Ive been with this girl for about half a year now and my feelings recently have been going away for her. She is completely in love with me and i feel like shit having this idea in my head about breaking up with her. In other words, whats the best way to break up with someone?
>>17647946
Ask her if a threesome with her sister sound like fun. Then keep bringing it up until she leaves you.
>>17647946
say you noticed that you're gay as fuck
>>17647946
Here's a groundbreaking idea, literally just tell her you're breaking up with her. Don't call it a break, Jesus stop being a pussy and just do it.
>>17647946
I broke up with my girlfriend last saturday, and to be honest, don't beat around the bush with her.
She's gonna feel hurt no matter how you break the news, but you can't stay with her just because you feel guilty.
It's about being honest with what you want, and if a relationship isn't what you want or you don't feel as attached to her as she is to you, then there's no point in beating a dead horse.
Just rip the fucking bandaid.
>>17647946
>In other words, whats the best way to break up with someone?
With the truth. Don't get into the habit of weaseling your way out of doing the right thing just because its difficult. You've been with her for a year and a half and you owe her eye contact and the truth.
Some conversations are difficult but what do you think happens when you get older and you get a job? What if you become a supervisor? What do you do when you have a family and your kids ask you a difficult question? How are you going to shirk every single difficult conversation in life without hurting anybody's feelings?
Life is full of difficult conversations and you owe it to yourself and the people around you to be a man and standing behind your words and your feelings.
If you get into the habit of being a weasel now no one will respect you and you'll spend your life dodging challenges instead of facing them.