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Long story short I was friends with my crush on Facebook for a while,
>we use to work with each other but he left
>I asked him if he wanted to hang out one time, never replied so i'm guessing he didn't want to but didn't know how to say no
>month later we're still friends on fb but I don't like his posts for a while bc I don't want to come off as desperate but that ship has probably sailed
>recently I tagged him in something he would like
>instantly regret this
>feel shitty about myself
>I feel like that Greek mythological figure, Tantalus: he's basically punished by standing in a pond that recedes when he tries to take a drink
>To me I know I don't have a chance with this guy and I know it's unhealthy of me to keep thinking about him
So I unfriended him...I was planning on doing this for a while but I wanted to say something before I did..I was too angry with myself and ashamed of myself to send him a message. I wanted to confess that he was my first crush..
Not sure if he noticed that I unfriended him but I regret it. Because it's my own damn fault that I fell for him and it's my own fucking fault for putting him in this awkward position.
I can still message him, should I say something before its too late? I feel like shit and I don't want him to feel like I hated him...I know he'll get a girlfriend eventually and I know that would just put me through shit...
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I kind of want to get off my chest that he was my first crush but at this point I don't think it matters..But would it be weird? I just don't want this to go unsaid.
Has anyone else been in this situation ever?
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okay forget the whole admitting my crush thing, i'll just stay friends...
I sent another friend request so i'll see how this goes...
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hi OP, you sound very young.
i don't have advice for you, but i wanted to wish you luck anyway. i think you messed up by removing them as a friend, and then proceeding to add them again.
if anything, they may think you're crazy.
good luck friend, and remember, i love u
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>>17634781
thanks for your input anon
for the record, i'm 19 going on 20 this Halloween
I have a feeling he might think i'm crazy too..but to be fair I never really knew how he viewed me to begin with.
I cried for a little bit, felt good to get it out of my system. But i still feel like shit.
not sure how to cope with this.
and thanks.
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>>17634781
he ended up accepting my friend request.
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