I'm gonna lose my virginity tomorrow. I need your help, /adv/.

>>17638503
what do you need help with?

>>17638561
Preparing my anus. How much lube should I use?

>>17638570
Hmm, that depends on whether or not he has dry skin.

If he does, prepare for at least a cup's worth. If it's sufficiently hydrated, just use half a cup.

Then again, this implies your boyfriend doesn't use lube. If he does, then like I said, half a cup.

>>17638855
I'm not even OP, I was just baiting, but that's a really helpful response, I'll remember it, maybe it will be relevant someday.

>>17638503
The vagina is much closer to the butthole than you would think. Try to focus on making it a pleasurable experience for the lady (increases likelihood she'll want to do it again). Make sure she's wet before you stick it in her, foreplay via kissing, grazing, grabbing works wonders. Don't be afraid to make noise, females love some grunting/moaning (don't force it, if it feels good let her know).

>>17639734
>pleasurable experience
When you focus on pleasure, I would say it's harder to both give and receive it. I would say focus on making it a fun experience. If it's both your first time then you have everything about sex to explore. If the sex is fun, the pleasure will follow.