When is the correct time to ask a girl on Tinder to meet up?

>>17577728
Ask at a high point in the conversation, when you know you're both laughing. I fucking hate doing it over text because you don't actually know when the 'high points' are - there are a lot of ways to interpret one text message.

In this case, get her number and call her. Have a friendly tone to your voice, let her hear you're the type of guy she would actually want to meet up with.

and P.S: if you find yourself in this situation again, ask yourself "would you want to go out to the woods with words on a screen?"

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Ask her to go somewhere public not the woods you sperglord... Or for a walk in a public park if you must go that route... Ask sooner rather than later... The trick is to ask before you have time time to drop the spaghetti.

>>17577737
Dude I'm way too autistic to talk to her over the phone. I can cope with talking to people face to face but for some reason over the phone I'm a nervous wreck.

>>17577744
Okay perhaps the woods isn't a great idea we need to get to know each other more before that I suppose. Where else could I ask to meet her that doesn't sound super boring and normie?

>>17577769
okay man, plenty of ways to work around that (I was >>17577737 btw).

if you have trouble talking on the phone, the best way to counteract that is to really put yourself in the mindset that you are talking to the person face to face (this is difficult if you don't even know the person, which is why I don't typically recommend it for tinder hookups).

other methods include holding a picture of her in front of you. this is full sperg but can work if you can't put yourself in the above mindset.

and to answer your other question, the first date is going to be coffee 90% of the time, unless you're dating a girl you're trying to dig out of the friendzone. coffee is never boring, and it gives you a base to work from (and in your case, you can put your face to face conversation skills to work or practice them).

Posters itt didn't really look at op's pic related. She's obviously into doing stuff in the woods.

Hello /x/