She's a childhood friend from elementary but i moved away from her town. We're both 20 years old now and we have been flirty on facebook for the past few years. Sadly we never manage to meet each other until now. She's bringing some anime over for us to watch.
I need advice on what not to do. I'm really nervous but excited to meet her and i don't want to fuck things up.
Don't be nervous, friendo. If something gives you anxiety, then chances are it's gonna be good for you. You just need to avoid letting everything turn into spaghetti.
Being yourself may be an overused solution, but that's because it works. Don't say things just to impress her, don't lie about things, even if they don't make you appear spectacular, you're at least honest and she won't fail to notice that.
Finally, don't show off or initiate anything unless you KNOW she's given you the green light to do so or you'll run the risk of rejection. Make plenty of eye contact when you talk to her (never look down) but don't stare either; make sure to nod now and again to gesticulate yourself.
Don't be nervous, look forward to it. There's a girl coming to your house. Don't look back on this moment and regret, you have to seize the moment and shine in her eyes.
>>17595198
Don't expect sex and view her as another person and it should go smoothly
Be nice, be honest, and most of all just be you and don't get too flustered if you stutter, it'll work out if you just pay attention mang
>>17595198
Agreed with what was said so far, except maybe this:
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>Finally, don't show off or initiate anything unless you KNOW she's given you the green light to do so or you'll run the risk of rejection
You've got to act if you think things are going well. Nothing too forceful or dramatic, but make it clear you're interested; be playful about it.
Sorry for late replies. Fucking connection error had to use firefox.
>>17595371
Thanks for the advice. Gonna be myself.
>>17595412
This is helpful. If the thread is still up after she leaves then ill post results.
>>17595446
Ok i was planning to flirt. I was thinking of sitting really close to her but not touching close then see what goes from there.
>>17595526
Don't be afraid to touch her after you've talked for a while. You wanna be as casual about it as you can, like passing your hand over her shoulder as you point at something.
I guess there's a cultural aspect to it, but most girls I know are pretty chill about it unless you get gross. Most of the time I just side hug them for a while before deciding whether or not to go for a kiss.
>>17595631
What constitutes as being gross? I generally know but i'd like to hear from someone else
>>17595666
It's usually a bad idea to go for the chest or waist line before the third date. Stick to the "cute" stuff - arm over her shoulder, hand-holding, the works.