Cheating with Coworker?

>>17643939
He's either cheating on you, or innocently seeking an escape from a bad home life. Maybe it's his way out, and he knows if he was home he wouldn't be able to enjoy any time to himself. Be it from you trying to watch TV with him, or be around him while he's on the bedroom computer, or whatever else he might enjoy doing in solitude.

I know if my GF is crowding me at home, I make excuses to not be there.

>>17643954
Okay, thank you for putting that into perspective. I assume the worst because of really bad past relationships.

>>17643960
A good rule of thumb also, is if he is cheating on you, it should noticably increase his sexual drive and he'll be fucking you a lot more often. And most men don't cheat with women uglier than their current companion.

He's probably depressed and needs some space. Take advantage of his morning wood to try and spark something in him, a morning wood blowjob is the best thing to wake up to.

>>17643939
OP, all you've done is list the things he's doing. Taken out of context, yeah, they could be bad. But what's missing here are details about you.

What do you do at home? Are you naggy? Are you bitchy? Do you two quarrel often? Do you do your share of bringing home the bacon? Do you have a job? Are you clingy?

Be honest about this stuff. He may very well be avoiding you for something you're doing.

>>17643975
Okay. Thank you for the advice. I go to the gym a few times a week and hangout with my mom a lot on the weekend. He also has band practice... so I assumed that was enough space for him, but maybe not.

>>17643975
>And most men don't cheat with women uglier than their current companion
Thats not true. Besides being unhappy with partner, sex frustration, bored with the partner etc sometime people cheat because they can.

>>17643995
I make more than him right now. He is kind of sensitive about it. Like he will talk about his pay with coworkers or friends and if I chime in he gets pissed.

I am kind of clingy.

I'm not bitchy to him, I always want to make him happy. I give him massages and take him to dinner (he also takes me to dinner).

I might be naggy sometimes, because even though I make more money I do more chores. He expects me to do them since I work from home. I had to cut back on the amount of labor I do around the house for him because I started to feel taken for granted.

>>17643975
>And most men don't cheat with women uglier than their current companion

You give good points otherwise, but that particular part couldn't be further from the truth

>>17644053
Only times I cheated on my GF's have been with more attractive women. Maybe it's just a me thing, but I wouldn't downgrade from what I currently have to go fuck some ugly broad.

>>17644059
>>17644053
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>>17643995

She was definitely not someone I would normally feel jealous or insecure around - it was more the mannerisms and how she presented herself to me, then disappeared, only to come back for her purse where I was sitting.

Her other large lady friend was also not very nice. Like they both had an issue with me even though we've never met and his other coworkers like me a lot.

I would make sure his coworkers know about you and even try making friends with his coworkers girlfriends if you can. If anything shady happens, they'll tell you about it.