Talked on and off for 4 days with this Tinder girl. Talked a

>>17586779
Wait for next week and ask again. If she is interested she will definitely make time.

>>17586779
Don't overthink it. Just keep talking to her, and come Monday bring it up again by asking her what day she's free for that coffee date.

If she flakes out again, then assume she's not too interested and move on.

>>17586779

If she was really interested, she would have proposed a specific alternative time/date.

She'll be busy next week too.

You can leave the door open, though, say something like, "Sounds good, let me know when you're free." Then move on.

A girl i met on tinder last month was busy for 2 weeks before we met. We met and had a nice date, and THEN she blew me off after it and has replied like a brick wall since.

OP here

I just responded with "Yeah for sure!" Going to take it easy and just text until next week, going to drop it if she flakes next week. She's 19(I'm 20 fyi) and I have a feeling she doesn't have much experience with Tinder or probably "real dating" in general(like not high school dating if that makes sense) and probably just spooked by the idea of actually meeting people from Tinder. So she is just being cautious or something. Does that make sense/good idea?

Seems like she might just be wanting someone to talk to or maybe she's trying to figure out whether or not you're compatible enough for a date

>>17586823

It's not unlikely.

When asking her out, to get a higher chance of success you in a relaxed manner add several alternatives like "hey, you wanna grab a coffee or a drink sometime?" etc, which makes a "no" from being busy or a "no" from not wanting coffee but wanting a drink or vice versa