Hey /adv/, I have a pretty simple question.
I'm turning 21 in the next few weeks, and I’ve been thinking of hiring a prostitute for myself since I’m still a virgin.
Basically, after many failed attempts and advances on girls since I was 14 I just haven't been successful at finding a girl who would want to date me - let alone have a fling with me (even with mutual interests aside), and it has been frustrating me pretty badly coming up to 21, especially comparing my life to all my other friends who have had a slew of past partners and flings and how they're happy in their loving relationships and I don't have anyone like that.
I know that I’m not the most social person, and I know that I’m not exactly a connoisseur of seduction either, so I've been thinking of just biting the bullet and conceding the fact that I don't really have any sexual marketability and just hiring a prostitute to satiate my sexual frustrations.
What do you think I should do?
> Do it and be happier that I now have the experience?
> Don't do it and force myself through the rejections until I find someone who finds value in me?
> What do /adv/?
> Do it and be happier that I now have the experience?
Nobody feels happy after a hooker.
>>17635695
I don't know, I mean I'm hankering pretty bad at this point that a quick shag is more than enough to make me content.
Also, I probably should have clarified - it's an 'escort' at a brothel - not something like off craigslist.
>>17635701
just do it, felt good to just get it over with desu
>>17635695
eh I feel pretty happy I got this one for quite cheap. Service quality is top notch, including her enthusiasm, also the chatting and cuddling afterwards, etc.
Hookers are really great at sex and you don't have to worry about developing an emotional bond, which people typically do with their first.
Literally nobody has to know about it, it'll feel great, and you'll no longer be a virgin.
>>17635693
>I don't really have any sexual marketability and just hiring a prostitute to satiate my sexual frustrations.
Do you have any other traits that are marketable? Because if you don't have any way to really keep people around long enough to get them into bed, no amount of sexual prowess or experience is going to help.
But then again, if you were capable of keeping a relationship going any length of time in order to have sex, you wouldn't be considering this either...
That said, there's pretty much a couple things that can really happen.
1) You see a prostitute and have sex. Having sex just once isn't really of any more benefit than never having had it before and you're going to get horny again. You're going to be stuck in the same situation.
2) You see prostitutes regularly to get better at sex. If you tell them you're inexperienced and want to learn, many are happy to teach. You then apply that with other women- but you couldn't get other women to begin with, so being experienced in bed won't really help, you're stuck in the same situation.
3) You keep seeing prostitutes because you keep wanting to have sex, but nobody else will have sex with you. This is the most likely outcome I'm seeing.
I've got nothing against prostitutes, but you don't really need one. Your problem isn't being a virgin. It's being bad at dating and hooking up. These are things a prostitute will not be able to solve.
And if you're anything like 99% of the people I've seen on /adv/ who are 21+ and kissless virgins, I'm willing to bet that you have some combination of unresolved issues (trauma, anxiety, depression, autism), dislike being around people in general, and are a near/total social shut-in except for a very small group of friends with whom you play videogames/chat online.
>>17635848
>tfw a prostitute is prettier than any girl you've met
why even bother lol
Go for it. If you are American it's far more hassle than elsewhere, so to be safe you could travel to a country where it's legal.