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How to make a second choice not feel like a second choice 2016-09-19 20:30:40 Post No. 17585355
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How to make a second choice not feel like a second choice
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2016-09-19 20:30:40
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>fall super hard for a girl, she's beautiful and kind but we don't have much in common
>like "hardest crush in my whole life" hard
>look for advice on how to win her over wherever I can
>talk about it a lot with a female coworker whom I've known and gotten really friendly with over, we have tons in common and agree on nearly everything, she's pretty thicc, has a nice face and she's been single the whole time I've known her
>she listens to me and comforts me, gives me advice to the best of her ability and generally seems to enjoy listening to stories about my retarded antics
>slowly dawning on me that my crush will very likely never work out, but I don't want to let her go just yet even though it stresses me out like hell
>on the other hand, start thinking about asking out coworker since, again, we have tons in common and she's pretty in her own right
So, I feel like I'm gonna have to make a final-ish decision fairly soon. Do I drop my crush and go after my coworker or do I not?
If I do, is there any way at all, besides letting some time pass without mentioning my crush, to prevent her feeling like the Option B that she more or less is? In my defense I was considering asking her out a while ago before my crush hit and took my mind off it.
Pic shockingly related. The two of them have similar names and everything.
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pls rspnd
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...Do either one of them know you like them? Have you tried asking your crush out yet?
Seems like you like your coworker more tho t b h
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>>17585355
Don't settle. I did this once, and it was a nightmare.
You'll always think about what could have been with your crush, and your coworker will know she's not who you really wanted.
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>>17585673
Ah, I did tell my crush I liked her. We're in a "let's stay friends" situation right now to be desu, but I'm a huge faggot and was going to ask her out again some time from now. She's broken up fairly recently and I was going to try again when her head is clearer.
Only this has a huge chance of not working, obviously, and I feel my time is more wisely spent paying more attention to my coworker. We already talk and text a million times more than I am with my crush.
Again, I don't want to let go of my crush just yet, but I feel like I'd lose the chance with my coworker for good, thereby fucking up both opportunities.
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>>17585697
Ask crush out. If it doesn't work ask coworker out.
Don't know why going out with crush would lose your opportunities with coworker, unless you actually got into a relationship with your crush. If you get rejected you're still a single man.
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>>17585757
Coworker knows about crush. The big issue would be how to prevent myself from coming off like "Yeah this girl I talked a ton to you about isn't gonna work out, how about you instead?"
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I hope my friend at work doesn't ask me out. Very similar situation but I am 100% not into him. I give him advice because I care as a friend, nothing more.
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>>17585850
Lol OP you're fucked
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i prefer a nice girl i have something with. Looks will fade and so will the interest. She probably will find someone who has more in common with her eventually. so it will be a fleeting relationship
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