Wew anons, Im having a bit of a situation here.
I used to be a somewhat autistic beta till I decided I wanted some experience with women. So I started gaining experience using tinder and whatnot.
Fastforward to a party: get drunk, girl is there I am aquitences with. Kiss girl, drunk me tells her I fancied her for a while and some adittional bs (which was not true). She wants to go out with me the next day, so I sperg and agree to it.
Having no experience I miss all her red flags. She forcefully enters my life and manipulates me, I became too emotionally invested in her. She turns out to be superinsecure and has 0% of self reflection. It turns very toxic very fast, and I didnt even bone her. Causes a great deal of damage in me, she seems fine. Shes a toxic person in general due to having mental issues.
Fast forward to now: She burns through three additional guys and always tries to get with me in between her relationships. In the meantime I realize she just wants a guy, because cant bear to be alone because of daddy issues, and would just use me.
So recently she contacted me again saying she misses me and some other bs. A friend of mine and I are having a party and he invited her. She lives far away and literally told me she wants to sleep in my bed.
1) I want to get my dick wet to finish some unfinished business
2) I do not want a relationship because she is a toxic person & I dont have feelings for her anymore
3) I dont want to bullshit my way into her pants, and harm her emotionally
So how can I make the three above points work?
Tl;dr
Crazy Ex gf with daddy issues wants to spend the night with me, I want to bone her, but not hurt her feelings.
She probably has a bastard in the oven and there is a time frame in which if she fucks you she can claim, "anon, I'm knocked up".
Sounds like you're one of her "possible stand by chads"
If you were a autistic beta, none of this would be happening. Go back to that and delete this slag's number.
There is a very good reason for the phrase "Don't stick your dick in crazy".
There is plenty of non-crazy pussy out there Anon, if you really just want to get your dick wet, get a hooker.
What >>17588079 said can be very true as well, if that's the case, then fucking her would only make matters MUCH worse.
Just don't do it dude.
>>17588073
I'd say >>17588079 is definitely possible. That aside, chick sounds like trash either way. Nowadays it all comes down to the DR talks - if the subject comes up, tell her straight up that you are not looking for a relationship right now, if not, just fuck her - no strings attached.
Stop worrying about what she may or may not assume. You don't have to be an Alpha bro to fuck a girl and "forget" to call later.
>>17588084
I used to be, Ive grown out of it
>>17588088
Seems like proper advice desu
For some reason my dick gets hard as diamonds when a girl tells me she likes me. I suppose I ought to look for someone that offers me that and is not crazy
>>17588105
>a girl tells me she likes me
You're luck, son! I heard that's a pretty common fetish. I mean, you enjoy being appreciated and accepted? Holy shit, what a freak.
>>17588073
>getting drunk at a party
>using Tinder
>girl wants to sleep in your bed
Hello, Norman.
>>17588073
It's not worth it anon. Just give her the middle finger and exit (maybe with style?)
>>17588105
>my dick gets hard as diamonds when a girl tells me she likes me
so you get an erection at the possibility that a female might consider you as an eligible mate?
funny how biology works, boyo