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Does friendship exist
Yes. I value friendship over all else.
I will always have respect for past and present friends.
>>17650063
I don't know man. I've been turned into a bitter fucker because of always being more loyal too my friends than they've been towards me.
Except for one guy that has that slavic "back a brother up"-attitude which always makes you ashamed of how far you've slipped...
yes, i don't have many but the few that I do are the best people in the world
>>17650072
how so?
it is difficult however it is possible to find someone. Try looking for someone that shares the same type of morals or values that you hold.
Hopefully you and they will put effort into a friendship. post "friends" are just friends with others because they happen to be the easiest to talk to, hangout with, etc.
Those types of people are the ones you need to stay away from. if it looks like they arent even trying to make friends just blacklist them mentally and try not to use a lot of mental resources on them.
In my experiences lazy friends usually are the same people that consider their coworkers friends. sure some coworkers can be close friends, however from what ive seen they are only friends because they happen to be around them all the time and they have no other choice but to trick themselves into liking that person
yea.
you know the weirdest feels with friendships are?
you know how people have the small circle that knows the friend in questions very well, and then everyone else is in the larger circle? (think like, 500 facebook friends, maybe 5-10 are in the small circle and the rest are in the large one. the ones in the larger circle dont really know her well personally. maybe they were a classmate or group member for a semester or something, or in the same club etc.
now imagine knowing her/him as well as the close circle (cause you were in there for 2 years) and then they put you in the large circle. How does this make you feel?