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How do you guys get girls ?

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I know this sounds negative, but I'm not a hot/attractive man.

I'm not fat and I've been lifting weights to help build muscle and improve my self confidence.

The problem is that I just don't know how to talk to attractive girls.

I have no idea how to get them interested in me and I don't know what I should talk about everytime I meet one of them.

I know not to complement them on their looks, because a lot of them clearly know they're hot.

So, how do you guys get attractive girls ?

>Are you guys funny ?

>Do you guys have good jobs (financial status) ?

>How did you guys achieve a lot of confidence ?
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>Are you guys funny?

Not really funny but I can make a girl smile with my charm. You see I figured a long time ago I was never the club, bar, party kind of guy. The way I get girls is through meeting them in everyday locations like coffee shops, libraries and groceries stores. I start a convo, make an observation, say something cheesy and gauge how they response. If they are feeling me and are receptive I push and possibly get their number if nor I leave them alone.

>Do you guys have good jobs (financial status) ?

I make good money but live a modest lifestyle. From the way I dress, the car I have and the apartment I live in you would think I was poor but I can afford the finer things in life.

>How did you guys achieve a lot of confidence ?

Cliche but I failed a ton. In the early days I had to talk to myself to get myself pumped. Wrote down how many girls I would approach and do it. Didn't matter if it was my neighbour as long as I did it before midnight. Eventually I carved my own style and way to talking to girls which attracted a certain type of women.
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>>17597244

I'm quite shy and 100% serious all the time but whenever I open my mouth somehow I make people laugh, like it's not because I talk funny(because I don't) actually I don't know why they laugh,in college I took some logistics class this week just to see how it is and I've no idea what the professor asked nor what I answered but the class laughed

I came to the conclusion that I don't tell jokes, I am the joke

that's literally my only way to approach people and girls in general, screwing my social image
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Read The Game and How to Win Friends and Influence People.
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>>17597244
I have man boobs and social anxiety and i still get some pretty decent women. Its all about a woman's comfort level and if you can excite her. First you have to talk to her like she doesn't even have a vagina. Just talk to her as a friend and get to know her. Then move on gradually, if you see the interest is not there, just quit trying. Girls respect a guy that knows when to throw in the towel. Also the girl might actually come back after she has time to think differently of you.
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>Are you guys funny ?
No. I notice the ones that like me laugh at my shitty awful jokes,even some jokes that would even offend them.

>Do you guys have good jobs (financial status) ?
No. Im a broke 21 year old

>How did you guys achieve a lot of confidence ?
I just started going out and having friends. Community events, etc. Also smoking weed and cigarettes have helped. I always did this, so when people asked me about it I had something to talk about. Eventually this helped my self confidence.
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>>17597244
Also yes being funny is a massive plus, unless the girl is a big fat narcissist. Girls can respect a guy thats just himself and aims to make everyone smile
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>>17597265
This is very good advice anon about meeting them in local areas, but I think most of us falter on how a typical conversation might go.

Could you describe an example of a successful conversation in picking a girl up at a grocery store?
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