ITT: The opposite gender anything

Girls
I have a large penis, is that an upside or downside PERSONALLY for you?

>>17652793
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9HilyOLWzrM

>>17652793
If is is very large, a downside.
Not a dealbreaker or anything, but I prefer average.

>>17652797
What is average for you
>>17652795
Haven't laughed so hard in a while

>>17652800
>What is average for you
13-17 cm, which should be.. 5-7 inches I guess?

Girls and guys

Need advice how to breakup maybe..

I just got home from my 8th date with this girl. She's QT, and she's really nice. I've enjoyed going out with her. But... I just don't think I can do it anymore. I'm 27 and she's the first girl I've ever dated before. Like I said, she's great, but the thought of me dating anyone stresses me out so much. I feel like she could do so much better, I feel guilty and feel as if I'm wasting her time. it sucks because I do like her, but I just don't see why she likes me. We made out yesterday and afterwards I was just thinking to myself "why would she want to do that with me? There is way better out there". I just feel guilty. I don't think I'm suppose to have a girlfriend at all. So.. what do I do..?

>>17652828

if you like her keep dating her. she is an adult who can decide who is or isn't good enough for her, and she has clearly decided that you are good enough for her.

unless there are concrete reasons for you to feel guilty about dating her (eg. you are a pedo/murderer/drug dealer/scam artist/criminal/etc.) then keep dating her even though you feel out of place... If you like her

Is being 6'2 FT (187cm) considered tall? is tallness attractive ?

>>17652856

yes that is a good height, and yes you will probably be more attractive to girls because of it.

which is a moot point if you don't actually socialise/converse with girls, so instead of worrying about how good looking you are just go out there and speak to people

>>17652846

I just feel like one day she'll wake up and just think "what am I doing?" And then leave. I haven't done anything wrong. But it's just this thought I keep having. I don't know, it's just stressful for me because this all feel so unnatural.. I mean I'm 27 and she's the first girl I've ever actually dated. Like what am I even doing? I don't even know

>>17652856
Depends on the country. Where I live, it definitely is.
Being tall in general is considered an attractive trait.

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Usually I'm a very loud, offensive person around my peers. I sometimes feel like they don't see me for anything more than that, despite that I have proven myself to be, well, a normal soft spoken person when I want to be. When I try to be more quiet and respectable, my friends, especially the girls around me say stuff like
>anon we like it better when you're a dickhead go back to being loud again
Can someone help me? What am I doing wrong? What should I be doing?

>>17652878
Decide to be who you want to be, A quiet or loud person? Or maybe it's just your personality, you can be both,If I was you I'd feel comfortable around my friends, but quiet and nice around people who you're not familiar with~

>>17652861
if you are this insecure she might pick up on it and then be more likely to break up with you.

just keep going as long as possible. possible outcomes:

1. at some point you stop liking her and break up
2. at some point she breaks up with you; oh well, at least you had a nice time together. and now you will have had at least one girlfriend, and it will be easier to keep going and find another one.
3. you keep going long term and it is really awesome

it sounds like you are so afraid of being broken up with that you might break up with her; do not do this.

just enjoy having the chance to be with her, and gaining experience of having a girlfriend.

>>17652828
You stupid. If she doesn't like you, then she'll break up with you. If she does, then dont break her heart. Dont fuck up this chance for no reason but your insecurities.

>>17652861
well honestly, you're stupid, if she doesn't like she'd basically break up with you, just enjoy your time with her, and if someday she broke up with you , you can just move on and find another girl, just don't miss the chance you're having now.

for both genders but please state which you are, do you even get so horny you actually have difficulty concentrating?

>>17652917
Male
Yea a little

>>17652917
Girl.
Yeah, sure. I already know that when I'm horny I just have to touch myself and stop wasting time doing whatever I am doing.

>>17652894
>>17652910

I don't think it's so much that I'm afraid she'll dump me, since I'm used to being alone anyways. But I value others much more than myself, so I just keep thinking she could do so much better. I feel as if I'm absorbing her affection and energy when I don't deserve it

I´m 6'2, 91kg (200lbs) not fat. I do workout(martial arts + lifting) 5 times a week. Is it a legitimate fear, that I will be too intimidating for women when I gain more mass?

>>17652917
Male
oh yes, whenever I want to study I get horny and it's very annoying ;-;

>>17652944
keep a little layer of fat so you good for cuddling and it'll all be g. Oh, and don't act aggressively towards them.

>>17652944
I'm 5'11 and 91kg. You're a twink mate.

>>17652955
So you think a "chill" attitude would suit me better?
I can do both, although Im pretty extroverted when drunk.

>>17652944
I'm generally not intimidated by men. Unless you approach me when I'm alone in a dark alley at 3 AM, I'm not going to be intimidated.

>>17652956
Dude, didnt want to brag....
Im talking about how normies think.
Yes I am a twink for the fitness community. Doesnt mean normies think like that

>>17652856
I'm only 5'11" and even I get complimented on how "tall" I am.

>>17652963
I'm just playing with ya lad.
>not being 315lbs

>>17652944
Nigga, you have nothing to worry about.

At least you're not
>fat
>skinny
>chubby/dad-bod/etc.

Girls:
How often do you get laid when you go to the club?
Do you go there with this intention?

>>17652959
nah i just mean like don't be physically aggressive towards us, why guys put of sexually aggressive vibes when you don't know they its fucking scary, but buy all means be extroverted but be happy or welcoming at the same time.

>>17652993
>How often do you get laid when you go to the club?
Never. I get guys flirting with me, but I usually ignore them.
>Do you go there with this intention?
No, I dislike casual sex.

>>17652996
I see.
When I talk to girls in bars/clubs I often touch their shoulder/back gently with my hand. Move my face near theirs, so that they can hear me better. When I write it like that it sounds kind of creepy, but I hope you know what I mean.
Would you consider that sexually aggressive?
Or do you mean more "violent" moves like grabbing them or something? The latter I don´t do regardless.

Girls
What are some things you want to hear from the guy you're texting?

What are some things you wish he would say?

>>17653010
if it's crowded that's fine but more what I mean is grabbing, pulling, grinding, but also some guys just have very aggressive vibes, like you see them literally snarl I've noticed, when you ask them to stop whatever they're doing they come closer rather than back off. Pretty much guys just give off those vibes sometimes and you're not sure if they're trying to dance with you or intentional terrify you and it can be very intimidating. If you don't get what I mean that probably means you don't do it but just in case just try to put out friendly vibes, smile and all that, especially with your eyes, when a guys giving off sexually aggressive vibes and are smiling it usually never reaches their ayes and is spooky as fuck, very serial killer-esque.
guys of all physiques can give these vibes off though so I really don't think your body mass will be the deciding factor in if girls find you intimidating or not.

Would you date a guy with no real hobbies?

>>17653065
I'd date a girl with no hobbies and I'd so things with her

>>17653065
No

>>17653069
Really? What if you are like minded and enjoy being with him?

>>17653047
maybe I'm a male, but I can answer it as "would you date a girl with no hobbies?" , that sounds so hard, since you'll not find a lot in common between you and her.

>>17653065
He should at least have interests.
I don't care if he doesn't have hobbies but at least someone pleasant to talk to, knowledgeable about different topics, up to date with the news and such.

>>17653078
agreed.

>>17653065
What constitutes a "real" hobby?

>>17653083
"an activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure."
-dictionary

or just basically he/she has a real life, and real activities.

>>17653076
I wouldn't enjoy being with a guy who do nothing more than his job a sitting in front of a computer all day

Women what is your stance on guys who have been on /fit/ for years?

What does it infer to you?

((Assuming its not their only hobby))

>>17653078
This is the kind of shit that makes me put off by women immediately.

>>17653137
Because I actually want to talk with my boyfriend about something?

>>17653083
Well I shitpost and lurk on 4chan, watch youtube, every once in a while watch a movie or watch anime, play video games, browse the internet for information for whatever topic is in my mind, kind of follow politics, sometimes watch sports

I don't know if I would consider any of the above as "real" hobbies

>>17653146
Video games and sports are legitimate hobbies.

>>17653154
>Video games and sports are legitimate hobbies.
They are pretty shit hobbies in terms of making you an interesting person.
They're not particularly appealing intellectually, artistic, or involve other people, or physically active.
Sure, legitimate, but not attractive.

>>17653065
as some one with a lot of hobbies (drawing/painting, art history, embroidery, sewing, cosmetics, manga/anime games, recreational drinking/drugs, cooking, reading, scifi/fantasy/horror movies, alternative fashion, and studying) if a guy didn't have any hobbies so to speak of I'd find it off putting but if it was just because he wasn't particularly passionate about anything and could still hold a conversation and express interest in things I'd still date them.

>>17653078
are there any girls who don't care whether their bfs are up to date with current events or knowledgeable about the state of the world?

i don't care about a girl wanting a guy who's fit, tall, rich, confident and handsome

i'll work out everyday, i'll study hard, i'll read self help books, i'll do whatever it takes to get a high paying job, i'll drop a few hundred k on a cutting edge sports car, i'll even break my legs like ethan hawke did in gattaca if that's what it takes to get a couple extra inches

but keeping up with the news? fuck that

>>17653165
>not particularly appealing intellectually, artistic, or involve other people
>thinking vidya isn't an art form
>2016

>>17653166
>drinking/drugs are a legitmate hobby

>>17653170
Plenty.
It would be a deal breaker for me, but for example a lot of my friends don't particularly care.

>>17653165
>They're not particularly appealing intellectually, artistic
Unless you plan on dating super-pretentious liberal arts majors, these two points are a non-issue.

>involve other people
Multiplayer mode for video games.
Watching the Super Bowl together while having a beer & nachos.

>physically active.
You can literally play sports yourself if you so wanted to.

>>17653154
watching movies/anime is more legitimate than video games

>>17653173
Even if videogames were an art form, you're not producing videogames, you're not creating anything.
You're just playing. Alone. In your bedroom.

It's like saying that art is my hobby because I enjoy going to art exhibitions. Art is one of my interests, I don't produce anything.

Also
>current year
isn't an argument.

>>17653175
Its something I do voluntarily as recreation in my spare time with friends, I'd count it as a hobby.

>>17653181
I actually can't tell if you're being serious in thinking that engaging with art is not a hobby. If you have to be making something for it to be a hobby just call it crafting.

>>17653166
how do you possibly have time for all of that while also studying and presumably working? even if you were a full blown neet i'd be asking this question

>>17653177
Why is it a deal breaker to you?

>>17653187
Liking something isn't a hobby. It's an interest.
I like art in the same way I like geopolitics, math, architecture and history. This makes me a person with different interests, but none of them is a hobby.

>>17653179
I am not saying you cannot have those as hobbies.
I am saying they don't make you particularly attractive, unless you're talking to someone who shares them.

>>17653201
Because it really interests me, and it bores the shit out of me to be with someone who is completely ignorant (not as an insult - just as in "you ignore this thing), uninterested and unwilling to learn about something I enjoy.

I talk about those things daily and being with someone with zero interest in it would be hard.

>>17653206
You fucking nigger, 99% of normie guys are into sports.

A woman will find you attractive on many facets other than hobbies.

>>17653206
>an activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure.

so then playing video games or watching sports aren't activities?

>liking something isn't a hobby. It's an interest
>literally refers to the things she said weren't hobbies half a post ago as hobbies

>>17653211
finally found someone who's actually like me, would you like to be my friend? (seriously)

Girls

Do you find a nervous guy to be cute when they approach you? I think its cute as hell when a girl is nervous. I know there is that whole confidence is important meme, but I feel like that isn't true for the most part.

>>17653189
I am a full time university student but I only work two days a week part time so I guess I have a little bit of spare time to do it? I'm not saying I do all of these things all the time but over one week I might watched 3 movies and sew a skirt, or watch a season of anime and go to a party, or do a couple of deliveries in a draw threads and read a a quarter of a song of fire and ice or something. I just jump between things.

>>17653235
really depends on if the guys is attractive to me already or not. Very subjective question, but in general I do find bashful or shy guys cute.

Girls
What are some things you wish guys did more?

>>17653235
Adding on to this question

if a guy is attractive, like in the physical conventional sense, does it work against him if they're nervous/beta/whatever (do you have higher expectations for them etc) or does it help?

>>17653215
... I haven't said that it is a turn off.
I have said that if your hobby is "watching sports on tv" it doesn't make me think "holy shit, this guy is really cool! +10 points".
A guy who tells me that his hobby is something artistic and cool makes me think so.

>>17653227
I never said they are not hobbies. I said that they are shit hobbies in terms of making you interesting as a person.

>>17653230
Sure!

>>17653235

Depends a bit on how nervous. If he just nervously laughs alot and gets twitchy or little things like that, then it's super cute, yes. If he starts stammering or can't even express what it is he wants, then it gets awkward and a bit uncomfortable. Being nervous is okay and cute, being a nervous wreck is not.

>>17653249
How can I contact you?

>>17653256
>>17653249
What the fuck. I ask if you niggas are in London all the time and I never get this kind of response.

Fugg u

>>17653260
Kek

>>17653256
Huh, if you want to leave kik or skype, I can contact you. I'm sorry but the last time I wrote personal info here I got spammed for days.
Skype would be better. I hate texting from my phone.

>>17653249
>I said that they are shit hobbies in terms of making you interesting as a person.

you said that here, sure >>17653165

but i think you have dissociative identity disorder or something as you said the opposite over here
>>17653181
>>17653206

maybe someone at the starbucks used your laptop while you were in the bathroom or something idk

>>17653272
Lel nice username. Age?

>tfw captcha gets me

>>17653271
Here >>17653181 I meant that enjoying videogames as a form of art (as said in the post I was replying to - >>17653173) doesn't make them an artistic hobby. Which is why I compared enjoying the art in videogames to me enjoying the art in art galleries.

I don't see where I said that they aren't hobbies here >>17653206. I literally said that they are hobbies in the post you linked.

>>17653282
17, and you? (if it's private, send me a message in skype)

>>17653285
Huh. I'm surprised but really shouldn't be.

Sorry dude, I'm somebody else just making fun of your screen name.
Wish you the best though.

>>17653284
i see what you mean now but i think it's pretty clear how >>17653206 could be misinterpreted

not that it matters anyways i'm just on your case for no reason

>>17653287
>>Sorry dude, I'm somebody else just making fun of your screen name.
>Wish you the best thou
based 4Chan users

Be honest ladies

Would you consider going with a random guy (and you are out of his league) that came up to you and asked you out somewhere?

I honestly believe that confidence thing is bullshit. It may work on 6+/10s but anything under, hell no.

any woman insight anon available?

so there's this girl, who after a year still longs for me
we had something going on for half a year
yet decided at the beginning of that year she needs to go back to her ex

why?
because she, and that we both established
>fears to be alone
>knows what she's getting out of him
>thinks he is immature (she is his first), childish at times and inexperienced
>she sees me as her mature, experienced guy
>she's clinging on to that teenage relationship because every other failed around them and she wants to show everyone that it can exist

over a month ago
>can we get some more distance between us? aka not write with each other?
>need to make myself clear what i want
>writing with you is making me sorta just look into one way

texted her on her birthday, a week ago
she thanked me and told me she appreciated that
wanted to start some smalltalk
but got shut off with "i don't wanna ignore you, that's why i'm answering you. you know i don't want any contact at the moment"

>talked to her two days ago
>asked her how long we shall remain on each others contact list, not texting while we both want that
>she tells me she just doesn't want contact with me for an indefinitely amount of time
>actually declares me her "ex-bf", although we never established a real relationship
uhm what?

is that her way of trying to cope with it, labeling me as some ex-bf?

Girls
Can u give me a (you) and say something nice

Fanks

>>17653300

I did it a few times before when I was single and looking (though they weren't "out of my league" because I don't believe in the whole league business). Had a few good dates, but nothing serious ever built up. It was fun though, it's sort of exciting to meet people unexpectedly like that.

>>17653051
They are trying to be direct about wanting to fuck, that's why guys go to clubs.

>>17653320
you're a loser, probably ugly, probably has a micropenis

just kill yourself, someone as undesirable as you existing in this world is offensive to me

>>17653320

You sound like a well-mannered guy, I like it. Hope you have a nice day!

>>17653320
everything gonna be diajoubu

>>17653211
Where to find girls like this? I have found out university is not the place..

Where should a guy go for a good date?

>>17653339
waterboarding

>>17653339
Your basement

>>17653339
a calendar

@girls
It it true the more bald a guy is the more fit he has to be? Talking about 20's and above

@girls
Would you date me?

I like listening to women talk about their day and completely platonic cuddling and I love animals and long walks on the beach together.

London

>>17653336
I don't do much honestly - my life is university, home, hospital, swimming pool. I'm a boring fuck.
Just talk to people about your interests, you'll find someone who's into the same shit.

>>17653390
Bald guys with decent body and a beard can be pretty hot.
If you're evidently balding, just shave. Having nice hair is better than anything else, but I'd pick a shaven/bald guy over a balding guy any day.

>>17653396
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So, yesterday I went out with a girl. We didn't talk much at first, but I mustered up the courage to kiss her and she seemed to enjoy it a lot.

She asked me for my number and and I told her to write me so that I can save her number.

She hasn't messaged me yet, should I write her on facebook?
She told me she wanna see me again.

>>17653439
Who are you? I'm gonna track you down and beat the shit out of you mate.
Do you fucking hear?

>>17653429
What constitutes "balding", anyway?

Literally nothing at the top?
Receding hairline?
Thinning hair?

Asking because I actually do have a full head of long hair, but you can see my scalp if you shine a light directly at it.

>>17653423
Ya same here, am grinding to get myself set up, so Maybe your right I should make more time to speak with others

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>>17653462
Stage 3 or worse.

BUMP

>>17653396

>>17653472
sad

>>17653467
Hmm, I guess I'm safe, then?

I'm a Stage 1 in the sense that my hairline isn't receding and I don't have any blatant bald spots, but like I said previously, my scalp is visible under bright lighting.

my girlfriend's dad died a few years ago. she still often thinks about him and even has to cry about it. It's not helping that her mum has a new man and even talks shit about my gf's real dad.

i just need some advice what exactly to say to cheer my gf up a little bit. i'm socially awkward, and often too emotionless in such situations. seriously, please help me out. what are some things that you can do to show your condolences and make someone feel better again? i hug her. any more tips? What should i say?

>>17653508
Similar situation here. I try and talk to her about it as much as she is comfortable. I try not to patronise her and give her bland advice, but instead I listen and I empathise with her.

Doss your girlfriend go to therapy?

>>17653144
Because i want to shove your ego up your ass.

>>17653520
>Doss your girlfriend go to therapy?

she used to, but it makes her feel uncomfortable, so she quit.

>>17653508
Sometimes the best thing is to say nothing or as little as possible. You could just let her vent to you, or try to take her mind off it with some fun stuff, ask her if there is anything you can do to make her feel better. Just reassure her that you'll always be there for her.

Maybe ask her to talk about her dad and tell her how was a great man, he raised someone awesome like you, etc. There isn't a magic fix for this. Her mom is a significant person in her life and is putting her dad down. You are also important to her, so your opinion is also important. So balance it out and be more positive.

>>17653508
Just hold her and be an ear to listen to her and a shoulder to cry in. If you loved your dad and he died what could someone say to make you feel better?

>>17653548
Hm, perhaps look into another therapist? They're extremely helpful.

>>17652944
Intimidation is more based on attitude than appearance. Unless you're an absolute titan of a man you're likely just going to seem more attractive.

20m here. I am over average looking and in college right now.
I really want to get into hookup, clubbing. Do you think its a big turn off for a girl later on, when I want to settle down?
The fact that I was very promiscuous in my youth.

>>17653604
I mean if she can accept it, then no. Or don't tell her.

I know I wouldn't like a girl who messed around. And its not a double standard thing. I don't even do that stuff.

How do I ask a girl for her number/out if she's always with her mate. I've spoken to her a few times but she's always hanging about with some other girl who I don't really know so it would feel a bit awkward to ask her out in front of her (doesn't help my social skills aren't brilliant).

Anyone else had experience like this and pulled it off?

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How do I stop being a faggot and actually walk up to a woman and start a conversation. Something's holding me back and I'm not sure what it is. I think I'm scared of them.

>>17653783
It's the fear of rejection, only way to get over it is going for it, i dislike people in general so i never approach anyone, good luck.

>>17653792
Similar question but starting to get with a girl and there's a clear attraction yet I'm still a complete aspie around her. Like whenever she's around I stop acting myself. It makes things weird between us.

wat do

I find it much easier to guess a girl's personality by her face than a guy's.

Both genders: how about you?
What do you think causes this difference?
Girls being more social in general, and being treated differently according to their looks (more so that guys)?

This absolutely should not piss me off but it is for whatever reason so an opinion would be welcome

>Been seeing girl for the past few months
>Last weekend text her and ask if she'd like to comeover and bake
>Says she's too busy (she legit is) but that she wants to do it soon
>Tell her I'll let her know Columbus day weekend
>She's down for it
>Text her yesterday to see what she's doing
>says what she's doing, ask her if she'd be down to come do baking today or tomorrow
>silence

That was about 24 hours ago. Seeing as midterms are coming up, I can understand if she's busy, but I'd rather she tell me so rather than just ghost me. Is that what she's doing, or am I overreacting?

>>17653841
From what I can tell, girls ghost you for no reason. There isn't a single logical reason. You'll see them on their phone and you'll know they've seen it, and they won't text you

Then bam! They text you and the conversation continues as if nothing happened.

Wait it out. Don't bug her

>>17653819
It's the other way around for me. I think because I have known more women well and am more in touch with the nuances. Eg with a woman I can typically tell whether she's a straight chick rocking the androgynous look or a gay girl, whether her bold persona is bravado or sincere, whether her outfit shows a real personal flair or is just a safe combination of current trends that ends up looking more fashionable than most. Whether she's exceptionally kind or sugary sweet with bitchiness underneath, whether she flirts with guys because she's crazy about men or because she's insecure. Not with 100% accuracy of course, but I am more often right than wrong.

With men I find it more difficult. There's a certain way certain men talk to me that makes it really difficult to judge for me whether they're making fun of me or are entertaining themselves. I can find it difficult to tell whether quiet guys are happily quiet or anxiously quiet in group settings. Stuff like that...

I'm 18 and I'm supposed to be studying and shit but I'm completely obsessed over girls right now that studying is a second priority and I'm sick of it.

I just want a girlfriend, a job and my hobbies.
It is okay to sail through education? Will I do good enough and come out OK?

I'm not confident. I'm very worried and can't bring myself to do anything.

>>17653912
As a 27 year old, I've done exactly the same thing as you're contemplating, and I regret doing it.

At 18, I was a nobody. No car, no money, and coasting through education. I would occasionally hold jobs, but at that age, I wasn't exactly paid a spectacular wage.

I'm just starting to get my shit together, and if I didn't fuck around in school or obsess over girls, I would probably be a lot more successful now.

Just keep studying. The women can wait later.

>>17653927
Well shit. I'm so sick of it. I'll be so happy with two C's and an A, won't even bother with uni.
I just want a good job and to settle down already.

I don't know where I'm going

>>17653935
I know everything sounds hard right now, but it'll be worth it in the end.

You can do amazing things when you're 21-23, but only if you put your mind to it.

If you just coast on by, you'll only get mediocre results at 27.

Next time I see my crush is Tuesday, how do I stop missing his beautiful face for one more day?
It hasn't even been 2 days since I last saw him and I miss him. It's fucking weird.

>>17654010
Do what we do and jill-off to his FB profile?

The feelings you have are normal. I mean hell spend 5 mins on here and see how many dudes obsess over girls. Try not to get too caught up in fantasies or day dreams of him and before you know it you'll be around him again.

>>17653604
To girls who also slutted around, probably not.

To girls who didn't, absolutely.

Should I shave my ass cheeks? My uopperbody is hairless pretty much
But my legs are covered in so much hair. I don't like the look of the hair on my ass and hamstrings
Seems like a bitch to shave.

What do girls think?

>>17654123
Personally I am a fan of all body hair. It also just looks odd to me if part of the body is suddenly naked and hairless, especially if it's a hairy man so it's just a random patch where he shaved it off.

But obviously your own preferences matter most at the end of the day. Just know that shaving your anus is a bitch, it grows back like there's sandpaper in between your ass cheeks.

>>17654123
Once you start shaving you will need to continue shaving, or it will look weird. Unless you are a professional athlete, no..

Source: I am a mediocre amateur runner and know some prpfessional swimmers

>>17653899

Yeah, that exact thing has happened before with this girl, I guess I'm more frustrated at myself for letting myself get worked up over this petty bullshit.

>>17652793
personally for me it's a downside :/

>>17652917
female, dear jesus yes.

>>17654183
>>17652797
Why I almost never hear this? I mean, I heard it a few times, but it sounds unlogic if you match it with the stereotype of "the bigger the better".

This kind of shit makes me angry.

>>17652993
never, no.

>>17653903
Teach us all knowing vag whisperer

>>17653047
i want him to send me more memes :/

>>17653300
nope

>>17654205
Big dicks are nice to look at but an average or slightly over average is much better to fuck.
My boyfriend is average and he fits in me perfectly. I can give him head easily. It pretty much never hurts (unless we are in doggy and he is going super hard). Just perfect.

>>17653307
she's trouble just stop interacting w her

>>17654207
>>17653009

as a guy who's hooked up with girls from the club quite a few times, I think there are a few girls who are open to hooking up in the club

>>17652993
I have never and will never go to a club

>>17654213
This is a trap set out for me. I'm almost certain.

>>17654222
I mean, I understand that, I heard it a few times.

What makes me mad is a stereotype that hurts lot of people. Guys always think they are never enough, which kills them if randomly is right.
And girls usually gets hurts if they get a guy with a big dick, which can of keep hurting her, or she tells and hurts him.

>>17654236
I'm sure there are!
I personally go to the club when there is some 90s trashy euro dance and for birthdays and such. I have never been interested in hooking up.

>>17654257
come join the happy guys with small to medium dicks club

>>17654265
Actually I am, that's why fucks with me the most. I'm almost udner the average for my country and that will always make me insecure.

>>17654273
if lesbians can have satisfying sex, so can a guy with a small dick

I have no friends because i feel unworthy to interact with people because i have no job and no money.

>>17654282
Men don't want to make women orgasm with their hands or mouth. They want to fuck a woman into orgasm.

>>17654289
Get a job and get money.

>>17654282
It is the context what fucks with me.

After 2 years of GF, she always said she was traumatized with a big dick, and mine was "perfect". Even hurted her sometimes. Yet, a month ago she had the urge to have the chance of fuck with new guys.

When I asked her about the dick issue, because she said "it is the only thing you will have never to worry to" she only replied:

Yeah, that's what I'm risking.

So maybe before was a little inscure, but I don't know how to trust any of this kind of thing.

>>17654289

Thank you for sharing with the class. Everyone's fascinated.

>>17654296
Your gf sounds like a bit of a cunt.

>>17654294
fair point

>>17654305
It is a big resume on what went on from August. But yeah, I resume it that way. She tells me she doesn't wanna fuck other, but not having the chance to decide makes her depressed. Lot of shit to resume, but that was one of big points.

I was a big arrogant faggot that enjoyed making fun of others, act like a creep and I used to be aggresive and thus became lonely.
I started the college and after making a big reflexion on myself, I knew this lifestyle was not good, and can damage me more and I want to change, for good. How I can change this behavior so I can finally redeem myself?

Do girls like younger boys? I'm interested in a girl about 8 years older than me.
Chances are would she be more interested in guys her own age?

I couldn't care less about how much older she is, but it ain't my decision I guess lol

>>17654328
Just eb yourself without being a cunt. Maybe sound obvious but I don't find it harder than that.

If you want advanced tip, be poilte, care about that friends and listen to others.

>>17654331
It depends on what she searches. Also it depends on your age, is not the same 15+8 than 20+8

>>17654331
I like guys my age or older.
The youngest I have liked is 2 years younger.

Girls, what do you think of skinny jeans, on tall skinny men.

>>17653729
Anyone please?

>>17654345
Skinny jeans look great on skinny guys. Pretty much on them only.
Just make sure they don't fit like leggings.

>>17654331
Generally speaking, the only women who like substantially younger guys are either past their prime or just plain crazy.

For example, if you were 18, and she were 26, she would have to have brain problems if she liked you back.

If you're 26, and she's 34, she's at a point where she's burnt out and will take anything she can get. Also, she could be a succubus who wants to drain the life force out of virile young men.

>>17654355
goddamn they do fit a bit like leggings because they shrank..

girls, what do you think of skinny jeans that are slightly too tight on tall skinny men (eg. you can see clearly defined calf muscles)

>>17653729
Do you know her name?
Find her on Facebook and ask her out there.

>>17652797
Do you prefer the look of dick when its an upside or a downside

>>17654362
Do not do this.

>>17653841
she might have the attitude that you are pathetic to her and not worthy, but she didn't make it clear she wasn't interested because she is a female.

she might have ignored you because her nerves got to her. she is unsure how it will go down. she needs assurance that your baking hang out is going to go a certain way. example definitely gonna bang. or definitely just gonna be platonic friends and hang out.

she could have also ignored you because of personal reasons, like she is on her period and really not in the mood to be around males. or she needs to shave her body hair and then wait a day before... you know. or maybe she has a pimple she is really self-conscious of. this stuff DOES happen, guys...

what i'd assume is this wasn't because of mid-terms coming up. and this wasn't because she sent you a reply back and it didn't go through or some bs. if a girl thinks you are stupid, she will say some stupid shit to you. "what do you mean, i did text you." yeah right.

what i would honestly advise you do is stop being friends with her. stop having her in your life. if you walk past one another don't pretend you don't see one another, just say hi and then move on. believe me when i tell you this, she feels more awkward about this than you do. and she gossips about this shit to her girly friends which also affect the outcome of things within your own personal relationship with her. so this really isn't anything you should hold onto.

>>17654010
talk with him from now on rather than being an observer in his presence. the next times you have a dry spell away from his presence it won't be so bad. maybe you can pull a new number too.

>>17654123
did that once. more susceptible to those harmless red bumps. you WILL have to deal with those. also when you sweat it's going to feel wetter and it won't dry quick at all. on a more serious term if you injure yourself in a freak accident, let's say a car accident, you fly out, your crotch lands on a metal rail on the side of the highway, your ass cheeks are gonna be even more ripped up than if you had hair there. i mean body hair is here to protect not just identify.

Girls

Looking back at your relationships, would the best one necessarily be the one that lasted the longest?

>>17654075
I can't find any social media that he's on, sadly. And you're right, as long as I don't keep thinking about him, I'll be around him in no time. Thanks

>>17654331
just enter your 20s, work a regular job, live life, and you will understand that most women do enjoy eye candy, if not more, that of a younger male. this is coming from a guy. most replies you will get are from teens. just fyi. remember this cause you are only peaking while a lot of females your age are slowly declining.

Why do women like to throw curve balls?
They are so good at catching me off guard its untrue.

If a girl with dreadlocks says I would look good with dreadlocks could it mean she likes me?

>>17654399
It's pretty hard to say "best".
I had a brief fling with a guy. It lasted for 4 months, then his family had to move to the other side of earth.
He was great. Smart, funny as fuck, shared all my interests and hobbies. He was so lovely and kind. And even fucking handsome. We had the most amazing relationship. Never had so much fun.
I idealise that relationship a lot. When I was younger, every time I argued with a guy I thought "this shit wouldn't have happened with him".
Then I met my boyfriend. Together 4 years, some fights, a lot of differences, but definitely the man I am going to marry. Our relationship had many more "downs" than that old one, but many more "ups". We shared a lot more, have more consistent plans for the future. Not ideal, but real.

>>17654489
I've got a top team of scientists, forensics and researchers working on the case and the only definite solution we could come to is that you may probably perhaps look good in dreadlocks.

So what do you say as a follow up text to potentially being ghosted? It's been a week since she texted back and it was so out of the blue because things seemed to be going well and we were exchanging long flirty messages.

I'm not going to press for an explanation or anything, I just want to confirm that she doesn't want to text anymore or that it was a mistake. Any help?

>>17654524
Ghosting means nothing. Just ignore it.
It seriously means nothing. I think it has no significance what so ever.

>>17654530
Can you expand? Like just forget about her and ignore it and drop it? Or send a message not addressing that she hasn't replied for a week?

>>17654537
I don't understand women. They are purposely just fucking cryptic.

Just ignore it. Maybe try engaging her in a different conversation and if she ghosts that then what ever, fuck her.

I get ghosted sometimes then she will continue the conversation as if nothing ever happened.

This is isn't really big enough for its own thread so i decided i would ask here even though its for both genders really.
Okay so im a guy. There's this girl who likes me but i don't like her back. Which is the better way to go about it, to sit her down and talk about it and tell her that i dont like her back or to kind of ignore it and just politely turn down any advances she makes?
My guy says it's better to confront her about it, as ignoring her feels like i would just be leading her on, but it also seems sort of weirdly aggressive. Besides its not like that will necessarily make her stop liking me, shes still probably going to make advances in the hopes of getting me to fall for her. What should i do?

>>17654546
I just read the thread and saw the other ghosting question.

I just don't get it. Sure, before she got busy and didn't respond for 2-3 days but never a week yet. I like her, so I don't want to give up after one message that didn't get responded to. But did she lose interest? Or does she want me to chase her? We both know we can't hang out for a while so maybe she decided to take a break from texting, but why not tell me? I even told her via text before that if I was bugging her to let me know and I'd stop.

So send her a regular message? I was going to ask what's up and if she's okay and didn't respond intentionally, or if I didn't get the memo. The weird thing is, she accidentally called me a few days after the message and immediately hung up. I don't get why.

Sorry anon, just vented.

Why do women just stop responding? At least say bye, jfc

>>17654568
It's fucking texting mate. Look at all of the other texting conversations you've had with men. How many of them end with "goodnight"? Fucking none.

Females (that have been in serious relationships):
Do you message a lot of guys while being in a serious RL? Do you joke around a lot with men you happen to spend time with (work, maybe people you meet at parties, ... ). Can anyone get your number?

Every stfu about ghosting

We all get ghosted. Just ignore it. It means nothing.

t. Just for ghosted

>>17654574
Why you so angry?

>>17654588
Sorry :(

I'll read through the thread and answer any questions I can

>>17654597
>WHY WON'T YOU SAY GOODBYE TO ME JESUS FUCKING CHRIST REEEEEEEEEE
>y u mad bro?
Embarrassing.

>>17654574
I at least say I have to go do something. Or respond to a question eventually.

>>17654606
I don't understand why you're upset by his post
Its childish, but why are you angry?

>>17654386

Yeah, it's not number one because we've had sex before, but in general this just seems like a kind of an overreaction. I think it'd be fair for me to issue her a warning or do some bullshit talk about communication, but this isn't a "cut contact off ASAP" level offense.

>>17654614
I'm not angry. That's a feeling that you've projected onto me because you're stupid enough to equate swearing with anger. Stop embarrassing yourself.

>>17654613
Cool. That's how we texted back in the 2000's. Now with more instant messaging and texting that looks more like conversations I guess it's okay to just stop talking but it took me a while to get used to it.

>>17654564
Is it a situation where you need to see her? How do you know her? Do you have a boyfriend?

>>17654289
Posted in the wrong thread, nevermind.

>>17653453
worth a shot anon
>>17653812
be honest with her, get comfortable by getting to know her? What am I supposed to say anon

>>17654617
You're evidentially pissed off
What time is it where you're at?

>>17654637
>If I ignore what's being said and keep insisting the same thing over and over, then maybe it'll eventually be true
I get it now. /You're/ the one who's angry and fishing for an argument in which you can act holier than thou. Find it elsewhere.

>>17654642
You have blatantly proved to everybody here you are effected in a negative way by the influence of some anons dumb post.

Gratz

>>17654656
Find it elsewhere. I don't want to watch you continue to embarrass yourself over and over again.

What are the minimum requirements for acquiring a girlfriend?

>>17654665
Depends on how attractive you want her to be. /fit/ has a whole mathematical system worked out based on how much you can deadlift.

>>17654665
For having, or for getting her?

If you only want a a GF, the requirement is love her as much as you can.

If you want tips on how to, my bets are personality, attractiveness, money and social skills.

You can get one with 2 out of 4 of the second lane.

>>17654667
You can only obtain a +2 whatever you are out of 10

>>17654670
Factually incorrect. The number of plates you can deadlift can directly influence this number.

>>17653841
When I'm really busy I have a tendency to read text messages and then forget to respond to them. If everything had been going well prior to I doubt she's trying to ignore you. Just wait it out and she'll respond when she gets a chance.Or just text her again.

I haven't "played the dating game" since highschool. Few relationships I've had have been with girls I've known for a while, until we become open and sexual. Never "Hi I'm anon" to getting her number to asking her out for coffee or whatever.

My best friend introduced me to a single friend of his, and we got along well, but he says this is the "dating game". To keep her interested, don't converse over text at all at first, go out and do stuff to post on social media, etc. (Like yesterday, he insisted I come to the fair with him and our group, specifically so he could take a snapchat of us and send to her while she's out of town to illicit the "Aw, I wish I'd been there!" response).

Is it really this contrived to start dating? I'm 22 in college, just want to talk to her and play it by ear.

What are the signs if a girl just wants to fuck? What are the differences between her wanting a relationship or just wants to have sex?

>>17652791
Women: do you hold men to a different standard of behaviour than you hold other women to? Either in relationships or out of them?

So I guess this is a general question, but...

If an ex can't ever get back with a girl he used to date, then why would a guy have a problem with an ex talking to them? Vice versa I suppose.

Or is it always that chance something could happen?

>>17655033
I don't understand the question

>>17655045
Not sure how to reword it sorry. Just wondering if you consider some behaviours acceptable for women but not for men, or vice versa.

>>17655033
>>17655050
Well I expect more feminine behaviour from women and more masculine behaviour from men, if that answers your question.

Women who expect to get married, by what age do you want to be married?

>>17655033
>>17655050
>>17655051
If you're asking if I have double standards, then I guess I do in some situations, but not when it comes to stuff that's specifically related to mating and dating.

>>17655055
Late 20s/early 30s. I'm 24 now, for reference.

>>17655056
Yeah was asking but not accusing :) Thanks for the honest reply!

>>17655051
Not really, it was more about specific behaviours and standards rather than stereotyping, but thanks for replying anyway

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I'm usually a funny, semi-witty guy. How do I promote that when, for whatever reason, I'm not? I went on a date and I just wasn't as fun-loving as I normally am. It's like a bad hair day for your personality. Help.

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What's the point of living as a short, ugly, small dicked man? Literally every enjoyable thing on earth are barred from access to you just because of things our of your control. I'm gonna go fucking crazy thinking about this, I want to kill myself so fucking much I even have dreams about it 3-4 times a week. I want to believe that things will get better someday but every passing day proves otherwise. Is there any hope for guys with goodish personalities but they're just genetic trash?

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Girls, what's the cutoff height for dudes? How big a guy is 4u?

>>17655255
6'2"

>>17652917
M, depends on what I'm doing. If it happens while I'm driving or taking an exam or something where I need to focus, I usually get it under control. If I'm just studying, yeah I won't be studying anymore

>>17655214
>What's the point of living
Exactly

>>17655255
What do you mean, how tall someone has to be to be considered "big" by my standards, or what height is too short/tall

I'm 5'6" and I'm mostly fine with guys of any height as long as they're taller than me, unless they're freakishly tall

Probably like 6'7" is the cutoff height for how tall I'd go

Guys
Does height of girls really matter to you?

I personally don't care about guys' heights but I wanna hear what you guys think

Yo girls, how important is it having good posture?

Girls,

What makes you swipe right on a guy when using tinder?

Aside from subjective things like ethnic preference, what are some things that you really like to see in all guys?

>>17655301
I don't like giants (190+) and don't like midgets. Usually 155-170 girls are cute as fuck.

>>17655309
Hmm, I'm 5'6 (170cm)

>>17655301
Height is really a non issue for girls, its only a problem for guys. Im 6'2 and I've dated girls from 5'4 - 6'1

I'd prefer someone close to my height though.

Girls, I notice my best friends girlfriend imitates me a lot. She mimics my body language almost constantly and uses my vocabulary. Does she look up to me as someone she respects?

>>17655319
My friend's 5'8" and she finds that guys who are closer to her height are less interested than guys who are significantly taller

>>17655301
I don't care in the slightest, although I personally prefer girls shorter then me.

My personal favorite height is around 5'4, mainly because I find girls a good 7 or so inches shorter then me really cute. I'm pretty sure most guys agree with me on this.

Guys don't really tend to care, although shorter guys may get insecure over it.

>>17655309
Could still be cute as fuck, pic?

>>17655301
the shorter the better unless they're literally a midget

5'6" is fine

So I just had a successful first date. She seemed interested, laughed at my stupid jokes, brushed her hair, talked a lot, hugged at the end. Now what? She's not texting me or anything, should I talk to her? Should I ask for a second date? Does she hate me?

Would my 5.5in penis be enough to satisfy a woman?

Is 8 inches too big?

>>17655423
Ya definitely. Girls are satisfied by ego shit too. Get your chin up and your dick hard. The stick it in

>>17655301
>Does height of girls really matter to you?
Not really. Some guys might find shorter girls cute, but I doubt it's as big of an issue as it is for girls seeking tall men.

I'm 6'2" and I'm fine with pretty much whatever within reason.

>>17655423
Sweetie, it's three inches too short

>>17655432
That's right below average, so no

>>17655301
I'm a 5'11" manlet.

My preference is 5'9" and under.
5'10" and 5'11" are acceptable if she won't get weird about it.
6' and over is basically out of the question, because most girls won't date guys who are shorter than them.

I have a 17 inch penis and I naturally secrete an aphrodisiac that ensures any partner I engage in sexual relations with will feel nothing but pleasure, I'm worried this could become a problem. Girls, your thoughts?

>>17655444
Try smashing it with a hammer before foreplay

>>17655462
Seems like sound advice

I went on a date with a friend of mine and we decided to start dating. A few days later, I found out that she didn't like me that way, and was just worried that we would stop being friends if she said no. Obviously, we aren't dating any more. Is there even a small chance she might feel differently in the future?

So I don't really need advice, but I want opinions on double texting.

I've heard pretty much everyone say you should never double text a romantic interest under any circumstance because it shows that you're needy and it'll turn them off. Doesn't that assume that there's a reason they didn't reply the first time? Or that if they're interested in you that you must be the center of their attention and they should always be considering communicating with you?

I dunno, it seems like a childish social ritual to me.

Girls
What's the best way to convince my girl to try taking the tip of my penis in her ass?

I've already licked it and put the tip of my finger in her ass while we do doggystyle, but she's adverse to a penis there.

If you've done it, what convinced you?

>>17655516
Probably not

How do I know if a woman is not/never been sexually promiscuous. Not necessarily a virgin, but a relatively low partner count only in long term committed relationships. You know, the type youd wife.
I can never think of how to find this fact out besides asking the girl how many partners shes had, and that always goes horribly since you have to already be dating the girl to ask her that.
What are some signs to look for to identify this type of girl and also if shes ever been loose.

>>17655566
Yeah, that's what I figured. Thanks for the help.

>>17655572
Just out of curioisity how did the date go? What did you guys do? How did you find out?

>>17655302
Hello pls respond

>>17655530
I agree but I don't double text unless I hear abrupt news or adding on to a thought. I think the double text thing should be avoided until you guys are dating and intimate.

>>17655302
If you need to ask...

>>17655301
Have to be over 5 feet and under 5'9 is my range.

My perfect height is any girl who is 1 inch under 5'9 in heels.

>>17655530
I've never really thought anything of doubt texting as long as it's not an obvious 'please respond'

>>17655583
It went well, it got a little bumpy in the middle, but in the end everything seemed good, I kissed her goodnight. Then a few days later, something seems really off, so I asked her if we were dating because I can be really insecure, and she said yes, but she sounded really unhappy. When I asked about that, she said that she only saw me as a friend, and I decided not to be a complete piece of shit.

I've seen a few questions about hobbies. Is giving advice a valid hobby?

>>17655646
I sure hope so.

>>17655301
I think shorter girls are cute, and really tall girls are a little unattractive, but it's not a deal breaker. Average height is fine.

>>17655616
Eh don't take it too hard pal. There are more women out there. Don't take it personally that she didn't want you, but try to fix the insecure thing.

Girls please tell me if my hobbies are sufficient

>Fitness (Praciticing MMA mostly)
>Video games
>Politics
>Sports
>Reading
>Movies

I honestly like to just explore a partner's hobby and learn stuff from them; if they like art I'd ask about that and go to a museum with them. But these are mine. They seem boring as shit.

>>17655662
That's the thing. It wasn't insecurity, I was just trying to convince myself it was. I can usually tell what people are feeling, and I knew something was very wrong. I just told myself I was paranoid and insecure, but I was actually just right. Anyway, thanks for letting me get all this shit out.

>>17653110
...You've mostly described me.

>>17653819
>What do you think causes this difference?
Probably the way she composes it in contrast to the way a non-metrosexual male just washes and moisturizes.

>>17655301
Nope. I'm attracted either way, and oddly interested if they appear to be around the same height.

>>17655674
>sufficient
Sufficient for what?

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>>17655699
To be interesting enough for them to date me

>>17655674
I'm not a girl, but those seem like enough, as long as you don't try to argue politics all the time.

>>17655703
Vague categories like 'reading' and 'movies' tells me nothing about you. Also politics raises red flags

>>17655704
I don't really argue politics but I think we can learn from another if we're different. I don't mind debating if it can be mature.

I dated a liberal and loved her a lot despite being right wing. I'd say I kinda even prefered a different political opinion.

>>17655707
Alright, you seem healthy enough in your political interests. I'd give you a fair shot if I was a girl.

>>17655713
Thanks pal!

I don't exactly know who to ask this too but despite having 2 girlfriends, getting laid by 19, and being rated usually a 7/10 (one time an 8), why do I think I still feel like an ugly neckbeard?

I can't stop comparing myself to being equal to that when it comes to a girl's eyes. I think its because a girl has never approached me...and no girl wants to sit next to me in class unless they have to.

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girls

do you cold approach men in public if they are good looking, how long before you suck their penis

>>17655725
yes. 30 to 90 minutes

>>17655725
Cold approaching guys and immediately sucking their cock is the only way I get with guys

>>17655723
>2 gfs

Girls can usually sense this sort of thing. That you're bad news and are completely insecure. Having multiple gfs and Getting laid at 17 doesnt matter in the scheme of things and you should find something else that you can actually be proud of.

>>17655727
>>17655728
same troll from every thread, why don't you get a life faggot? is this what you do all day

>>17655736
You know what they say, you ask a stupid question...

I set up a date for next weekend with a girl from Tinder. I'm not going to her anymore until then, so I can actually do most of the getting to know her in person.

What I want to know is how often should you text someone after the first date? Or even the first couple dates? I'm so socially inept, but I am trying. I don't know how much is too much early on and how much isn't enough since texting seems to be so important with people.

>>17655765
What I do in these situations is try to mention how I hate things like these social rules because I'm confused by them on the date and focus on just being really fun.

>>17655646
I've been telling people that. "Helping people out on an advice forum" We can't say if people think that's legit, since you're talking to people who do this as a hobby too.

>>17655765
You can text her after the date saying it was fun.

Just go by her responses. If she texts you infrequently then don't text her too much. If she texts a lot then feel free to text a lot too.

>>17655555
>but she's adverse to a penis there.
Did you actually ask her?
Also don't kid yourself, you won't be able to resist pushing forward. Just the tip? Hahaha
BTW great quints. 5 fives. cool.

>>17655516
>was just worried that we would stop being friends if she said no.
What the fuck, what an idiot.
We can't read her mind to know if she's permanently not into you or otherwise.

>>17655819
I mean, she does have a medium degree of Aspergers. I told her afterwards that anyone who would have stopped being her friend over something like that wasn't worth being friends with in the first place.

>>17655402
>Does she hate me?
Definitely.

>>17655320
>Does she look up to me as someone she respects?
Probably. Or maybe trying to get close to her boyfriend by getting close to you.

>>17655302
Very

>>17655301
I prefer if they're 2-8 inches taller than me. I'm 5'4", so 5'6"-6'0".
Though I do fetishize tall guys, up to the tallest man I've met at 6'8". But it can be hard when I can't kiss them easily, and our bodies don't line up well to hold hands or fuck.

>>17655044
>Or is it always that chance something could happen?
Correct

>>17655011
When she touches your dinglydong

>>17654564
>kind of ignore it and just politely turn down any advances she makes?
This is generally the socially expected route.

>>17654524
Just send another text initiating a new conversation and ignore the ghost.


>>17654399
For me it was the most dysfunctional one that lasted the longest. It fucked me up. The ones other were short and chaste and cute. Nothing to write home about, but nothing that would cause me distaste.

>>17655825
>a medium degree of Aspergers
Any typical advice on about how you should act and how you should expect her to act is out the window. Spectrum girls are an enigma. Good luck and cut her lots of slack.

>>17655856
I know how to deal with it, I have lots of experience with girls with Aspergers. She doesn't have it too bad, so I'm not as good as with someone who has it more severely, but I can mostly figure her out.

>>17655811
I've asked her before if I could go that far. I've held off on going further in with other girls before, I know I can maintain just the tip for the time being.

Her go-to response is "I'm not about that life".

>>17655871
Then why are you asking us questions about her when you're good at it?

Alright lets look at your original question.
> Is there even a small chance she might feel differently in the future?
> even a small chance
ike this. Girls are honestly not a different race than guys. Do you honestly believe that, if someone is not interested in an individual, there is literally no chance they will ever change your mind? No one ever has ever changed their mind later on? If someone replied saying this, would you believe them?

You really need to learn some self soothing when your anxious about things you can't control. It's not healthy to turn to us to validate these kind of things. You shouldn't rely on others to give that to you, because it won't always be available. And it won't always make you feel better.
Calming yourself down should come from within.

>>17655909
Why do you want anal so much? Especially when you aren't even really doing anything with it? Is it just the taboo? Or is it about convincing a girl to do something she doesn't want to?

Have you asked her to expand about what she doesn't like about it?

To girls: Would you be upset if your boyfriend/SO had pictures of another woman that he had saved specifically to fap to but had no other ill intention - treated it like porn - completely materialistic?

>>17655924
You mean like, someone he knows? That's messed up

>>17655924
If you know the girl and have sexual pics of her then it's not ok.Maybe you are able to compartmentalize but if I were your gf i would never get rid of the thought that you have some kind of feelings for the girl. If you never met the girl then whatever, we all have our fantasies

is there anything i can do? I mentioned im a bit worried once or twice about my friend and he brushes it off and says he is fine. He goes on drug and alcohol benders a lot, like every few days, fucks all these random girls, rarely eats, and i don't like looking at his eyes because he's losing something that used to be in them. It looks like he's losing his intelligence. I don't know. No one else seems to be worried and just go 'oh that's just anon'...my friend keeps saying he'll get out of this bender but i think we both know that he can't or won't.

any tips on flirting with a female?

>>17655924
I personally wouldn't mind, even if it was someone he knew. He's just trying to jerk off. I don't really have any fears about losing him or him cheating.
Maybe I'm just naive. To give you perspective, imagining him with another girl doesn't make me feel like that's the worst thing that could happen to us. I wouldn't end a relationship over it.

If your girlfriend is really anxious about you cheating, itd probably be worse for you.

>>17655956
Maybe take him to an AA meeting? I hear they're great. They're about admitting that you need something more than just yourself to pick yourself up. Admitting that you can't do it alone.

>>17655914
Fair enough. Just wanted to see if anyone else had been in a similar situation.

>>17655674
What a fucking terrible list. Be more specific, list authors and genres.

>Politics
Is your hobby?
Or so you mean you're an adult who is literally obligated to have political pull in the form of a vote, who is expected to have opinions?

Embarrassing.

>>17655435
>Some guys might find shorter girls cute

While this is true, it is the minority of people. Overwhelmingly men prefer women to be tall (5'6+), and it makes sense.