When you're a female, how do get closer to someone you've just met and only occasionally encounter without seeming desperate, forward, doing all of the work or losing his respect? I can carry a conversation and I warm up quickly but I don't know how to initiate without interrupting or feeling like an intruder on his usual social group.
Do you want to make friends or get a person to date you?
>>17600491
I'm interested in them but I'm not sure if befriending them first would give me a faster romantic opening later, with more success.
>>17600494
Unless you're a bombshell, yes that would offer a greater chance of success. Beautiful women can afford directness, you just have to judge whether he considers you one.
Don't be too direct, but just say you're glad when you can see him, and drop a lot of hints. As a guy I can tell you it takes a lot of hints for me to notice, because guys dont communicate like that, but we're not completely dense either.