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I'm possibly going out tonight with my friend and one of his friends, and he said there are gonna be friend's chick friends.
Thing is, I'm the most socially retarded person I know. I turned him down a couple of times already, so I must go this time. I know I'm gonna have a bad time.
I'm getting drunk here home by myself before I get called to go. Once I go, I know I'm fucked.
I can be normal when it's only one or two people besides me max. When there's more, I completely shut down. My social anxiety jumps through the roof. And even worse, it's gonna be chicks. I have no idea how to talk to my friends, yet alone chicks. I'm ugly so when I'm quiet (which is all the time) I just look weird. I fucking hate this life. I'm probably going to ruin everyone's night. How can I prevent being socially retarded? (alcohol doesn't make a big difference, I'm still quiet after getting drunk, only this time I'm puking)
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>>17650529
If you are puking, then you a drinking wrong.
As for what to do at the party, improvise. Dance with people that are awful dancing. Try to talk to people you'll never see again. Experiment a little bit.
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>>17650547
Well I'm puking after getting seriously drunk, which isn't that hard when you weigh 65 kg. It's not a party, we're just going out drinking in a pub or some shit.
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>>17650585
Doesn't matter where you are. Drinking until you puke will not land you girls.
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Treat women like equals instead of putting them on a fucking pedestal you retard
Stop worrying so much and talk about whatever fucking thing is going on
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>>17650593
No shit. Do you think that's my goal? If you ask me, I wouldn't even go out. I drink because we all drink. Then we puke. Some sooner than others. I'm just asking how to avoid fucking up everyone's night. Basically, how to be less socially retarded, how to talk to them etc.
>>17650595
I can't. I can't talk like a normal person. My mind is blank. I don't know what to do about it. I don't care about landing a girl desu, I just wanna be able to hang around like a normal dude. But my anxiety ruins everything.
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>>17650622
Are you trolling? Because it sounds like you're drinking too much too fast
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>>17650653
Dude, why would I be trolling? Okay, I might be drinking too much too fast, but I can't help it. The only thing I can do when I'm around many people is keep my mouth busy with beer. I'm a fucking disgrace I know. Being too skinny and not being able to drink much doesn't help either. I don't puke over other people if that's what you mean.
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>>17650529
don't get drunk dummy, have 2 drinks max and every hour after that limit yourself to one. If you get drunk you're gonna fuck everything up. Just get buzzed and loose. A good starting point for someone like you is to completely ignore sex and just talk to women like they are guys. Once you get more confident try complimenting the girls, flirting, etc
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>>17650684
Well I might be lucky, doesn't seem like I'm going out tonight. Thanks for your advice, will remember.
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