Escort: To do or not to do

If it is really important to you then do it.

I personally recommend you to not give a shit about being a virgin or not. I'm 25 and I'm still a virgin because having sex is not the absolute everything you should strive for, as the popular culture has made you believe.

>>17592136

Lost mine to an escort at 22 and went to a few others after that. It's seriously not a big deal at all - it's like any business; sometimes you go to a store and the clerk is real nice and caring and sometimes it's just a bored college student.

I'd say you should do it just to see how basic the whole thing is. Two tips, though: A, go for a more mature broad, 25-30, since they tend to know what they're doing and are generally nicer; B, learn how to properly put on a condom at home first - I was paranoid thinking about disease for months after the thing broke because I didn't air-tight unroll it like I should've.

>>17592145

It is important. That's why I ask now and not 5 months later. I kinda fell for this young teacher of mine and even though I jerked off twice this morning, yet I had a raging boner during her lesson. This is autism on two different levels: One: I fell for a teacher, two: I flirted with her quite a few times

I think it's because I don't have any girls really close to me and she's the only attractive person I meet on a daily basis. I have to do something before I do something retarded.


I gotcha about sex not being that important, I understand that and I can see where you're coming from. I had no sexual contact until I was 17 and I was doing fine. During the past one and a half year though, I had so many close-calls and so much more attention from girls that it's like being perpetually blue-balled. I need release.
It was different then because I thought sex was either gonna happen "naturally" or it'll stay unattainable. Now that there's an actual possibility to have a normal sex life, it's a whole lot different.


I don't wanna fuck up my studies (I need her help) because of autism, and I don't want to die a wizard. I'll have to choose this week and do the act next weekend.

>>17592201

Well go ahead and ask for an escort then. Your choice.

But keep in mind the following, as you're still young:

>having sex won't make you an adult
>having sex wont make your problems go magically away
>having sex wont change your character of your confidence
>having sex won't make you a true man
>having sex wont set you for life
>having sex wont mean you are better than anyone that hasn't had it yet

Having sex is only a fun way to pass time (and a great way of sharing affection with your SO), and it feels good too. But it's not everything.

With that in mind, go ahead and call a escort if you wish, have fun and enjoy it anon.

Like he said >>17592195
If you need it, if you want a release then go and enjoy, just that. After the bedding you gonna have more confidence and feel better

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>>17592136
I didn't lose my virginity to a prostitute, but I fuck them from time to time.


I have a gf now so I only do it when she isn't around.


I would go for it, It'll give you some practice I wish i had when i lost my virginity to a girl i cared about and completely blew the chance to be with her because i came after 3 or 4 pumps.

My life might be different today if I had fucked a prostitute before my first gf

>>17592136
It's your choice, dude, and I'm not going to offer an opinion on it, I'm sure you'll get plenty here anyway. But I do want to put something in perspective for you: being a virgin at 18 is not that unusual. You're not particularly late. You may be in the minority, but it's far from a tiny minority, and I know many well-adjusted, attractive people of both sexes who didn't lose theirs until they were 20-22. Loads of people get to college etc without having had sex. So feel free to continue not worrying about this, if you want.

I will say that from your description of yourself, it's obviously going to happen eventually and probably before too long. On the other hand, sex really isn't a huge deal and losing your virginity is like a non-event after it happens (usually just a mildly embarrassing/unpleasant memory).

>>17592215

I got those covered, I know who I am and how confident I am, and I know how far I am from being an actual adult (not just by age). I have my problems but I can handle social situations fine (except when it comes to making the first move leading to sex). I want to improve myself without depending on others. I'm not looking for a life-changing experience, just an end to this struggle.


Thank you, man.

>>17592259

Don't worry anon.

As a permavirgin, I would like to try it at least once, to see what's the fuss all about. But I know it won't be a life changing experience, even although I have a fucking high libido.

You could pay the escort to "train" you so you don't blow it when it happens with someone you're interested on. A pair of friends told me they did it and it went well for them.

Godspeed anon.