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I honestly feel like I can't attract females. It's so strange. I just don't have what women want but they have what I want.

What can be done? I feel like asking women out is a fucking suicide mission too.

My confidence is low too. I have never had any confidence because confidence seems like a huge lie.

What does it feel like when a woman actually likes you? I may never know.
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It also doesn't help that women my age(25) have so many dudes crawling up their ass that I am not even worth it fuck.
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>I feel like asking women out is a fucking suicide mission too.
And this, OP, is what you missed: it isn't.

This is not just because you aren't doomed to failure: you really aren't, but failure is possible. You might even fail many times before you succeed. The real reason it's not a suicide mission is that death is a bad metaphor: rejection stings, of course, but it just isn't that bad. Pining like this is way worse. She could slap you and call you a creep and kick you inna nerts, and you'd still feel better than you do right now, longing hopelessly (you think) for what (you think) you can never have.

This is the only thing pick-up artists will ever tell you that is not bullshit. Don't waste your money on books or your time on Websites; this is literally the only thing of any value that they have to offer. And now it's yours. Use it well.
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>>17592713
I understand the advice you are saying. I guess my bigger issue is that it seems a large amount of women my age are taken already.

This has lead to me having to use dubious tactics in finding out if a woman has a boyfriend or not without asking explicitly. For example, using Facebook.

I don't like doing that. But you have no choice
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Stop giving a fuck. In fact, you should love rejection, it means you tried. Also you get to talk to pretty girls for at least a second, man I wish getting girls was my biggest issue, but I have nasty scars on my arm, I can't bring myself to talk to girls and pretend like dating me would be a good idea.

Now that I think about it being in the mental hospital is what really taught me how to not give a fuck, I hit on every girl in sight. I think the scariest thing is transitioning from that guy who doesn't talk to girls at all to that guy that talks to every girl. Being in a new environment allowed me to set a new precedent for myself, nonstop flirting became a part of my day, rejection simply became comical and expected.

I guess what I'm trying to say is you probably have the potential to hit on girls relentlessly without a care in the world, you're just not in the flow of doing it naturally which makes rejection seem like nothing.
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>>17592988
I understand. It's just hard when I have been burned so many times. Humans evolved to learn from our mistakes. If you put your tongue on a outlet and it shocks you, you probably won't do it again.
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