Will any man cheat if given the opportunity? And they know no

>>17589877
Chad will. If you only want Chad, then yes, enjoy being just another replaceable bitch.

>>17589877

Most people would. Morality is something you adhere to publicly while pursuing your self interest privately. It's easy enough to rationalize this behavior after the fact.

Nope. Even if no one else did, I would know, and that's enough for me to be against it.

Self-respect is a thing. If you believe no one else has it and can't sympathize with that, your worldview is kind of fucked up (not necessarily blaming you for that, but that is your reality).

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>>17589877
Will any woman cheat if given the opportunity? And they know no one will ever find out


See what I did there?

>>17589877

>Will any man cheat if given the opportunity? And they know no one will ever find out

I think asking what someone would and wouldn't do if it was 100% guaranteed no one would find out is a loaded question balanced on the edge of a slippery slope.

Do what the rest of us do; find someone you love and hope for the best. This hypothetical "would you wouldn't you" bullshit will only show you someone's capacity for depravity, not their capacity to use their logical brain to process situations and make the right decision.

>>17589905

But men and women are different..especially when it comes to lust/desire/sex?

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>>17589915
You're joking right?

>>17589915
Anyone would cheat given the right circumstances.

>>17589877
Pic related is 10/10/10. So, no.

I would certainly like to think that I wouldn't cheat, even if I knew no one would ever find out. But I admit that I have not really been put to the test on that.

I suppose if they lack moral fibre. I've cheated countless times but it's usually because I was too gutless to break up with them when I knew I wasn't happy.

I will say though that in every context it was basically thrust upon me and I simply acted on it.

I was in a long distance relationship for one and half year with this girl whom i was head over heels in love with -Or was it just infatuation? Doesn't matter now.

We didn't have many opportunities to see each other because of our tight schedules, and when we did, it was hard for us to be alone because her religious family wanted to know where we were going everytime we went out together, and they even called her sometimes to make sure we weren't doing anything that would make Jesus upset. So, sex happened -And i'm not joking here, once every 4 months or more.
This was so difficult and so stressing for me, because being a heterossexual male in his early 20s, I'M HORNY AS FUCK, ALL THE TIME.

I used to work in a factory full of women here in my city, from early 20s to 40 year old women, and being short, slightly socially awkward and having bad skin, i'm surely not one of the most attractive guys out there, yet, quite a bunch of the females in my workplace were interested in me, and miraculously some of them were actually attractive and had nice bodies.
I turned down every single one of them.

I could have had sex with all of them without my ex ever finding out, she lives 540 kilometers -That's 335 miles, 'muricans- from here, and i'm a smart guy, if i really wanted, i could have banged my coworkers every weekend and she had absolutely no way to find out. But i didn't, first, because if i did, i knew i wouldn't be able to sustain the guilty and eventually would confess, and by doing that i would not only lose someone who i deeply cared for, i'd also hurt her badly and this is something i would never be able to forgive myself for.

"Never" - "If i ever lose her, let it be because she doesn't want me, or because we are going separate ways in our lives, but never because of cheating". I repeatedly told myself as i turned down every girl that was interested in me, even the ones that were better looking than her, had sexier shapes and were down to fuck.

Cont. 1/2

2/2

So, this was me. Horny like a motherfucker and turning attractive girls down because i didn't want to lose and hurt someone that i saw personally 5 or 6 times in the span of one and a half year.

Unfortunately, this fairy tale didn't end well for me, because in october last year, she dumped me. The reason?

- I don't want you to come see me again. She said

- Why? I replied.

- Because i don't love you, actually, i don't feel anything for you.

And this is why, i have been depressed and lost all motivation to do anything with my life and move forward for almost one year now. I don't know if i will be able to like someone as much as i liked her ever again, she was everything i wanted, she made my heart race everytime i saw her smile, she was the prettiest girl in the world for me, i was ready to kill in her defense, anytime. I tried to be the best version of myself i could for her.

I'm currently trying to pick myself up again, my family and friends are helping me, i'll try to land a job after my cholecystectomy - I have gallstones, found out a few weeks ago after waking up in the middle of the night with a excruciating pain, you know, the usual.

So, OP, to answer your question, no, not all of us are cheaters. Some of us value loyalty, trust and love.

3/2

Ah.. And to add: I don't regret anything. Would do it all again.

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>>17589935

Most people would. There are weird ones out there though.

>tfw honest to a fault
>tfw man of my word even if it inconveniences me
>never stolen, manned up when I lied as a kid, etc.
>tfw honesty and integrity has fucked me over sometimes but I sleep well at night

I've only had two gfs but near the end of both of those relationships it turned to shit and I had opportunities to cheat that would have had low risks of being caught. I didn't even think much about it before shutting them down since I would have felt awful and lost respect for myself.

Hell, I even had an acquaintance's gf try to fuck me and had some married chick at a party come onto me while single. I felt disgusted and turned them both down too. I could've tried to rationalize it with "they're just going to fuck someone else" but in my mind I didn't want to be 'that guy' and it would have made me lose sleep knowing I participated in such a dishonest thing.

I'm probably just a weird autist. I even keep a notebook with stuff I owe people, debt they owe me or promises I've made and haven't yet completed to myself and others.

>>17590047

Thank you for your story..really made me smile because you value really good things. I am sorry it didn't work out..but I am sure you will find someone closer to you and someone who will cherish you..I really hope you do pick up the pieces..do the best you can for yourself!

Also it isn't that I think all men will cheat if given the opportunity..I just wanted to see what /adv/ thought about this question..I believe everyone is different..some will..some won't!

>>17589926
you're trolling

>>17590055

Cute :) Don't change haha

>>17590079
ur cute

>>17589877
Of course not, why?
Cheating is disrespectful to the person I'm with, and runs contrary to my moral code.
I'm a man and there are probably many more like me.

>>17590055
Not autism, people like us just feel compelled to do what we think is the right thing, where this compulsion is stronger than base biological drives.
How strong the different drives are varies a lot among people.

>>17590094
you arent a man

>>17589890
>>17589877

desu the only reason I'm even trying to lose weight is so I can become chad and cuck various girls

>>17589905
women would definitely cheat if they knew no one would ever find out, then they'd do some insane mental gymnastics to rationalize their behavior so they don't think of themselves as a bad person.

that's women. literally all of them do that kind of rationalization shit for the fucked up shit they do.

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>>17589877
well our ancestors were not monogamous and cheating statics show that both genders are willing to cheat. I don't think monogamy is very natural in humans.

i'm female but my reasons for not cheating are
>i know how it feels to be cheated on
>i'd rather be remembered and missed for being the best they'd ever have
>feels good knowing i don't give easily into temptations and that i'm more disciplined/ambitious than others

i guess i'm a little different in the sense that i'm very competitive and ambitious and always put my best effort forward in everything i do; especially in my relationships. makes it easier for me to move on knowing the nobodies would take my efforts for granted... i don't regret making them happy at that time though. just feels good not to be the shitty one in the relationship.

i do admit it's getting tiring being fucked over a lot of times and being used as the "back up" for when they see something new come along... doesn't mean i'll change the way i am, but i'll probably give up on relationships and focus on my career and hobbies instead. maybe fuck male escorts on the side.

I've had the opportunity, plenty of times. Never have.

I do sometimes convince girls to cheat on their boyfriends with me though.

>>17590170
This seems to be true. It's an interesting experience calling out an old lady whos spent all her life rationalizing questionable behavior, I recommend it.

>>17590223
It may not be successful, but I think it is a natural initial impulse. People are just shitty.

>>17590788
Sounds kinda douche-ay hope you where tha Jimmy hat

>>17590801
Yeah, well, fuck 'em. I respect my relationships, I don't feel particularly driven to respect anyone else's.

Is that Ariana Grande or whatever her name is? She's the hottest American pop star since young Britney Spears.

>>17590223
>well our ancestors were not monogamous
Historically, most were. Evolutionarily, our closest relatives run the entire gamut, from the hypersexed bonobo to the monogamous chimpanzee: we simply don't know about our direct predecessors in the genus Homo.

>I don't think monogamy is very natural in humans.
That's just something cheaters say in an attempt to justify their behavior to themselves.

noone while ever truly love you out of anything more convenience. get used it you pathetic fuck

Yes they will and anyone who tells you otherwise is a fucking liar. All men cheat. All.

>>17589877
No. Fucking no, god why do so many people judge all men as the same. Its just ridiculous. Grow up.

>>17591343
The statistics are kinda high but more than 40% of men and 40% have never cheated in any relationship according to this study I read last week. That's better than 0% at least.

I personally would never cheat, my dad did while I was 6 and in the hotel room as it happened. I slept in the bathroom to get away from the noises. My mom forgave him but I don't think I ever will.

>>17591375
40% of women

The real question is "does he need to cheat?". Because if he needs, he will. And if he doesn't feel like having sex with anybody else, he won't.

>>17589877
any woman will cheat if they believe no one will ever know. The risk of losing the relationship they are in is the single most important factor. Take that away and you have more pussy than you can get to in a lifetime. No relationships but lots of pussy.

Stupid question, can't generalize the whole population in a 50-50 choice.

I am a guy and I had the opportunity to sleep with a woman and my girl would never find out, a milf I met at a bar literally asked me to come with her purely for sex and that we would never see each other again - I refused. Make no mistake she was smoking hot and very thirsty..

But hey that's just me.

>>17591394
And then you woke up.

>>17591394
true but make that a female with an offer from a male in the bar and the female will take it

>>17591394
My ex had a woman lure him in a bar and he went for it. The biggest slap in the face was when she made a Facebook post saying that she can sleep easy knowing she's not the one being cheated on. Damn.

>>17591411
I'm terribly sorry that those events transpired, m'lady.

Here's a better question for everyone in this thread:

Are relationships some sort of video game that you honestly think you can "cheat" on them?

What game are you playing on these people, since that's all it is?

If it's just a game, since it's not marriage, why do you care if someone "cheats" or not? It's just a game.

>>17591421
Shut up retardo.

>>17591343
>Feminist landwhale detected

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>>17591343

>>17590170
This isn't necessarily true. I'd never cheat on my boyfriend, even if I thought he'd never find out. Cheating is fucked up; it's completely morally wrong. If I somehow became dissatisfied with my sex life, or anything else, with my boyfriend, I wouldn't fucking cheat on him, I'd leave him before finding someone else. It's like what >>17589900 said. I agree with him totally.

You'd have to be a real shithead who doesn't give a fuck about your partner if you're gonna cheat on then, regardless of whether or not they'd find out.

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>>17589877
Here's the honest answer OP, and it may surprise you:

No

If your man is a nice guy who actually cares about you, and about 75% of men fall into that category, he'll be faithful.

source:
I've had plenty of opportunities to cheat with 8/10 qt3.14's but I know none of them will ever measure up the amazing personality of my girlfriend of 4 years. Only scummy fuckers cheat

>>17589877
It depends. Don't listen to anyone generalize. If you can't verify the man's character, you shouldn't be involved with his penis.

Women are more likely to cheat if the couple is broke or struggling, while men are more likely to cheat in an affluent relationship.

>>17591464
>>17589900
This.

>>17590038
I had a similar situation as far as the whole distance thing, but unlike you I gave into the temptation. I was constantly around many little college sluts and I'm considered (don't take this as bragging) a really "hot dude" only I'm a man let. So I gave in even tho i felt exactly about my ex as u did and she lived in Jacksonville and I'm in Orlando. We lasted a year before my friend told her what I had been doing and it ended. Only thing is I found out she was fuckin a dude in the navy during the last few months of the relationship and now there married so it was hard for me to.really feel guilty.
I'm in no way suggesting cheating but don't think ANY girl isn't possible fuckin around

>>17589955
I second this. We can yell loyalty and morals all we want until something that is free is put right in front of us.

>>17589877

41 year old man here.

I've been wondering the same.

Sometimes, I really think so. After being married for so long, if I had a clear shot to sleep with a strange woman, I don't know if I could say no.

However, I've been propostioned in the past, and said no, but I was younger, and I don't ever feel like I was 100% safe and could get away with it.

So, I think context matters. Durinmg the first few years of marriage? No way!

After 15 years, and I was 100% I could get away with it? I still might say no, but it would be a hard sell.

I cheated with my first wife, and I literally had no regrets about a 1-night stand.

But I really love my 2nd wife, and I would hate to have that literal piece of corruption in a long and honest marriage.

>>17589877
0/10 b8

>>17589877
generally yes. they tend to make up for it by buying excessive dinner as if we're stupid.

>>17591343
The saltiness is strong with this one...

>>17589905
no we tend to push away guys before they even tell us their name

Honestly, no. I'd feel like shit and would regret it.

>>17589877
It's fun to think about, but no woman in the world is hot enough to make me forget that I love my wife and I would never betray her trust like that.

No, not everyone. And frankly, if a person would consider it, they're probably not in a very good relationship.

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As much shit as robots get, well deserved might I add, they aren't completely wrong. (Wiki: monogamy)

That being said, things are a lot different than how they were 18,000 years ago.

Perhaps monogamy is unnatural, but that doesn't justify betraying a partner's trust. If you aren't monogamous then be open and up-front about it.

>>17589895
This, I cheated Sunday night

>>17589877
I'm a man and once had a heavy breakup with my girlfriend over something stupid (but still impactful). During the breakup period I just focused on getting over her because I legitimately thought that would be the end of us.

Eventually, we got another date planned to see if it could work out again (which, in the end, it did fyi). That date was like 10 days away from the moment we decided on it and during that intermettent period I went out with my friends, had about 3 attractive girls hit on me, and rejected them one by one, even though she wouldn't have found out if I did anything.

This is anecdotal, and it might not apply to all men because we are not a hivemind like 99% of women, but I hope it at least shows that your "any man" premise is false.

tl;dr no