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What does 'get a life' mean? 2016-10-09 21:42:33 Post No. 17654317
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What does 'get a life' mean?
> had a fight with my SO, a really dear friend of mine (being close for 5 years), with whom we started dating about 2 years ago
> been drinking (mainly myself to sleep) (only mild things like cider or champagne) for 4 days out of 7, trying not to hurt myself (2 years of self-harm experience, now clear for about 6-8 months or so), knowing my SO really wanted me not to do that in our relationship
> get dumped with 'you know I can't accept such attitude' 'go get yourself a life'
> 'you've never been alone since 13, not even a couple of week gone by between your boyfriends and girlfriends'
> true, now 19
> 'you can't be alone with your own thoughts'
which is true, I get extremely nervous and melancholic at the same time
> 'you have serious untreated mental and physical health issues'
true, being depressed&anxious, got almost constant dizziness and nausea (seriously, 24/7 feeling that way, waking up in the middle of night with that 'I'm going to throw up' feeling, have to sleep for ~12-14 hours a day otherwise blacking out; had dizziness since 11-12 y.o., but it got really worse recently
> can't afford private doctors, my medical insurance only covers psychiatric help at my home region, and now I'm at the uni
> but my insurance covers me going to local hospital (which is connected to my uni) with physical health related problems, they also got a couple of neurologists (last time I asked for help with dizziness only got diagnosed with vegetative-vessel dystonia, no checkups were done, got prescribed Alimemazine and Phenylpiracetam which helped a bit but it all came back when I finished the prescribed course, and later symptoms kept getting worse)
So my questions is basically that. I need my life back. I really do.
1) What should I do exactly with my health issues? Doctors here are not exactly willing to help and find the reason I am getting worse, but they can run tests if I ask them to. What should I ask for?
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I had a full check-up done when I was a kid, hospital told my parents I don't have any physical health issues, doctors told my parents I feel this way because I'm 'too tall for my age' and that's it. Also got 'diagnosed' with vegetative-vessel dystonia which is known as 'diagnosis when we really can't figure out what is wrong but we have to fill the papers since this person keeps complaining anyway'.
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2) What does 'get a life' mean in my case? I mean, I am now studying at a prestigious uni, had several internships, having a hobby (studying at music school now), it's not that bad.
Is it about me always trying to distract myself by being around other people? I always do that, it's true.
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hopeless bump
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>>17654317
You already know the answer you ducking retard . Put down the fucking razor and alocohol and learn to live by yourself for a few moments instead of being a needy parasite on other people , which turns women and men the hell off , like it just did to your SO.
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>>17654341
>What does 'get a life' mean in my case?
It doesn't mean anything in that context. Your SO is just saying whatever's needed to break up with you.
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>>17654661
You have a point, lol.
>>17654652
I am, but I won't be able to live by myself at all if I'll keep staying in my bed for >50% of my day. That's why most of my questions are med-related
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I think get a life in this situation means find your own things to do. Get some personal goals you invented for yourself.
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