Man, it happened again.
I met a cute girl who I thought I really connected with and it turns out, no surprise, she's got a boyfriend.
This shit keeps happening to me, /adv/. Is it because I'm getting older (I'm 23)?
I'm not naive enough to just wait around for them to break up, but now that I know she has a boyfriend, do I have to drop the flirtatious act? Or should I just keep behaving as I did before? I feel like it would be kind of a cruel thing to start being standoffish towards her now that I know.
Where can I meet real life single girls that don't suck?
>>17633922
oldfag here,
IRL approaches
>>17633929
>>17633929
oops, ignore the jump quote
It's probably because girls who have boyfriends are more relaxed around guys because they don't have to impress anyone
Pro tip: hot girls have hot girl friends.
Just keep her around as a contact, don't ignore her but at the same time don't text her daily or whatever. Just keep in touch for gatherings, invite her to things, ask if you can join her when she does things, even better tell her you went on the most hilariously terrible date, give her the details about it for her amusement, and then ask her to hook you up with a friend or two and some gathering they have coming up.
Boom. Done and done. AND if she's down to fuck and cheat on her bf, at the very least now she knows you are available too.
Just a heads up, girls like to flirt in general, don't take it as an invitation to go all in swinging your dick around really hard. If you are cool with having sloppy seconds and sneaking around behind bushes, go for it, but be cunning or you'll both suffer. Been there done that.
>>17633925
Girls with boyfriends still cheat. This happens to me a lot, girls that I'm actually interested in always have a boyfriend. The plus side is that they're usually interested back enough for me to get them to have a quick affair. That's what you need to do, because single girls just aren't doing it right for some reason. I don't know if my radar is just bad or what
>>17633942
I don't want her to cheat on her boyfriend. Also I don't text her at all.
I think they've been together for a little more than a year, and might have just moved in together.
>>17633933
I thought that this might be a possibility. I think it's also because she's cool and attractive, so of course she would have something going on with someone.
It sucks, I was totally getting vibes from her too.