GF Just Told Me She Dated A Black Guy

Dump her

Sorry, but how hold are you? You should know how unimportant that kind of stuff is. She's with you now, so why would you care about that? You say you're not, but this practically screams "insecure, immature and borderlien racist" to me.

Bet you also have a sexual history, parts of it being due to experimenting. Would you want to be judged for that?

Take a deep breath and consider how much this girls means to you. If this is enough of a reason to break up for you, then you don't deserve her anyway.

Your disgust stems from your internalized fears of inadequacy; be honest with yourself. Anyone who feels any sort of way about a girl's past boyfriends, no matter what their ethnicity, is giving voice to their own insecurity.

If you can't get over it, your only option is to dump her. You can't change the past, obviously.

Don't listen to anyone but your gut. Disgust is a feeling, nothing has to be rational about it. Dating outside your race is genetic treason, some people don't mind, some people do. No need to stay with a girl who is just going to make you feel miserable. Do yourself both a favor and dump her. So she can be with someone who accepts her, and so you can find someone who doesnt disgust you.

>>17595546
Shouldn't even be a question: dump her. Let her burn some more coal while you find a proper partner

>>17595580
>Dating outside your race is genetic treason
>nothing has to be rational about it

Whoa.. the first self-aware racist I've ever seen. fascinating

>>17595546
>She Dated A Black Guy
for how long ?
I'm sure it's not only one, since usually black guys hang out in a tight knit group...and one guy's gf is usually that eager white girl who wants to get to know everyone i.e. gangbang

>>17595568

What makes you think you're the judge on that? Where do you come off knowing what is and isn't reason enough to break up with a person?

Explain yourself.

>>17595591
You don't look very hard.

Dump her, obviously. There's only 2 people that will defend that shit. Whores and niggers.

See this thread as evidence.

>>17595598

That's the thing though: every single racist post I've ever read on the internet that came with any sort of justification was rooted in pseudo-science bullshit like phrenology or crime statistics cited in a confusion of correlation with causation. You're the first one I've ever seen admit that there isn't any rationalization involved

>>17595568
>experimenting
This is a woman meme. No straight man will ever tell you how he sucked a dick in college "as an experiment". It doesn't happen. Only women make that shit up so they can slut it up and pretend to themselves that it's not slutty because it's "just experimenting".

>>17595613
>crime statistics ARE RACIST!
Oh dear.

Also, learn to read. He said there doesn't NEED to be rationalisation, not "There is no rationalisation."

>>17595572

The obvious answer here.

Since we're on 4chan, I won't talk about how ridiculous this is, so let's just pretend it's normal to be disgusted by someone just because she dated a black person. If that's the case, dump her, because there's obviously no attraction from your side.

>>17595612

How do you go about dumping a person because of that without it blowing up in your face? Wait a while?

>>17595626
>I don't want to date you anymore
You don't need to explain shit if you don't want to. If you absolutely must and you're a little bitch afraid of being called a racist, just give her some bullshit line about "past promiscuity" or some shit.

>>17595572
>>17595625
>LIL WHITE BOI U JUS JELLY OF MUH DICK
Ah yes. The intellect of the negroid.

>>17595623
>Crime statistics are racist!
It's funny that you misqoute a guy, and then correct him for misqouting someone else.

>>17595641
It's almost like you don't understand how greentext is used on 4chan.

>>17595546
Well did she date a legitimate black guy or a nigger?

At the risk of sounding racist, there's a difference.

>>17595546
once you go black, we dont want you back

>>17595613
I don't see what that has to do with this. His post had nothing to do with black men being bad, only disgust with the idea of black men fucking white women. Most men are at least somewhat disgusted with the idea of "their women" being taken by "other men". It's pretty obvious that there is genetic precedent for that, men who care about their genetics being passed on are more likely to impregnate more women, and the men who don't care are more likely to let other men impregnate their women.

So the "care" genes duplicate more than the "don't care" genes.

>>17595617
>No man fallacy

Ignoring bi sexuals for a moment, this isn't a gender related issue, so that's a dumb comparison. Plenty of guys "experiment" with women of different races. It just less taboo to white rasict guys because white guys are scared black penis is going to put them to shame in the eyes of women forever, but white guys fucking other races doesn't threaten penis ego.

>>17595649
Spoiler: There isn't. A black guy is just a nigger that hasn't nig'd yet. But he will. They always do.

>>17595655
>bisexuals
You mean faggots in denial/hiding behind bisexuality to avoid the stigma of being an out and out faggot?

>MUH BLACK DICK
>again
Kek. I'm so embarrassed for you.

>>17595546
chain her up in the kitchen and make her regret what she has done

stay mad 3 inch wyte cuck ive fucked 12 white girls and i will never ever stop

>>17595623

I said quoting crime statistics (to prove criminal behavior is linked to ethnicity) is a confusion of correlation and causation. You're the one who is lacking reading comprehension skills.

>His post had nothing to do with black men being bad, only disgust with the idea of black men fucking white women.

Being disgusted by anything is inherently indicating that it is bad. How can you not see this?

>Most men are at least somewhat disgusted with the idea of "their women" being taken by "other men". It's pretty obvious that there is genetic precedent for that, men who care about their genetics being passed on are more likely to impregnate more women, and the men who don't care are more likely to let other men impregnate their women.

This entire half-baked idea hinges on the assumption that caring about your offspring's genes is embedded in our genetic code, when it is obviously socialized. For centuries humans had no idea wtf genes even were. Do you also think peoples' taste in music and clothing is genetic? Genes are expressed in the physical and chemical composition of the body. Think about what you're saying...

>>17596186
forgot to quote

>>17595653
who I also responded to

If it bothers you this much then try dating someone who shares the same views as you. Keep in mind though, 90% of the world's population looks at your views as redneck nonsense, but it's your choice and freedom I guess.

Here's the deal. The vast majority of black guys are shit. Their culture glorifies shit. There are exceptions, but they are rare. If the only information you have is that your girlfriend dated a black guy, the odds are, she dated someone who was shit. That doesn't reflect well on her.

Even if you take race out of it, I don't want to date anyone who previously dated someone trashy or shitty. It just so happens that most black guys are shitty, though, so you can reasonably assume that the girl is not worth dating if she dated a black guy. If OP really likes her, he should question her about how shitty the black guy was, but be warned that she'll probably lie about it so as not to feel guilty about it herself.

>>17596207
It mostly depends on their education and environment. Ghetto blacks are the ones you're talking about, there are pretty genuine people who are misunderstood because of the stereotype that all black people are ghetto people. I knew a black dude from Nigeria in high school, was the smartest, most polite guy in my class and he was very christian. Don't judge based on colour, because you get to miss out and misjudge good human beings just because of ignorant stereotypes.

Yes a lot of black people can be shit, but it's mostly due to their environment. Kids are like sponges, they absorb whatever's around them and learn from it. If a guy grew up in a shitty neighbourhood, he's gonna turn up as a shitty person regardless of race.

>>17595546
>What would you do in my shoes?
I wouldn't put my feet in to a pair of shoes that a black has had it's feet in before me.

>>17596207
Take a look at this enlightened individual with his hard facts
Also
"I've never dated anyone who turned out to be shitty! If I had, it obviously means I would be shitty!"

You're better off dumping her, for her sake. She probably actually found the guy attractive, like she found or finds you. Nothing against BBC. Nothing exotic. I wouldn't want to date someone as insecure as you.

>>17595595
doubt the gangbang theory but do agree that when black guys see a white girl will date black guys they get in line.

I understand OP's point. It would be one thing if she met a guy fell for him and he just happened to be black but frequently that is not what happens. The white girl goes for the guy because he is black, never plans to have a relationship, wants to try him out and then brags about and dares white guys to have a problem with it.

>>17595572
amen

>>17596273
>wants to try him out and then brags about and dares white guys to have a problem with it.

Who the fuck even does this? Then again I never dated a white chick.

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>>17595546
Burn coal pay toll.
Get an std test after you punch out.

>this thread
I hate being half black so much.

>>17596326
You shouldn't hate yourself just cause a bunch of people hate you for your skin colour or race. It's not your fault your parents decided to fuck each other and have a child.

>>17596326
why? bud, you are in the drivers seat right now for white pussy and could have all you can eat. The window is open take full advantage of being on their bucket list.

>>17595546
Why tf would you care about that? But lol if you think that way she obviously doesn't deserve you.

>>17595546
If I was in your situation, I would simply say to break it off, but don't give that as the reason, let it simmer for a week, don't bring it up and tell her you just don't see a future in the relationship.
If you burn the coal, you pay the toll, I've never met a respectable woman who dated outside her race.

>>17595546
>I'm fairly sure the majority of white girls see black guys as an exotic item
Maybe it is just because I'm just from a predominantly white country, but most women don't like black guys, it is only the coal burners who do.

>and are fascinated by the big dick meme and want to try it out.
Everyone who isn't insecure and sits on the internet watching porn knows the BBC meme comes from a comedian, just like the small asian dick meme.
Like I said, coal burners.

>>17596343
I don't want to be a living sex meme. I want love.

>>17596326
I'm mulatto too.
You tend to find that you get a free pass, both blacks and whites are wary of you, but half of each group will accept you regardless, depending on how black/white you act.
PROTIP having a white dad to teach you not to be a nigger works great, not following nigger culture works even better.

>>17596343
>you are in the drivers seat right now for white pussy and could have all you can eat. The window is open take full advantage of being on their bucket list.
I'm not him, but it isn't that straight forward.

Imagine being a white guy in Japan.
Most of the women have 0 attraction to you, because you aren't a jap, but those who do think you are like a "mooooovieee stahhhhrrr", they want your dick, but they don't really want you.
They are the equivalent of coal burners.

When you are black or mulatto, many of the white women who like you ONLY like you because you are "exotic", or because they are almost exclusively into black guys.
They don't want a relationship with you, they just want to walk with you in public enjoying the attention with the "yeah I'm fucking a black guy" grin, they want you to wear a chain when you fuck them or they expect you to care for your Nikes BECAUSE you are black, they want to tell their friends that you have a massive dick, they want to make their ideal a reality, and they will lie to themselves.
Then, they leave you, because a darker skinned guy takes their fancy, because you aren't ethnic enough for them, or because you simply aren't what they wanted out of it.

It's like going to a shitty buffet you don't want to go back to because all the options are poor.

>>17595546
>It's not like I'm insecure
Yes, yes you are.

>>17596356
Some people take the whole race thing and country pride way too seriously. Like there was this one chick who dumped a relative of mine just because he was 'too black' for her, she wanted a white guy in order to 'continue the family lineage' (her words). It's sad, because often times people genuinely love each other but race just acts as a pointless barrier and I've seen so many people get dumped just because of cultural differences and this kind of stuff. In the end we're all human, what does it matter to hold onto your supposed heritage from centuries ago?

>>17596359
I act like the stereotypical computer science major I think, being home schooled and my tech geek white dad are probably why I'm this way.

It's most of the reason why I wish my mom were white, Asian or even Hispanic or something, being half-black(and thus seen as black) makes people expect you to act a certain way that I'm just not. Moreover, the stigma and fetishization that comes with dating a darker(or lighter for blacks) man like me is pretty dehumanizing and disheartening. Unless I find another mulatto somehow I can't see any relationship I have lasting that long.

Just got home hence late response.

What if she never told you? Think about it from that perspective.

Smells a whole lot like bait. Anyways,
>Any attractiveness I felt to her has been completely wiped away
It's over, doesn't matter whether OP is insecure, or a racist, or whatever.

>>17596461
Just tell people that you're different? Idk man, I know how you feel because I've been mistreated because of race before, but if you do noticeably act differently, then people will like you more and it will show.

Well if she dated him she probably wasn't 100% into the big black dick meme. I mean was it her immediate previous boyfriend and it was a recent breakup or something? If they don't really talk anymore I wouldn't be worried about it.

>>17596475
I guess, I don't put on a "real nigga" front or anything so I guess if someone is interested in me it'll be for who I am, maybe. That makes me feel a bit better.

Boy, am I glad to live in a country with minimal niggers. Stay cucked, Meriturds!

>>17595546


Be more open minded xD
After all,the past is the past right?

>>17596277

Daddy issues, self-centered, drama-loving

to name a few

>>17595546
Its natural- not necessarily justified, but natural, for some people to feel this way.

Truth is, if you do feel this way, chances are you won't be able to change it. Personally, how I feel about that scenario would depend on what kind of person she dated, was. If he was an intelligent, well adjusted person who is incidentally black, it wouldn't be a big deal. If hes a walking stereotype, though, then I would call it off, since it means she either has really bad taste, or just fetishized him, and thats not the kind of person I'd like to be with.

>>17595626
Tell her you've had sex with multible black and fat women

>>17595568
>>>/reddit/

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>>17595568
>how hold are you?

Go ahead, break up with her.

In two years you'll come back, bitching about how you can't find a girlfriend.

>>17595568
>tfw no sexual history whatsoever

>>17595572
>>17595568
There is literally nothing wrong with not wanting to be with a white girl that has or does like black men, there's nothing racist about it. And even if there was something racist about it why the fuck does that matter? Would you want to be with a woman that used to shoot up heroin, fuck 15 men and then pass out in their shit and piss?

I'm insecure so I'd probably try to get over it for a while and fail and eventually ruin the relationship on my own or just dump her