is it okay that i don't want to tell my bf my sexual history?

If he wants to know, you should tell him. Trust is important in a relationship. You don't have to go into gruesome detail about. But if what you told him is enough then you're good.

>>17597033
2 is nothing lol, I know a girl that is 21 and she had 4 but they were all in relationships with her boyfriends throughout the years. Were the 2 guys boyfriends or hook ups?

>>17597033
If you really don't want to tell him, you don't have to, but you also can't control how he feels. If he decides he doesn't like that answer, you can't really control that, whether it's a deal breaker is up to him.

Personally, I don't ask. The less I know the better. The only thing that matters to me is here and now, but some people don't feel that way.

Also, idk why you would be embarrassed or ashamed, 2 guys by age 23 is basically as rare as being a virgin for women by that age anyway

There's being honest, and there's how much information you're willing to disclose. If you are uncomfortable with talking about your sexual history, that doesn't really have anything to do with honesty, you just don't want to talk about your sexual history.

>>17597033
>is it okay that i don't want to tell my bf my sexual history?
Not really. Certainly your sexual history is not the business of random strangers. But by the time you've started calling someone your boyfriend, for health and safety reasons he's got a bona fide need-to-know. This goes both ways, of course: you have one on his as well.