PEOPLE LIKE ME IRL, BUT NOT ONLINE

>>17593022
Pretty sure that's the way normal humans ought to be. Telephones are just machines to see if the other person is there and to relay important bits of information. Not to gossip and carry on

https://youtu.be/wIXL8tpKm6g

>>17593034
Mhhh, not sure if I agree. I know that people definetly use online and phone chats and calls to arrange to hang out later and for chit-chatting.

>>17593041
>people definetly use online and phone chats and calls to arrange to hang out later and for chit-chatting.
Yeah. Say hi, make a date to hang out and end it at that. No one is going to be upset because you won't text them all day long.

Then again, you might just be a person who comes off as a good person to socialize with but in reality you're a sperg or something that turns people off.

>>17593054
>Say hi, make a date to hang out and end it at that.

I think I was very clear in the OP. What you are saying "just do X" is exactly what I am doing and is not working.

>>17593090
Then you must be a windowlicker and folks are being nice to you. Post your photo

>>17593105
>windowlicker
>window licker. (derogatory) ~ sl.: euphemism for a person of mentally challenged status. Etymology: C20 - Derived from the stereotyped behaviour of mentally ...

You might be onto something here, but if that is the case, then why do they give me their real number / facebook contact? They could just give me any bullshit, or they could even outright reject me. Furthermore, what about the moments when they ASK ME for my contact info?

>>17593135
Windowlickers pose no threat and people feel bad for them. That's why, lol.

Are you intellectually on par? Then again if you're retarded you're probably oblivious, as half of the people who lurk here.

>>17593154
I am intellectually on par, but my "social intelligence" is subpar, I guess, since I can't get people interested in hanging out with me and having a regular group of friends. Maybe you are right and whenver I feel accepted and that everything is going great IRL the people I am talking with and having a great time with are actually feeling sorry for me.

Thanks for your insight, I never considered that perspective, you have given me some food for thought.

>>17593169
If you have some intelligence, then use your brain to help raise your EQ. Read books about social interaction and watch videos about it. Then go apply what you learned.

>>17593189
Hahaha, you have no idea. I do that on a regular basis.

>>17593205
>I do that on a regular basis.
If you can't help yourself even after trying, then you're probably on the 'tism spectrum

>>17593209
I am, but what I am suppoused to do other than try my best? I can't become someone else magically, so I have to try my best with the current situation that I am in. That is why I was asking for some advice in here.

>>17593217
I just gave you advice and you said you frequently do it with no results. There is nothing else that is going to help you at this point if you can't even do what I just said.

>>17593229
So you suggest I just give up on socializing and trying to have firends/metting girls?

Just keep to myself forever and ever?

>>17593245
You say you attract people enough that they give you their details. Yet when you follow up no one wants anything to do with you. You say you try to enhance your social abilities, and it's still to no avail.

There is something that's not right. There is something you're not sharing with us

>>17593255
>There is something you're not sharing with us

I literally have no idea what is the piece of the puzzle that is missing. I am not hiding something, it is just that I have no idea what is wrong.

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>>17593264
>it is just that I have no idea what is wrong.
>>can't advance EQ even though he says he is 'on par' with everyone else
>>>said he tried reading about how to increase EQ and make social interaction easier, and then says he still can't even thought he's been trying

That's what's wrong