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I'm 22 years old, being driven to insanity due to confusion
here's my status

>want to be rich
>not interested in accumulating large amounts of money

>want to end it all
>i have a gf to live for

>I'm driven by my goals
>I don't know what my goals are

>I work hard to achieve my dreams
>yet I have no idea what I want to achieve

>I've started diving into business opportunities
>but I don't know what business I want to get in to

>I look at the positives in the shittiest situation
>yet I see the negatives in a good one

halp?
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>>17634608
>driven

think you're using the wrong tense there
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>>17634608
Eat a Persim Berry
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>>17634608
>I'm driven by my goals
>I don't know what my goals are
There's your problem, buddy. Humans are driven by a desire. This desire will differ from person to person and can manifest itself differently in the same person, but there is a desire. Find out yours before continuing
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>>17634608

Maybe you should think about what you want in life. That might help.
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>>17634641
not op but how to do this?
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You don't want to be rich, you want to be happy. You're pursuing the façade of modern man, there's nothing to it, the life of one is a pyrrhic victory.
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>>17634651
it's not possible for someone else to tell you what you want. this should be innate/effortless for you
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>>17634608
Welcome to your twenties kohai, it is an existential shit show. Know you aren't alone, we are right there with you.
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>>17634608
Question your current desires. Ask yourself why. Inquire upon the logical reasoning behind your desires. That's what I did. Now I'm in a sort of limbo where literally nothing bothers me, because I realize life will continue and has the potential to become interesting as long as I keep trying new things.
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>>17634623
>>>>/vp/
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>>17634661
no i mean how does one figure out what they want in life? i've tried for several years. if it's supposed to be effortless, then lel i need help.
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>>17634670
>getting the reference
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>>17634674
the other option, which is less helpful but can work in a pinch, is to figure out what you don't want in life. Narrow the options a little so you can focus on the actual possibilities
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>>17634612
maybe? I don't know how to say it.

>>17634623
what's a persim berry?

>>17634628
Thanks for that. I'll keep a note of it.

>>17634641
I'm with >>17634651
basically at a dead end with that question

>>17634658
maybe that's the case.
I've had multiple instances of screw-ups. as this statement puts it, you could be right..

>>17634662
how old are you anon? at what age did you figure it all out?

>>17634666
don't make me cry anon.... that question's been haunting me for ages
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>>17634706
that's good advice. i have been doing that actually, now that you mention it. i've been simplifying my life so to speak. removing things that i know i dislike, or things that i know are simply a waste of time. for example, i used to play video games about 40 hours a week. now, i'm not certain i've played more than 40 hours this year. they dont give me joy like they used to, so i've stopped them. i now have free time to pursue other potential avenues of happiness. nothing's really working so far but i'm still trying.
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>>17634720
A Persim Berry heals confusion during battle. I figured since you're battling life that it might be useful. I am also in this battle. Confuse Ray keeps hitting me though.

Fucking hell I need to go back to my quarantine board.
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>>17634721
well I suppose the next step is to ask yourself where you want to be in 5 years or 10 years and then figure out how to get there
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OP here. I forgot to mention that I have never been guided through anything in life, hence the confusion.
I've been on my own with this for as long as I can remember, you guys are the first people I've had this topic with.
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>>17634749
Alan Watts can explain why you're lost in blind persecution; YouTube.
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the 20's are the hardest time in your life because, reasons
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>>17634728
>not recommending to carry a Lum Berry to counter any future issues
Git gud
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