I think it took like a month of sex for me to be able to cum with my current girlfriend, so I think it's pretty normal.
Not watching porn will help too.
>>17654444
I had the same problem. Edging for a few hours before, combined with weed (or your anti anxiety substance of choice) did the trick. I even tried Cialis but it didn't work since there wasn't anything medically wrong with my cock, it was just a brain thing
>>17655256
Edging?
>>17654444
See a therapist/psychologist.
Also regd the girls who feel self conscious about you not finishing, remind them thats how guys feel when women are caught faking yeah? :/
>>17655256
>>17655294
Nvm I googled it